Long and slow descent of a naive, faithful wife

[wxpprnpprnt]

My random person's 2 cents...

1) There are a lot of stories where the husband gets involved, personally I think it might be more interesting if he never finds out, it becomes a continual theme to grow and sustain a double life parallel to a "normal" life. There's always the tension between her excitement with her growing secret life and the pull to just abandon it and go back to "normal" to be safe and comfortable. Maybe she flip-flops before making a final choice.

2) An interesting character I haven't seen very often would be a sort of philosophical manipulator, a kind of puppet master. He or she believes they are freeing this woman by slowly whittling away her boundaries and limits via powerful rhetoric, but they do not seduce her themselves, all the sex happens with others. So you have a mental seduction that parallels the wife's sexual adventures but remains distinct. That would be interesting and a different approach. It could be ambiguous whether or not this was a sinister figure or a well-meaning bestower of liberty.

This could make a complex and interesting story imo.

 

[agedmac]

My random person's 2 cents...

1) There are a lot of stories where the husband gets involved, personally I think it might be more interesting if he never finds out, it becomes a continual theme to grow and sustain a double life parallel to a "normal" life. There's always the tension between her excitement with her growing secret life and the pull to just abandon it and go back to "normal" to be safe and comfortable. Maybe she flip-flops before making a final choice.

2) An interesting character I haven't seen very often would be a sort of philosophical manipulator, a kind of puppet master. He or she believes they are freeing this woman by slowly whittling away her boundaries and limits via powerful rhetoric, but they do not seduce her themselves, all the sex happens with others. So you have a mental seduction that parallels the wife's sexual adventures but remains distinct. That would be interesting and a different approach. It could be ambiguous whether or not this was a sinister figure or a well-meaning bestower of liberty.

This could make a complex and interesting story imo.

Isn't the 2) point above.......all of us here on this thread! GRIN

 

[Lynn_MXX]

How does a naive, faithful wife slowly descend into sluttery?

Temptation. She says no, but the man who's hitting upon her keeps at it until her resistance finally caves

 

[victoriayoung1976]

My suspension of disbelief falters here. Un-isolated human females beyond puberty usually notice when someone acts attracted (puts a move on). Her reaction depends on her past and present life, her body chemistry (horniness), any drinks and/or drugs, and her expectations.

How does a naive, faithful wife slowly descend into sluttery? A long story if dramatic. For a short stroker, speed things up; it just happens, step by quick step; over a period of time, sure. Or stretch it to a ten-part series, with total sexual-moral overload at the end. Is that a happy ending or a cliffhanger?

she's not supermodel gorgeous, but i definitely find her attractive, and most of my male friends do as well. But she's had really little experience in this area, and it's not like guys are coming on real strong. She just doesn't really... notice the signalling. Like, she's the sort who, when you tell her someone finds her attractive, she honestly and sincerely goes, 'Really? You must be mistaken.' etc

So maybe not so much that she doesn't know, but she doesn't think of herself as the 'hot' type, and hence, reads signals in a more... innocent manner?

 

[agedmac]

she's not supermodel gorgeous, but i definitely find her attractive, and most of my male friends do as well. But she's had really little experience in this area, and it's not like guys are coming on real strong. She just doesn't really... notice the signalling. Like, she's the sort who, when you tell her someone finds her attractive, she honestly and sincerely goes, 'Really? You must be mistaken.' etc

So maybe not so much that she doesn't know, but she doesn't think of herself as the 'hot' type, and hence, reads signals in a more... innocent manner?

eh. What if she knows that she has a certain sexual appeal, but nobody has really suggested to her to be 'naughty'.....and all he asks is to see those cute panties she has on.just for a glimpse. and then later, he touches her face, gently moving his hand down her jaw line and she is fascinated by the little tremor through her body. And then much later, when he and she are the only ones in the room, he leans over and gently kisses her neck and she flushes and thinks, 'oh my'. And a few days later he calls her and they talk about the party and why he thought she looked sexy and he suggests at the event they are both attending this weekend, that maybe she show a bit more cleavage or maybe open her legs a bit more in the skirt she is wearing.

