Pretty Sure They Masturbate Thinking of You?

[woodword]

Who do you think is pleasing themselves with fun thoughts of you in their head? What clues do you have? Are you pleased with the prospect?

 

[woodword]

weekend bump

 

[LauraWilling]

I feel a few members use fantasies of me as stroking material as well as pictures I have posted on Lit and sent to a few people. I love pleasing others even if in a fantasy. I feel it is very much a huge compliment to me that they feel I am worthy of their efforts and shooting their seed. Thank you to all that maybe using me as masturbation material. It makes me feel very good.

 

[Tnt69]

I feel a few members use fantasies of me as stroking material as well as pictures I have posted on Lit and sent to a few people. I love pleasing others even if in a fantasy. I feel it is very much a huge compliment to me that they feel I am worthy of their efforts and shooting their seed. Thank you to all that maybe using me as masturbation material. It makes me feel very good.

What she said! I feel honored that someone paddles the pickle to thoughts of me.

 

[Thefallenone1986]

What she said! I feel honored that someone paddles the pickle to thoughts of me.

aways tnt

 

[Easyvirtue]

I have a feeling my flirting with coworkers has led to them “letting their fingers do the walking” on several occasions. I get some random texts from one in particular in the evenings. I must say I imagine this one in particular bare ass naked screaming my name as she cums!

 

[ned63]

Tnt I all ways stroke to your pictures. What a classy lady mmm

 

[HampshireBoy]

A married co worker and i regularly have slightly risque conversations. It started when i commented on the tattoo that she has on her thigh. She has told me that she has dreamt about me a couple of times. I know i have thought about her when masturbating and love the thought that she might be thinking about me when doing the same.

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

The half a dozen or so married fellows at the BBQ/ birthday party we attended this past Saturday.

I'm sooo glad I decided to wear that sundress that I thought was a bit " too short "

 

[HonkOnBobo]

not sure any one cares

 

[QuasiSemiDemiEsqueIsh]

Who do you think is pleasing themselves with fun thoughts of you in their head? What clues do you have? Are you pleased with the prospect?

I know two exes do because they told me so. Same with a few creepy former acquaintances who tried to befriend me in the hopes it would get their dicks wet and then turned stalkery when they felt “friend zoned.”

Also, one friend of an ex because apparently “bros before hos” means “I’m obligated to share pictures of tits with my friends when a woman sends them to me, and I’m not going to get the consent of the woman in question or even tell her that I’ve shared the photos I promised wouldn’t get shared; I’m just going to wait until my friend, whom she’s never spoken to before, tells her all about how he came when he realized her nipple is shaped kind of like a heart.”

At the time—I was 21 and filled with internalized misogyny—, I took it as a compliment. Now, it really creeps me out, and it bothers me that I felt flattered. He was right, though; it is kind of shaped like a heart.

I like hearing about my partners masturbating while thinking of me. I like hearing about it with people I’m sexually attracted to but not partnered with—currently, no one. I feel a little flattered when an ex tells me about it, especially if it’s because of how I made them feel rather than how I look. Anyone else, I don’t need to know, I don’t want to know, I won’t consider on my own, and I’ll feel anything from uncomfortable to livid if they tell me about it.

 

[woodword]

I think maybe a former co-worker has thought of me during her fun time. I sure hope so!

She ran into me recently and gave me a much bigger hug than our acquaintance would warrant. Then the next day I sent a work related enewsletter that let me track responses. She was the number one opener with 9 opens throughout the day, with the last one at 11 that night. I saw that and was hoping she liked looking at me (it was a boring article so that couldn't have been it) and began to stroke myself then too, hoping we were pleasing ourselves while fantasizing of each other at the same time.

She is a petite brunette runner mom of 2 in her early 40s. I once ran behind her in a 5k and confess to slowing my pace a bit to enjoy the view.

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

I've been told that I've been in a few " spank banks " by guys

I always reply back with " thank you for the compliment "!!

 

[MascaraRuns]

Who do you think is pleasing themselves with fun thoughts of you in their head? What clues do you have? Are you pleased with the prospect?

I wish my husband, but that wont happen. I'd have to say my fwb has. I know because he has told me, that and I've seen pictures. Am I pleased? Of course I am. I've done the same for him.

 

[woodword]

Thanks for all the great posts! Anyone else ready to share?

 

[Shelly2inme]

We should all be open about it

The world would be such a much better place if we could all be open and honest about our sexual desires and needs. Imagine how great it would be to go up to someone and just say, "When I was masturbating this morning I was thinking about you." I can do that here on Literotica but in my "real" life if I went up to a guy and told him that I was doing myself while I had my vibrator humming in my pussy they would think I am a nympho-slut. Of course a lot of guys would respond in a favorable way but the word would get out and the angry villagers would storm the castle with torches and pitchforks... so to speak.

But since we all think about sex with others how sad that we are "forced" by absurd social "norms" to keep it lock up in our head.

 

[michael2956]

The world would be such a much better place if we could all be open and honest about our sexual desires and needs. Imagine how great it would be to go up to someone and just say, "When I was masturbating this morning I was thinking about you." I can do that here on Literotica but in my "real" life if I went up to a guy and told him that I was doing myself while I had my vibrator humming in my pussy they would think I am a nympho-slut. Of course a lot of guys would respond in a favorable way but the word would get out and the angry villagers would storm the castle with torches and pitchforks... so to speak.

