Bachelorette Party Ideas

[Sheana_V]

Let's play a game, and you can give me advice.

Okay, so I am planning a Bachelorette party happening in a couple months. The Bride To Be is far more reserved an less wild than me.
However, she explicitly stated to me that she chose me because I have a lot more experience "being wild" than she does. She also strongly hinted to me that she wants a taste of what she perceives as my wild lifestyle before she's hitched.

So I was pondering what to do for her party, then an idea came to me. What would people on lit say if they had this Bride To Be's fate in their hands.

Also, I'm going to tell her that whatever she does on the night of her party is going to be shared publicly on an internet forum. So you all will get feedback about how the night played out.

One thing to keep in mind is that we're going to have to ease her through any boundaries, as I suspect she'll just refuse it we jump right to anything too crazy, so think about how to slowly get her out of her shell.

Before the night happens I'll check in here to let everyone know how I've incorporated the different ideas into a plan, and then report back on what happened after I've recovered from the impending hangover.

Also, feel free to ask questions.

 

[JerseyJade]

Let's play a game, and you can give me advice.

Okay, so I am planning a Bachelorette party happening in a couple months. The Bride To Be is far more reserved an less wild than me.
However, she explicitly stated to me that she chose me because I have a lot more experience "being wild" than she does. She also strongly hinted to me that she wants a taste of what she perceives as my wild lifestyle before she's hitched.

So I was pondering what to do for her party, then an idea came to me. What would people on lit say if they had this Bride To Be's fate in their hands.

Also, I'm going to tell her that whatever she does on the night of her party is going to be shared publicly on an internet forum. So you all will get feedback about how the night played out.

One thing to keep in mind is that we're going to have to ease her through any boundaries, as I suspect she'll just refuse it we jump right to anything too crazy, so think about how to slowly get her out of her shell.

Before the night happens I'll check in here to let everyone know how I've incorporated the different ideas into a plan, and then report back on what happened after I've recovered from the impending hangover.

Also, feel free to ask questions.

Male strippers! Don't forget to invite me!

 

[Snowbunnie12]

If money or geographical travel isn’t a concern I had a blast in Las Vegas for Mine! Key west or lake havasu are both fun!

 

[pornochic]

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[QuasiSemiDemiEsqueIsh]

Ok, this first part isn’t related to fun activities or anything, but honestly, the best advice I can offer is to keep in mind the general comfort and sexual orientations of everyone who’s going. Are all the women attending heterosexual? Are they all allosexual? A lesbian and/or demisexual/asexual/grey-ace woman is probably not going to enjoy male strippers. It’s ok to still have strippers if that’s what you want to do, but please keep in mind that anyone who’s clearly not into it probably has a good reason and isn’t just being a stick in the mud/party pooper/whatever.

I’ve been to a few bachelorette parties, and I’m demisexual and therefore not interested in strippers or in games like “what celebrity/stranger would you fuck?” Now, I’m fine with everyone else enjoying those things, so I just back away and wait for the boring (to me) parts of the night to be over so I can start having fun.

But it seems like there’s always one woman who gets drunk and decides my non-participation is a personal affront, because I’m “not having fun” or I’m “being a prude” or whatever. This woman always winds up pressuring me to “loosen up” and sometimes even physically forces me to do things I haven’t consented to (I had one woman grab my arm, pull me over to a stripper, and put my hand on his body, and it was soooo uncomfortable for everyone except for the consent violator). Obviously, I’m gonna speak up when someone is doing bullshit like that, so it always winds up being this big drama that just brings everyone down in the end.

So please just don’t pressure people who are clearly uninterested in participating but aren’t interfering in everyone else’s participation, and since you’re organizing, consider making it a rule that everyone has to respect everyone else’s boundaries.

There. Now to the ideas portion.

As far as fun things to do... maybe going to one of those cheesy, vanilla sex shops that sell cheap dildos and even cheaper role play costumes? Conservative, vanilla women seem to find it oh-so-risqué to buy fuzzy handcuffs and touch dildos, so it could be a fun way to ease in to other things. And they might find something new to explore.

You could also have everyone write out sexual secrets and put them all in a bowl, pass the bowl around, and have everyone read one of them out loud. That was a thing we did at my sister’s bachelorette party, and she’s the fuzzy handcuffs type.

Those are both pretty tame to me, but I certainly know women who would find them super wild. You could adapt them/wild them up pretty easily, too, e.g. everyone has to buy a lingerie item or cheap toy and wear it, etc.

