Loving Pantyjobs

Any reason you haven't asked her to do it for you?

I wish she would up to some bedroom fun of any kind... but she is not into it at all... we had sex once in the last 6 months... not even a handjob... so when I have a chance to get off I wrap her panties around my equipment and enjoy\fantasize... what else can I do?
 
I wish she would up to some bedroom fun of any kind... but she is not into it at all... we had sex once in the last 6 months... not even a handjob... so when I have a chance to get off I wrap her panties around my equipment and enjoy\fantasize... what else can I do?

There are a lot of reasons people aren't interested in sex any more. Have you talked about it? Does she wish she desired more sex and it is a physical issue or even a psychological barrier? Does she have any empathy that you have much stronger desires? She might be willing to do something for you like a pantyjob if she doesn't have to get undressed, have penetration, etc.
 
There are a lot of reasons people aren't interested in sex any more. Have you talked about it? Does she wish she desired more sex and it is a physical issue or even a psychological barrier? Does she have any empathy that you have much stronger desires? She might be willing to do something for you like a pantyjob if she doesn't have to get undressed, have penetration, etc.

have tried to talk, even suggested that we can use our hands only on each other... but nothing ever happens... there is a bit of a medical issue but it should not stop her hands from being active... we have even talked about oral but nothing ever happens... the only way anything happens is if I complain and tell her its been six months and she thinks it is a last month...
 
Love panty job

I love getting one rubbed out in my panties and cleaning up them with my tounge
 
have tried to talk, even suggested that we can use our hands only on each other... but nothing ever happens... there is a bit of a medical issue but it should not stop her hands from being active... we have even talked about oral but nothing ever happens... the only way anything happens is if I complain and tell her its been six months and she thinks it is a last month...

So she doesn't explain why she is not interested? I do compare it to when I have the flu or something. No energy, zero interest in sexy time. I still love my husband but to find the energy to put into being sexy when I'm not feeling it at all is a pretty tall order. So there can be medical issues where her hormone levels have zeroed-out her desires and that's tough to get around. If she was already a person that didn't value sex too highly (if earlier in your marriage you didn't have a lot of sex) you have the compound issue of her not seeing the importance of it.

All that said, I think it would be perfectly fair for you to explain that you're going to take care of yourself and not pressure her any more but that means you're going to be buying/wearing panties, etc etc etc. Or something to that effect.
 
SweetAnnie I done a couple panties while a lady was wearing them. It was so hot when doing it. Had my wife panties on today just took them off. Tried to find a lady that would cam but to no avail. So i havent blown my load still. But might just take it in my own hand an deal with it. You could help Annie
 
So she doesn't explain why she is not interested? I do compare it to when I have the flu or something. No energy, zero interest in sexy time. I still love my husband but to find the energy to put into being sexy when I'm not feeling it at all is a pretty tall order. So there can be medical issues where her hormone levels have zeroed-out her desires and that's tough to get around. If she was already a person that didn't value sex too highly (if earlier in your marriage you didn't have a lot of sex) you have the compound issue of her not seeing the importance of it.

All that said, I think it would be perfectly fair for you to explain that you're going to take care of yourself and not pressure her any more but that means you're going to be buying/wearing panties, etc etc etc. Or something to that effect.

hi, I do not wear the panties I stroke myself to them... it is my way of still feeling close to her... I know she plays in the shower... maybe it is me she just not interested.
 
hi, I do not wear the panties I stroke myself to them... it is my way of still feeling close to her... I know she plays in the shower... maybe it is me she just not interested.

I'm sorry to hear that sweetie. Don't know what to say if she's masturbating in the shower. I suppose she could be going through something like myself where she's letting herself finally admit and embrace a desire for other women? She might be too afraid to admit it if she is concerned you would feel hurt.

I hope you let you enjoy the panty play without any guilt. Seems like you are being quite reasonable in getting your needs met.
 
I'd love to see a GIF or video of a couple, both in panties with him face down and her humping his pantied bottom like she's fucking him. I would think he'd love that. (I've done that with my sissy hubby on numerous occasions back before we added a strapon to our play)
 
hi, I do not wear the panties I stroke myself to them... it is my way of still feeling close to her... I know she plays in the shower... maybe it is me she just not interested.

It is a shame to hear your posts, and that your sex life isn't where you want it to be

It may be your wife has other desires, which you can't meet, like Annie says, or it may be something else, bit what do you want? If your wife is non sexual, do you want to explore other sides of yourself, other turn ons?

It doesn't sound like you are driven to wear panties, just using them as a way of feeling close to your wife, so what else gets your engine revving? Lit covers many many angles, or are you thinking of taking your appetite off campus (either with or without your wife's blessing?)

Whichever, there are a bunch of folks here to help, listen and support
 
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