And then she notices the guy looking her up and down at the coffee shop. And she sees another guy watch her walk across the room, and he is watching her ass move...and for some reason..she sways her hips just a bit more.

And THAT is how the story begins........

 

[waratah]

Hi there!

have been thinking a while now, of a really slow burn story about a woman who loves her husband, is satisfied with him in bed, etc, but slowly gets her eyes opened to the possibilities out there.

She might become a slut, eventually, after a long process, but i envision her starting really slowly, becoming more comfortable in her own skin, not hiding her body (which is slim and realistic, not some 40ddd type), but not dressing sluttily, gaining confidence and realising men do find her attractive.

might even have an older or more experienced man or woman guide her through this process - they don't need to have a sexual relationship, just a mentor who shows her her potential. this could involve "tutorials" of a sort about oral sex, sex, watching or learning from others, being guided through light flirting to more serious stuff.

that first moment when she finally cheats in a sexual sense (ie not just kissing or dancing, being felt up etc) has to be a big deal - butterflies in stomach, guilt, exhilaration, liberation.

a lot of this is still in my head, and i'm not sure it's coming out right - but if you're interested, let's have a chat!

What about if she was the "victim" of two shameless friends/neighbours/collegues that have a thing where they bet on the downfall of a married lady.

Its a bet, they both want to win, but them personally winning is less important than either of them winning. They'll cooperate to make it happen.

 

[LupusDei]

She walks in on her daughter and her boyfriend, going at it on the livingroom couch. Shocked but mesmerized she's watching for while before announcing her presence. What realistically results in youths scrambling for cover and so on.

It's when she arrange one-on-one serious talk with daughter's boyfriend (intended to be moralizing) when things really start going south. She becomes infuriated with the boy, and he becomes her shadowy mentor in the naughty, without exactly doing anything with her directly, formally retaining faithfulness to the daughter, but encouraging and directing the mother to explore.

 

[jharp]

Thanks for the feedback!

I agree, I wouldn't want the husband to be emasculated in the process, necessarily. A lot of this is based on a friend i know (i know, hahaha), who's happily married, without any kids, but has had very little sexual experience; basically, the only man she's been with, is her husband, whom she loves dearly. By all accounts she has a healthy sex life, although i know her husband pretty well, and he's not exactly experienced in that area too, so there's a sense that although she is happy with what she has now, there's a lot more to sex than she knows about.

I think she's really attractive, but she's the sort of woman who's clueless when a guy is hitting on her, and has little sense of just how physically appealing she is. So i really do see her as someone who has lots of potential to come into her own, gain more (sexual) confidence, explore her boundaries. i don't think people have to be unhappy etc, in order to stray or explore - i have a number of friends in happy non-open marriages, where they have kids, are fulfilled, but either the husband or wife cheats.

i think it's the most interesting to see it from the pov of the wife - internal struggles and all.

No offense, but If she's happy then why is it any concern of yours about 'broadening' her sexual horizons? I don't mean to offend, but I ask because it sounds like you have a personal stake in this.

You admit she's attractive and you seem to be downplaying the husband. There are many ways a married couple can spice up their sex life without involving other people. Honestly the only person she should be coming into her own with is her Husband.

I've seen this very situation play out. Usually with disastrous results. Wife decides she wants to explore her boundaries and at first the Husband is all for it and she's exploring that boundary with him. Then she unilaterally decides to explore more boundaries without him often at the prompting of a friend. This often ends very badly with the couple divorced.

Yeah the wives got some short term thrills but in the end only obtained long term misery. One case in particular ended beautifully when the Husband (a friend of mine) upgraded to a younger, hotter, tighter woman. His soon to be ex-wife had a complete breakdown.

Yeah, not to many cases of things like this ending well at all.

 

[gordo12]

No offense, but If she's happy then why is it any concern of yours about 'broadening' her sexual horizons? I don't mean to offend, but I ask because it sounds like you have a personal stake in this.

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That comes through to me too. A little too interested. I suspect she's talking about herself...and that's alright. Fantasies are Ok and it's even Ok to express them about yourself instead of this mysterious other you want to interfere with.

Soooo time to come clean

 

[jharp]

That comes through to me too. A little too interested. I suspect she's talking about herself...and that's alright. Fantasies are Ok and it's even Ok to express them about yourself instead of this mysterious other you want to interfere with.

