Explanation for sharing your wife, the thrill, the danger

[MilkFountain]

I am a straight male, besotted by my wife's sexuality, love to share her with appropriate men chosen by both of us, and unmindful of other women. Why am I turned on so by sharing her?

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Don't know, but Penthouse magazine has made a lot of money cashing in on this over the years. I'll admit, I, too, use to and still do get turned on with it and have enjoyed writing stories based on some of our adventures.

 

[MilkFountain]

Don't know, but Penthouse magazine has made a lot of money cashing in on this over the years. I'll admit, I, too, use to and still do get turned on with it and have enjoyed writing stories based on some of our adventures.

No answer, but good confirmation. Thanks . . . I, too, have written about my wife's little adventures, her "holidays," our shared sensuality with and appreciation of another man's or boy's appreciating of her. We've finally arrived -- after a couple of years that led from shock, distrust, and anger at my suggestion, to her becoming a loving, trusting accomplice -- at our building trust and provoking unchecked lust and real love of my wife from her selected lovers, who I like and approve.

Those lovers have risen from disconcerted, distracted, and feeling awkward under the circumstances, to confident lovers-rapists-Dommes, taking her over from me, sharing with me, or doing all they can, through love, lust, and need, whether consciously or unwittingly, to take her away with them. And yet in the background they know, and my wife has made clear, that as long as she's with them, she's theirs, but will always return to me. (I've come to realize that she never completely leaves me, even when being ridden by or riding someone else.)

It's a delicate balancing act --between loyalty to me and unlimited permission to explore and be with another man -- at which she often may make him fall in love with her, but ultimately disappointed, at the same time astonish me. Our adventures have gone from her doubtful, unwilling participation in my fantasy, to her in total control once the game is afoot. She's told me that just knowing I'm near, frees her, gives her the security to have easier and deeper orgasms; at the peak of one, she lost consciousness, frightening the boy she was with.

 

[fyrefyre200]

wife sharing

Very difficult to identify the reason for being turned on by sharing your wife.
We had a relationship with a couple , based on the mutual attraction between the ladies. The guys just interacted with their own spouse. Got a little carried away one evening and she ended up sucking and fucking the guy while I and his spouse watched. Very hot , and the images are seared into my mind. Still turns me on.

 

[Justfantasies]

Watching my wife completely letting go and enjoying herself, dling things that she might not do with me

Hearing her slutty stories after

 

[cuckoldbill]

Been a cuck to my wife for 20 years. In all that time she has had many lovers. It still turns me on as much as it did on her first date. I love helping her get ready for a meet. Watching her is such a turn on. Chatting after has become so normal but we still love it. I still can't understand exactly why it is such a crazy turn-on for me. Her seeing me so into it helps her enjoy it all the more.

 

[liqueur]

I'm not here to complain, and far less to judge or criticize— only to state the other side of the story that no one ever talks about.

I lost my wife to the first man she cuckolded me with. That same man turned out to be an abusive asshole who traumatized her life, After several years, she eventually found the courage to leave him (with my help), but by that time her head was turned in so many circles she couldn't consider being with any man, including me. We remain very close to this day, but whether she will ever come back to me remains to be seen

This is not a gloom and doom story any more than a judgment. I remain as turned on by cheating and cuckolding as I ever was. It's only to say, be careful. It doesn't always turn out the way people want to think.

 

[fyrefyre200]

you are right

I'm not here to complain, and far less to judge or criticize— only to state the other side of the story that no one ever talks about.

I lost my wife to the first man she cuckolded me with. That same man turned out to be an abusive asshole who traumatized her life, After several years, she eventually found the courage to leave him (with my help), but by that time her head was turned in so many circles she couldn't consider being with any man, including me. We remain very close to this day, but whether she will ever come back to me remains to be seen

This is not a gloom and doom story any more than a judgment. I remain as turned on by cheating and cuckolding as I ever was. It's only to say, be careful. It doesn't always turn out the way people want to think.

you should never go down that path unless you are certain that you have a rock solid relationship.

 

[JackOffer]

I have always shared my spouses, both of my late wives and now my husband, and they have always shared me. Never needed a reason or an explanation except that we all love as much sex as we can get.

 

[Dreamer110]

I don't know why you'd like to share your wife, but I'd like to do the same with mine.

Not sure why but I have and it is very arousing.