Swingers

[atariblue]

Are there any swingers in the group? Are you a couple? Single? Interested in hearing about your experiences. I've been in the lifestyle on and off for about three years. If I attended every party I'd be broke lol... But seriously being a single male in the LS definitely has it's challenges. Single guys are at times excluded from parties, always get charged more, or just ignored by couples or single females. Don't get me wrong I've had great experiences, it's just the nature of the game. I would love to meet people in the LS and chat. Would be awesome to meet someone in real life to go with to a party. Feel free to pm or reach out on Kik if you want to chat

 

[screwher]

Are there any swingers in the group? Are you a couple? Single? Interested in hearing about your experiences. I've been in the lifestyle on and off for about three years. If I attended every party I'd be broke lol... But seriously being a single male in the LS definitely has it's challenges. Single guys are at times excluded from parties, always get charged more, or just ignored by couples or single females. Don't get me wrong I've had great experiences, it's just the nature of the game. I would love to meet people in the LS and chat. Would be awesome to meet someone in real life to go with to a party. Feel free to pm or reach out on Kik if you want to chat

If my wife and I were to go to a swingers party, it's a single guy like yourself that we'd be interested in. We're a hotwife couple, not swingers. My wife wouldn't be able to handle me getting physical with another woman.

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Are there any swingers in the group? Are you a couple? Single? Interested in hearing about your experiences. I've been in the lifestyle on and off for about three years. If I attended every party I'd be broke lol... But seriously being a single male in the LS definitely has it's challenges. Single guys are at times excluded from parties, always get charged more, or just ignored by couples or single females. Don't get me wrong I've had great experiences, it's just the nature of the game. I would love to meet people in the LS and chat. Would be awesome to meet someone in real life to go with to a party. Feel free to pm or reach out on Kik if you want to chat

Hey atariblue,

I'm sure there are some swingers on here, just try to keep your thread going long enough for them to find you. My wife and I had explored the life style (again) a few years ago and were on AAF and SLS websites for awhile.

Unfortunately, you're right about single guys being excluded or/and charged more, or the number of single males being limited at any given event. I have seen specialized house parties advertised thrown by individuals looking for single males. Usually for gangbangs or bukkake parties.

Good luck!

 

[Gotitstill2]

If my wife and I were to go to a swingers party, it's a single guy like yourself that we'd be interested in. We're a hotwife couple, not swingers. My wife wouldn't be able to handle me getting physical with another woman.

screwher, where do you suggest an experienced older man find such a couple like you and your wife... I recently spent an entire day with a man and wife... she was a true hot wife ad her hubby was a very gracious man. I loved playing with her and showing him the respect as her husband and love of her life.... for her it was all out non stop play and for him it was like the shepherd standing watch over the sheep... although I was the wolf who came to eat his lamb I was respectful of the shepherd... I loved the entire day and so did my wife.... she loves to watch me with other women so we all got our kink fix that day....love your advice on finding more situations...

 

[atariblue]

If my wife and I were to go to a swingers party, it's a single guy like yourself that we'd be interested in. We're a hotwife couple, not swingers. My wife wouldn't be able to handle me getting physical with another woman.

Hi screwher! Thank you for the kind words. I hope others swingers feel that way too lol. I've seen the hotwife situation where the husband and wife go to the club and she plays while he watches. Haven't had the chance to do that yet. Definitely on my fuck-it list.

Hey atariblue,

I'm sure there are some swingers on here, just try to keep your thread going long enough for them to find you. My wife and I had explored the life style (again) a few years ago and were on AAF and SLS websites for awhile.

Unfortunately, you're right about single guys being excluded or/and charged more, or the number of single males being limited at any given event. I have seen specialized house parties advertised thrown by individuals looking for single males. Usually for gangbangs or bukkake parties.

Good luck!

Hi MK! I'll certainly keep at it and keep this thread going. I'm on SLS, and other than signing up to my local swinger club for parties I've had no success on connecting with anyone through messages. Not sure what I'm doing wrong. That's why I reached out to the Lit community to get some advice and insight. Who knows, maybe I'll meet someone on here lol.

Thank you for the encouragement.

 

[69johnmichaels]

Single swinger

I have been "swinging" for many years as a single guy. In my area there is not much demand for a single guy, couples seeking couples is the rule. However, the couples that have invited me to join them have, as a rule, been fantastic. Over the years I have morphed from arrow straight to enjoying more "variety".

 

[Shelly2inme]

The swing of things

Four years ago my husband Carl and I got into the idea of sharing me. At first we were just into me going one on one with guys or doing DP with my husband and another guy. But in time my girlfriend Heather and I did a FMF for her husband.

At that point I knew it was inevitable that if I was doing Heather's husband she sooner or later would be doing mine. So that is the way it turned out. We don't go to swingers clubs but we have done full swaps many times. Carl has also done my sister a few times.

I know that a lot of times couples get into the hotwife thing and it starts with just the wife getting extra cock. But I think that in just about every case it is going to lead to swinging. And I think that is a good thing. I have had typical female feelings of jealousy at times watching my husband fuck or knowing that he is off fucking my girl friend. But I was able to work through those feelings. I think that jealousy is a toxic and negative emotion and now that we are both past those feelings our marriage is more wonderful to me now that it was before.

 

[atariblue]

Going to bump this up for those who missed it the first time around.