PandorazNerd
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Back story on me real quick before my question sorry.
I come from a backwards town where being bi or gay in general is really frowned upon. Like you dont speak of it or be seen walking hand in hand with your partner or you could get crap thrown at you. So i never really had a chance to really find myself sexually until i moved away in my mid twenties after school. I had one or two friends with benefits with girls in my teens but no serious relationship with girls until now. I met this girl that i really like, we have been dating for a little bit over a year now, im her first real girl relationship and vice versa, she is bi as well. She grew up in a similar way i did but with her family. She does not hide me or our relationship in public or infront of friends and family. My questions are again sorry if they are ridiculous i just dont really know any other lgbt people in my life to talk too.
1. Is it normal for your partner not to want to go down on you or really care if you dont get off physically? It doesnt really bother me that she doesnt i am just curious on this one. Im one of those people mentally i can "get off" knowing your getting off from me and im pleasing someone.
2. Lately my girl has been getting obsessed with training for new sport she is trying to get into (im helping her train) but we have been having a lot less sex. like we used to in the begining like rabbits like every couple lol. Then like once maybe twice a week just because of our work schedules but lately it has been 3 weeks since we have been intimate, and im not sure if its because she is obsessed with this new thing and spend all her free time planning and training or if there is something else going on or if this is kinda normal wants you settle in to a relationship and feel comfortable. We live together and i know she isnt cheating on me.
I come from a backwards town where being bi or gay in general is really frowned upon. Like you dont speak of it or be seen walking hand in hand with your partner or you could get crap thrown at you. So i never really had a chance to really find myself sexually until i moved away in my mid twenties after school. I had one or two friends with benefits with girls in my teens but no serious relationship with girls until now. I met this girl that i really like, we have been dating for a little bit over a year now, im her first real girl relationship and vice versa, she is bi as well. She grew up in a similar way i did but with her family. She does not hide me or our relationship in public or infront of friends and family. My questions are again sorry if they are ridiculous i just dont really know any other lgbt people in my life to talk too.
1. Is it normal for your partner not to want to go down on you or really care if you dont get off physically? It doesnt really bother me that she doesnt i am just curious on this one. Im one of those people mentally i can "get off" knowing your getting off from me and im pleasing someone.
2. Lately my girl has been getting obsessed with training for new sport she is trying to get into (im helping her train) but we have been having a lot less sex. like we used to in the begining like rabbits like every couple lol. Then like once maybe twice a week just because of our work schedules but lately it has been 3 weeks since we have been intimate, and im not sure if its because she is obsessed with this new thing and spend all her free time planning and training or if there is something else going on or if this is kinda normal wants you settle in to a relationship and feel comfortable. We live together and i know she isnt cheating on me.
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