Hand over Mouth HJ

[eroticspank]

I have seen it in many porn videos and even in BDSM scenarios. It seems to be a fetish or big fantasy. Can someone tell me what is the turn on for "Hand over Mouth" handjobs? Men what do you like about it? Women that do it, what do you like about it?

I had an experience years ago that was a major turn on but I am still not sure why! So I am interested in what other people on her think, their experiences and why it was a such turn on?

ES

 

[Carnevil9]

Whose hand goes over whose mouth? And what's the point?

Ideally, you should be kissing during a handjob. Or doing something useful with your mouth, like sucking each other's nipples.

 

[HornyHal]

I think I’ve only ever seen it in this scene

https://im1.ibsearch.xxx/tc/26/564680de33b475372b54b3762aa58.gif

Is that what you’re talking about?

 

[dz2681]

Never seen that before... think I need do some research

 

[HornyHal]

Futanaria is what you need to search for. Google will not disappoint. I want to google it myself and cum in my pants

 

[eroticspank]

Whose hand goes over whose mouth? And what's the point?

Ideally, you should be kissing during a handjob. Or doing something useful with your mouth, like sucking each other's nipples.

It is usually done in a BDSM scene. The guy is tied up and a Domme is giving him a handjob with lots of edging. If he gets too loud she puts a gag in his mouth or uses her hand. The hand, just like a gag is used to keep him quiet for whatever reason. There are certain turn ons that go with being gagged, not being in control or being controlled and or forced by someone else...etc.

However a hand can be put over the mouth and the nose and yes some people are into that. Done at the right time, it can increase the intensity of his orgasm. The hand can also apply pressure to the mouth making the guy even more silent and the feeling of that pressure can effect his orgasm as well.

Like mentioned above you could be kissing during a HJ but the main reason for the hand over mouth is to have the guy be quiet. If he is kissing he might be moaning and not as quiet.

The woman giving the HJ can look right into the guys eyes while she has her hand over his mouth. This can be very erotic to watch him get close and eventually orgasm while in that position.

Finally, there are probably several situations where this kind of handjob could be done in a non BDSM scenario. Besides the one I just mentioned above, how about at a campground and in a tent? Your gf gives you a HJ and puts a hand over your mouth trying to keep you quiet so people in the other tents don't hear you.

You are in a bedroom with friends or Parents, Inlaws, in the next room trying to keep quiet. I have done this only we were having intercourse and I had my hand over my gf's mouth. It was a big turn on for her and now I can see how it might be for a guy getting a HJ with a hand over his mouth.

ES

 

[GuessImJamie]

Using your hand(s) while giving a BJ before you slip his head into your throat is delish... Otherwise uncertain of point...

 

[Carnevil9]

It is usually done in a BDSM scene. The guy is tied up and a Domme is giving him a handjob with lots of edging. If he gets too loud she puts a gag in his mouth or uses her hand. The hand, just like a gag is used to keep him quiet for whatever reason. There are certain turn ons that go with being gagged, not being in control or being controlled and or forced by someone else...etc.

However a hand can be put over the mouth and the nose and yes some people are into that. Done at the right time, it can increase the intensity of his orgasm. The hand can also apply pressure to the mouth making the guy even more silent and the feeling of that pressure can effect his orgasm as well.

Like mentioned above you could be kissing during a HJ but the main reason for the hand over mouth is to have the guy be quiet. If he is kissing he might be moaning and not as quiet.

The woman giving the HJ can look right into the guys eyes while she has her hand over his mouth. This can be very erotic to watch him get close and eventually orgasm while in that position.

Finally, there are probably several situations where this kind of handjob could be done in a non BDSM scenario. Besides the one I just mentioned above, how about at a campground and in a tent? Your gf gives you a HJ and puts a hand over your mouth trying to keep you quiet so people in the other tents don't hear you.

