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Are there any women who love to be guided as they pleasure themselves?

I adore using words and voice to help a woman go from gentle touches and caresses of her breasts and nipples to urgent stroking of her wetness as she seeks and finds release and pleasure.

Please be in touch if this sounds at all appealing.

Dave

Just curious. Are there really any women who are into this?
 
Welcome Erin

Welcome Erin great to have you as part of our little community. Enjoy.

Jack
 
Just a little help from a friend ...

It can be a lot of fun. Personally, I love to provide that direction and tailor my instructions to my partner's needs. Especially over a voice-based connection, it can be quite a delicious game. Both partners following the same guidelines, following exactly what is said. You both can weave a lovely little pocket together that shuts out the rest of the world, leaving the two of you revolving around each other and diving deeper into each other's pleasure. In my experience, it takes two to dance, but what a wonderful dance it can be.
 
Yes, there are women who are very much into this. Why is it surprising? I mean, there are kinks for everyone. :)
 
Yes, there are women who are very much into this. Why is it surprising? I mean, there are kinks for everyone. :)

I asked because I tried it with someone and it was a big fail for me. He kept telling me to do things to myself that were not remotely stimulation and all my mind did was wander to things that weren't even sexual.

Might work if the other person knows you well.
 
I asked because I tried it with someone and it was a big fail for me. He kept telling me to do things to myself that were not remotely stimulation and all my mind did was wander to things that weren't even sexual.

Might work if the other person knows you well.

Maybe you have an issue. Maybe you are just boring. Maybe your sex drive is really low. Seek help.
 
It depends on the guide

I asked because I tried it with someone and it was a big fail for me. He kept telling me to do things to myself that were not remotely stimulation and all my mind did was wander to things that weren't even sexual.

Might work if the other person knows you well.

I like the expression "guided masturbation." I do this with several guys on literotica. Some are good at it and some can't get me off at all. It is just a fun form of cyber sex but just like real sex some guys are great lovers and some are horrible.

The first time I was with a guy I was 16 and I did him all summer long and he never got me off once. But since then I have learned that some guys can drive me crazy with pleasure.

The nice thing about cyber sex is that if it is a "big fail" you can just ignore them.
 
Only with my husband. He does not really have to say much as I pretty much know where my clit is!!!

That's the thing. That's not how I masturbate. Perhaps I'm not typical. When I tried it, he had me stroke my arm, leg, tummy, for a very long time. Now if a guy does that to me, it would feel good. Does nothing when I do it to myself. Also, clit stimulation doesn't do much for me unless/until I've had at least one orgasm. I need internal stimulation for that.
 
Guided masterbation

Fuck do i love it but honestly, i need to be in the mood for that. Sometimes it's nice to let someone else take control.... I'm kinda like to be in charge .
 
That's the thing. That's not how I masturbate. Perhaps I'm not typical. When I tried it, he had me stroke my arm, leg, tummy, for a very long time. Now if a guy does that to me, it would feel good. Does nothing when I do it to myself. Also, clit stimulation doesn't do much for me unless/until I've had at least one orgasm. I need internal stimulation for that.

You should sit in your hand and make it go numb before hand... that way your hand isn’t feeling you... you just feel the hand. 😉
 
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