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Are women over 50 invisible?

Restarting a brush fire from long ago

In my last years of college I met a fellow student that was divorced, and 8 years older. We came from an abusive marriage. We hit it off and had great sex until I joined the Service and we broke up. Fast Forward 40 years, I was back home in St Louis and looked her up and we had lunch together. She had not had sex for over ten years and never had sex toys. So I purchased online a high end vibrator and had it delivered to her house. I was notified it was delivered so I called her the next day. She answered and I could tell she was out of breath. I said how are you doing? and she said I have been coming all day with the vibrator and never squirted until now. She went onto say, she had changed the sheets to her bed three times that day and is walking all day with only a t-shirt on. Currently, she had a bag of frozen peas between her legs to cool down her pussy. About a month later I went back and it was endless sex for 48 hours. She wants now to have various threesomes MFM and FMF. Also she now has several vibrators that all specialize in various parts of the body.
 
Serious crush

I am totally crushing on a 55 year old. She’s my favorite dance partner and looks great. I’m married so not going to do anything but she’s been fantasy fodder for a while. I admit I thought she was under 50.
 
Booboobear84 said:
I am totally crushing on a 55 year old. She’s my favorite dance partner and looks great. I’m married so not going to do anything but she’s been fantasy fodder for a while. I admit I thought she was under 50.
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Women in their 20's and 30's are just so darn good looking, naturally, without much effort. I didn't realize that when I was that age; I was also trying to lose those last 10 lbs. or spending way too much time on complicated hairstyles. In my 50's, it does take a more effort to stay looking "good" for most of us (there are exceptions, indeed).

It makes sense, biologically, that women who are most likely to be fertile are the most attractive. At times I feel a society expectation for older woman to try to fight their aging appearance. I had a boyfriend when I was in my early 30's who practically denied the inevitability of aging for women. He believed that women had a responsibility to look as good as they could as they aged, through makeup, dieting, surgery, clothing, etc: whatever it took.

Now I'm starting to think invisibility isn't so bad. I'll always try to look presentable and well groomed, and I will enjoy the increasingly rare times when I sense a man is responding to me. But perhaps letting go of some of this will free me up for other things at this stage of my life. I don't think of this as giving up or "letting myself go".
 
quietlylooking said:
Women in their 20's and 30's are just so darn good looking, naturally, without much effort. I didn't realize that when I was that age; I was also trying to lose those last 10 lbs. or spending way too much time on complicated hairstyles. In my 50's, it does take a more effort to stay looking "good" for most of us (there are exceptions, indeed).

It makes sense, biologically, that women who are most likely to be fertile are the most attractive. At times I feel a society expectation for older woman to try to fight their aging appearance. I had a boyfriend when I was in my early 30's who practically denied the inevitability of aging for women. He believed that women had a responsibility to look as good as they could as they aged, through makeup, dieting, surgery, clothing, etc: whatever it took.

Now I'm starting to think invisibility isn't so bad. I'll always try to look presentable and well groomed, and I will enjoy the increasingly rare times when I sense a man is responding to me. But perhaps letting go of some of this will free me up for other things at this stage of my life. I don't think of this as giving up or "letting myself go".
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I doubt that you'll become invisible, rather it will be as you say that you may have rarer occasions when men look at you, but they may see you, a person with life under her belt and experience in her mind, free from the biological imperatives you mention, to pursue your own interests, desires and goals.

Some people, men and women, do seem happier fading from visibility, but it appears that is a choice, rather than just because of age. There is vulnerability in sticking a head above the parapet and being seen and sharing in relationships.
 
Interesting question, in some ways yes, in others; no. Not as visible as they once had been.
 
Cannot say I look at age when I look at a woman...that said women in their 50s still are beautiful creatures with beautiful bodies to rival 20 somethings. may not be as substantive to the touch, like breasts but still gorgeous!
 
So I was at work yesterday and saw a woman had a lil pillow on her desk chair it said " I'd rather be 50 than pregnant " just thought it was appropriate...
 
Boredom remover

Boredhousewife1970 said:
I sure hope not almost there 😬
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Hi Boredhousewife,

Would love to chat with you and see if I can relieve your boredom however you want it to be gone. I'll share more details but one thing we have in common is the other spouse just can't fulfill the needs and desires. So, basically looking for something via Lit. PM me if you are interested and I'd be happy to share more.
 
I’m 53 and proud to be and I have plenty of lovely guys who apparently still want me!

I feel like I’m in peak everything, much more relaxed and I know what I like and am confident sexually.

I think it’s more that some men just aren’t up to handling what we bring to the table. Independence, defined sexuality, assurance, confidence and maturity. Those men would rather have a moldable 20-30 yr old. That alone means I won’t give them the time of day, because they’re never gonna keep me satisfied intellectually if they’d rather be with a submissive girl and not a real woman!

They also will probably fail to satisfy me sexually, as I don’t do mediocrity, young women will not judge them the same as an older sexually mature woman, so it’s an easier gig for the man!

Mic drop
 
quietlylooking said:
"French author, 50, says women over 50 are too old to love
Yann Moix, a prize-winning novelist, says women of same age are ‘invisible’ to him."

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Any man who thinks that, doesn't now what he is missing. More experience = more assurance, more fun.
 
DDBustyBrit said:
I’m 53 and proud to be and I have plenty of lovely guys who apparently still want me!

I feel like I’m in peak everything, much more relaxed and I know what I like and am confident sexually.

I think it’s more that some men just aren’t up to handling what we bring to the table. Independence, defined sexuality, assurance, confidence and maturity. Those men would rather have a moldable 20-30 yr old. That alone means I won’t give them the time of day, because they’re never gonna keep me satisfied intellectually if they’d rather be with a submissive girl and not a real woman!

They also will probably fail to satisfy me sexually, as I don’t do mediocrity, young women will not judge them the same as an older sexually mature woman, so it’s an easier gig for the man!

Mic drop
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Damn... love the confidence factor
 
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