But since we all think about sex with others how sad that we are "forced" by absurd social "norms" to keep it lock up in our head.

A former co-worker and I admitted having fantasies about each other and masturbating to them...

 

[StrongMaster7]

I told an old gf that I had jerked off to her and she nearly passed out! She couldn't believe it / was so turned on by hearing me tell her.

The next day she called me at work and whispered that she had thought of me while rubbing herself to orgasm the night before as her husband slept beside her.

It turned me on so much to imagine that scene.

I'd LOVE to know if anyone else done or ever has!

 

[QuasiSemiDemiEsqueIsh]

But since we all think about sex with others how sad that we are "forced" by absurd social "norms" to keep it lock up in our head.

I’m not disputing the main point of your post. I see your point. But having said that, I don’t think this sentence is entirely accurate. It would be more accurate to limit it to allosexual people. As a demi person, I don’t think about sex with anyone I’m not in a relationship with. The idea of sex with a coworker or casual acquaintance actively grossed me out. Asexual people and grey-ace people are gonna be even less interested in hearing about others’ sexual thoughts than I am.

I guess what I’m saying is: I see your point, but your reasoning fails to account for those of us who aren’t allosexual.

 

[Shelly2inme]

I agree

I’m not disputing the main point of your post. I see your point. But having said that, I don’t think this sentence is entirely accurate. It would be more accurate to limit it to allosexual people. As a demi person, I don’t think about sex with anyone I’m not in a relationship with. The idea of sex with a coworker or casual acquaintance actively grossed me out. Asexual people and grey-ace people are gonna be even less interested in hearing about others’ sexual thoughts than I am.

I guess what I’m saying is: I see your point, but your reasoning fails to account for those of us who aren’t allosexual.

I totally agree. My intent was to comment on what is typical rather than what is universal. But when I said: "we ALL" - the use of the word all removes exceptions. I find that the superlative statement is frequently an overreach. I appreciate your drawing attention to this point.

Also, I don't really understand how you feel about sex. If you can help me understand your thoughts and feelings about sex I would appreciate it. I love sex so much that it is hard for me to understand why anyone would not feel the same way. But I recognize that is imposing what I enjoy on others and it is obvious that we are all different. I know that some women can't understand why women like me love to suck cock and others can't understand why I love girl on girl sex. To me it seems so natural and obvious but I really do want to "see" through other peoples eyes.

You can PM me or just post more about how you view sex and why.

Thank you.

 

[roc23]

The half a dozen or so married fellows at the BBQ/ birthday party we attended this past Saturday.

I'm sooo glad I decided to wear that sundress that I thought was a bit " too short "

Could you imagine how many loads of cum you were responsible for right after that bbq?

 

[QuasiSemiDemiEsqueIsh]

Also, I don't really understand how you feel about sex. If you can help me understand your thoughts and feelings about sex I would appreciate it. I love sex so much that it is hard for me to understand why anyone would not feel the same way. But I recognize that is imposing what I enjoy on others and it is obvious that we are all different. I know that some women can't understand why women like me love to suck cock and others can't understand why I love girl on girl sex. To me it seems so natural and obvious but I really do want to "see" through other peoples eyes.

You can PM me or just post more about how you view sex and why.

Thank you.

Well, I also love sex. I have a reasonably high libido, though it gets higher when I’m regularly having sex and lower when I’m not. When I was monogamous, my partners often joked that I should be polyamorous because they could use the help keeping up with my libido. I absolutely love sex. But libido is very different from attraction for me.

Attraction can be purely physical/aesthetic, romantic, platonic, or sexual. For a lot of allosexual people, some of all of these forms of attraction are melded together and don’t often or usually occur separately. For me, they’re all completely separate things.

The best way I can explain it is with an analogy. Take a straight, allosexual man, for instance. He’s only attracted to women, but he can still look at another man and recognize that the other man is physically/aesthetically attractive, that he’s good-looking. But that doesn’t mean he wants to have sex with the other man or that he’ll masturbate while thinking of him. Because he’s only attracted to women.

For me, attraction doesn’t depend on gender identity. I’m just as likely to develop an attraction for a man or non-binary person as I am for a woman. What matters is how emotionally connected I am to someone. If I don’t have an emotional bond with someone, it’s like a straight man looking at another man. The idea of having sex *with them* is unappealing and, frankly, repulsive, but that doesn’t have any effect on how much I want sex—I just only want it with someone I’m emotionally bonded to.

Does that explain it?

 

[Corbie]

The half a dozen or so married fellows at the BBQ/ birthday party we attended this past Saturday.

I'm sooo glad I decided to wear that sundress that I thought was a bit " too short "

care to show us a picture of you in that sundress?

 

[Saucy_Minx_2_Flirt_With]

Could you imagine how many loads of cum you were responsible for right after that bbq?

Trust me I've imagined over and over since that day the thought of them going home to be with their SOs to fuck them hard and perhaps in their minds they thought about me instead hhmmmmm?

 

[guffmut]

Trust me I've imagined over and over since that day the thought of them going home to be with their SOs to fuck them hard and perhaps in their minds they thought about me instead hhmmmmm?

I'd bet a lot of them were giving it to them from behind HARD, grabbing shoulders and pulling hair.