You are in a bedroom with friends or Parents, Inlaws, in the next room trying to keep quiet. I have done this only we were having intercourse and I had my hand over my gf's mouth. It was a big turn on for her and now I can see how it might be for a guy getting a HJ with a hand over his mouth.

ES

Thanks for the explanation. Still doesn't sound very tempting, though. When I'm having sex of any sort, I'm more focused on maximizing both of our pleasure than on keeping quiet.

 

[eroticspank]

Thanks for the explanation. Still doesn't sound very tempting, though. When I'm having sex of any sort, I'm more focused on maximizing both of our pleasure than on keeping quiet.

https://www.pornhub.com/video/search?search=hand+over+mouth+handjob

I understand, it certainly is not for everyone. There does seem to be a following online since there are so many videos out.

It seems to me that this type of Handjob is done generally in a BDSM scenario where the woman is focusing on the man. The handjob could be the end of a long session of teasing, denial, spanking, or other things. When the Domme is ready for the man to cum she gives him a very slow handjob. Just prior to his orgasm she puts her hand over his mouth, all that built up energy only has one place to exit, his dick resulting in a big squirt and a intense orgasm....at least that is my theory.

Some hand over mouth HJs include a humiliation element which can be a big turn for some as well. I think a big part of the turn on is actually in the person's head...no pun intended..your brain is the biggest sex organ.

That is why I started this thread, to get input from people who find it a turn on and for them to tell us what they like about it.

ES

 

[bowlingstoned333]

I have seen it in many porn videos and even in BDSM scenarios. It seems to be a fetish or big fantasy. Can someone tell me what is the turn on for "Hand over Mouth" handjobs? Men what do you like about it? Women that do it, what do you like about it?

I had an experience years ago that was a major turn on but I am still not sure why! So I am interested in what other people on her think, their experiences and why it was a such turn on?

ES

From another man's POV and speaking for myself and as a switch, I enjoy dominating over my girl while on top or behind. She's a sub and seems to flood even harder when she's being hushed, usually by my hand over her mouth. I'll whisper in her ear and tell her she's a good girl, and for some reason it's a flat out turn on.
When she goes into brat mode, however, it makes me want to rail her all the harder, which is the usual result!

On the flipside the fun part and playing the sub is watching her be confident in herself to take charge, so it's like an exchange of power. She'll jack me off with a hand over my mouth and call me a good boy. And once I begin cumming, she'll clamp down harder over my mouth with her hand and go faster, going "Shhhh..." all the while. It just fuels us in its own way, and it's hot as fuck.

 

[eroticspank]

I have been in several situations where we had to be quiet while fucking. We were in the bedroom at home with our Parents next door, in a hotel room with friends--who we didn't want to know we were dating-- next door, etc. My gf could not keep quiet so I put my hand over her mouth. As she got close to orgasm I would press harder on her mouth and that seemed to intensify her orgasm. Knowing we were doing something naughty next door and trying not to get caught was hot! Add to that the hand over the mouth and it was intense.

Later on, I had girlfriends do it to me and it is intense. I don't usually scream out during orgasm but I do moan and let out a fairly loud sigh. If I have to keep quiet, it is like holding my breath, very intense and my face gets really red.
ES

 

[eroticspank]

From another man's POV and speaking for myself and as a switch, I enjoy dominating over my girl while on top or behind. She's a sub and seems to flood even harder when she's being hushed, usually by my hand over her mouth. I'll whisper in her ear and tell her she's a good girl, and for some reason it's a flat out turn on.
When she goes into brat mode, however, it makes me want to rail her all the harder, which is the usual result!

On the flipside the fun part and playing the sub is watching her be confident in herself to take charge, so it's like an exchange of power. She'll jack me off with a hand over my mouth and call me a good boy. And once I begin cumming, she'll clamp down harder over my mouth with her hand and go faster, going "Shhhh..." all the while. It just fuels us in its own way, and it's hot as fuck.

That does sound "hot as fuck".
ES

 

[bowlingstoned333]

That does sound "hot as fuck".
ES

Ohhhh it is. I bust hard every time.