Soooo time to come clean

If she's talking about herself then more power to her. My strong suggestion is to try and spice things up with the hubby. If that fails then they can talk other options.

But if its a friend, then this is literally the kind of 'interest' that others take in a marriage that end up ruining them. And its usually self interested parties who actually don't care about the marriage. Only what they can take from it; whether its one of the spouses or what not.

 

[screwher]

Hi there!

have been thinking a while now, of a really slow burn story about a woman who loves her husband, is satisfied with him in bed, etc, but slowly gets her eyes opened to the possibilities out there.

She might become a slut, eventually, after a long process, but i envision her starting really slowly, becoming more comfortable in her own skin, not hiding her body (which is slim and realistic, not some 40ddd type), but not dressing sluttily, gaining confidence and realising men do find her attractive.

might even have an older or more experienced man or woman guide her through this process - they don't need to have a sexual relationship, just a mentor who shows her her potential. this could involve "tutorials" of a sort about oral sex, sex, watching or learning from others, being guided through light flirting to more serious stuff.

that first moment when she finally cheats in a sexual sense (ie not just kissing or dancing, being felt up etc) has to be a big deal - butterflies in stomach, guilt, exhilaration, liberation.

a lot of this is still in my head, and i'm not sure it's coming out right - but if you're interested, let's have a chat!

Actually, my true life story as to how we started our hotwife lifestyle share some of these details. I would be interested in it becoming a story.

 

[Reshbod]

My random person's 2 cents...

1) There are a lot of stories where the husband gets involved, personally I think it might be more interesting if he never finds out, it becomes a continual theme to grow and sustain a double life parallel to a "normal" life. There's always the tension between her excitement with her growing secret life and the pull to just abandon it and go back to "normal" to be safe and comfortable. Maybe she flip-flops before making a final choice.

For me the husband getting involved, secretly being into it or pushes her into being with other men takes me out of the story. I also find stories where the wife is unhappy, bored, ignored etc and cheats is not particularly interesting. In my opinion, it lacks drama.

What I like about cheating wife stories are:
1. Forbidden fruit angle.
2. Excitement of being "bad".
3. The "will she or won't she" aspect.
4. What is the final straw that drives her to cheat.
5. The aftermath. Does she continue to cheat or was it a one time thing.

 

[agedmac]

For me the husband getting involved, secretly being into it or pushes her into being with other men takes me out of the story. I also find stories where the wife is unhappy, bored, ignored etc and cheats is not particularly interesting. In my opinion, it lacks drama.

What I like about cheating wife stories are:
1. Forbidden fruit angle.
2. Excitement of being "bad".
3. The "will she or won't she" aspect.
4. What is the final straw that drives her to cheat.
5. The aftermath. Does she continue to cheat or was it a one time thing.

Good points...my major ones are around 2. I would add 6. Just weird timing or a 'did I really do that?' Often waking up the next morning in 'his bed'

I like the aftermath's too..... especially her realization that she wants to do it again and it doesn't have to be with the guy she did it with! An aftermath I'w working on is when she is thinking about telling her husband and she finds herself getting wet about 'confessing'

 

[victoriayoung1976]

erm.... it's a fantasy story. I happen to like certain themes within the ideas i've shared, and all i'm saying, i'm basing the central character off an actual person i know (no, not me). I would NEVER dream of actually encouraging my friend to do anything - like you said, she's happy, so what right do i have jumping into all of that?

 

[agedmac]

Two cash-poor grad students (obviously at Sam Houston State University) husband and wife, both from the same small town. They are living in married student apartments on campus. She plays the piano, guitar, something popular. Being a University town she starts out with low paying music gigs to supplement their stipend. Her social circle slowly expands, his does not.

She starts getting local recognition, better paying gigs, weddings, street fairs. Private events that he isn't invited to... Guys are interested in the lady guitar player who wouldn't look twice at a gal working on her PhD in Microbiology. Some are older with lots of experience.

She doesn't consciously want to leave him behind they have been a couple since their sophomore year in college. He doesn't want to lose her but he can't compete.

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Lisa Ann

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