 

[waratah]

Ok, this first part isn’t related to fun activities or anything, but honestly, the best advice I can offer is to keep in mind the general comfort and sexual orientations of everyone who’s going. Are all the women attending heterosexual? Are they all allosexual? A lesbian and/or demisexual/asexual/grey-ace woman is probably not going to enjoy male strippers. It’s ok to still have strippers if that’s what you want to do, but please keep in mind that anyone who’s clearly not into it probably has a good reason and isn’t just being a stick in the mud/party pooper/whatever.

I’ve been to a few bachelorette parties, and I’m demisexual and therefore not interested in strippers or in games like “what celebrity/stranger would you fuck?” Now, I’m fine with everyone else enjoying those things, so I just back away and wait for the boring (to me) parts of the night to be over so I can start having fun.

But it seems like there’s always one woman who gets drunk and decides my non-participation is a personal affront, because I’m “not having fun” or I’m “being a prude” or whatever. This woman always winds up pressuring me to “loosen up” and sometimes even physically forces me to do things I haven’t consented to (I had one woman grab my arm, pull me over to a stripper, and put my hand on his body, and it was soooo uncomfortable for everyone except for the consent violator). Obviously, I’m gonna speak up when someone is doing bullshit like that, so it always winds up being this big drama that just brings everyone down in the end.

So please just don’t pressure people who are clearly uninterested in participating but aren’t interfering in everyone else’s participation, and since you’re organizing, consider making it a rule that everyone has to respect everyone else’s boundaries.

There. Now to the ideas portion.

As far as fun things to do... maybe going to one of those cheesy, vanilla sex shops that sell cheap dildos and even cheaper role play costumes? Conservative, vanilla women seem to find it oh-so-risqué to buy fuzzy handcuffs and touch dildos, so it could be a fun way to ease in to other things. And they might find something new to explore.

You could also have everyone write out sexual secrets and put them all in a bowl, pass the bowl around, and have everyone read one of them out loud. That was a thing we did at my sister’s bachelorette party, and she’s the fuzzy handcuffs type.

Those are both pretty tame to me, but I certainly know women who would find them super wild. You could adapt them/wild them up pretty easily, too, e.g. everyone has to buy a lingerie item or cheap toy and wear it, etc.

Very good point, the first bit about consent etc. If someone is going to potentially sabotage their wedding and future, atleast make it their decision, not coercion from 'friends'.

 

[Yerkiddin]

Why not start early, just bride & best friend, to get a massage before lunch. Add bride's maids for lunch, scavenger hunt or somesuch after lunch, then dinner, followed by drinks & dancing out, then off to a club (or back home) for the stripper(s)? Would that work?

 

[screwher]

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Mmm thanks for this. If Mrs. Screwher and I were to renew our vows I'd be more than thrilled for her to have a bachelorette party. I'll even pay for the Male Stripper with Benefits! Or maybe we have our own private party. Complete with the stripper giving my Bride-To-Be an early wedding present on our marital bed!!

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

My rates as a male stripper are very reasonable.

 

[screwher]

My rates as a male stripper are very reasonable.

Sold!

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

Sold!

Let me know when you want to book for your wife.

 

[jharp]

So are you talking about your friend getting some strange cock on her Bachelorette party?

 

[nassauguy_2001]

... One thing to keep in mind is that we're going to have to ease her through any boundaries, as I suspect she'll just refuse it we jump right to anything too crazy, so think about how to slowly get her out of her shell.

Alcohol, works every time

 

[OpenMouth]

I think she really needs to have a stranger's cock in her mouth in front of all her friends. Not only that, but she has to be the only woman to suck cock that night.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I'd recommend a party destination (like Las Vegas) with a game sort of like a scavenger hunt with a long list of dares/challenges that each participant gets points for completing. The challenges could range from the tame/mundane, such as "dance with a stranger" or "get a selfie with a street performer" to more daring challenges, like "flash a stranger," "place a bill ($) in someone's underwear," or even more daring, like, "make out with a friend," "dance on a stage/table," and so on, whatever the group would find fun, but also a bit naughty. At the end of the night, tally up the scores and give prizes for things like "Most Daring" or "Prude Princess" based on the scores and the kinds of challenges they performed.

 

[ericrodman101]

I think she really needs to have a stranger's cock in her mouth in front of all her friends. Not only that, but she has to be the only woman to suck cock that night.

Agreed, she needs to suck a cock in front of everyone, but you're never gonna keep the other girls off the stripper. Two strippers is probably best, just so there's a bit more cock to go round. And I'd be tempted to keep it a secret from the bride, but tell everyone else what's happening so they behave or at least form an orderly queue after she's had her turn.