Talking to guys Your wife/gf have fucked

[betamale30]

Do you find It weird and awkward talking to men that have slept with your significant other? I feel like theres always that unspoken weird ness in those situations knowing that they know all those intimate things about your gf/wife.

 

[BBCfan]

Do you find It weird and awkward talking to men that have slept with your significant other? I feel like theres always that unspoken weird ness in those situations knowing that they know all those intimate things about your gf/wife.

it would depend on the guy perhaps. There is one guy my GF slept with that I interact with ,she told me but he doesn't know I know. Its not weird in that case.

There was another guy she slept with I may meet at some point and it could be weird a bit since she shared how massive his cock is. I'd likely be picturing him plowing her with his horsecock.

 

[PFWilly]

I just find it...interesting. I don’t know if he knows that I know the details of their affair. In other words, I don’t know if she told him that I know they fucked around a lot for about a year when they worked in the same office. It made my conversations with him rather fascinating...lol.

 

[Jcam1980s]

I'd actually like to, find out what was different with them etc

 

[liqueur]

Do you find It weird and awkward talking to men that have slept with your significant other? I feel like theres always that unspoken weird ness in those situations knowing that they know all those intimate things about your gf/wife.

Wondering if you're talking about situations where neither he nor she know that you know?

i would find that very weird but also very erotic. Almost like being a voyeur to the whole situation...

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Do you find It weird and awkward talking to men that have slept with your significant other? I feel like theres always that unspoken weird ness in those situations knowing that they know all those intimate things about your gf/wife.

Not at all! We were introduce by the first and only guy she been fucked by before me. Her Dad!

 

[mikendel]

We both enjoy talking with or being in the same room with me she has had sex with. Several are my friends that I talk with weekly. Some talk about how sexy she is and how lucky I am. Other really don't say much to me but will sext with her now and then waiting for another chance with her.

 

[MysteryMan2014]

I'd actually like to, find out what was different with them etc

Exactly! Would love to hear all the sordid details and find out what she did with others.

 

[gtnlynn]

It happened several times in college. It was weird, but I could tell they were jealous of me because she always dumped them to be with me.

 

[VeraBad]

Exactly! Would love to hear all the sordid details and find out what she did with others.

My experience when it came down to it my female and male partners definitely wanted to her the sordid details. It's a matter of timing obviously.

 

[VeraBad]

My experience when it came down to it my female and male partners definitely wanted to her the sordid details. It's a matter of timing obviously.

Makes a good role play also.

 

[cuckoldedhusban]

It doesnt bother me. I actually get a bit of a thrill talking to her lovers. But i am generally the one that hooks the guys up with her to fuck. So i talk to them about her being a horny cock slut beforehand. So they know going in what is in store for them.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Do you find It weird and awkward talking to men that have slept with your significant other? I feel like theres always that unspoken weird ness in those situations knowing that they know all those intimate things about your gf/wife.

First all, none of the guys that fucked my wife knew ALL those intimate things about her. They only knew how to get her off and that don't take a rocket scientist.
And as far as weirdness--? Soon long as they speak to me with the as much respect as I show them, every thing is good.
But the second they drop the façade of societal politeness, to either me or my wife,
I will and have--, beat them down.
Surprised two of them so badly because they were so much bigger and muscular than I. One of them to this day carries the scars around his eyes where I tried to pop them out of his head.

C'mon Marcus, I know you are here--, tell em all. HAHAHAHA...you stupid fuck.

 

[Muwarr90]

First all, none of the guys that fucked my wife knew ALL those intimate things about her. They only knew how to get her off and that don't take a rocket scientist.
And as far as weirdness--? Soon long as they speak to me with the as much respect as I show them, every thing is good.
But the second they drop the façade of societal politeness, to either me or my wife,
I will and have--, beat them down.
Surprised two of them so badly because they were so much bigger and muscular than I. One of them to this day carries the scars around his eyes where I tried to pop them out of his head.

C'mon Marcus, I know you are here--, tell em all. HAHAHAHA...you stupid fuck.

Sounds like the façade was more on your part than theirs. You should probably pull back from this lifestyle until your can get your violent tendencies under control. Your bragging isn't impressive, it's sad.

 

[liqueur]

Sounds like the façade was more on your part than theirs. You should probably pull back from this lifestyle until your can get your violent tendencies under control. Your bragging isn't impressive, it's sad.

Thank you for saying that. I was at a loss for words.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Sounds like the façade was more on your part than theirs. You should probably pull back from this lifestyle until your can get your violent tendencies under control. Your bragging isn't impressive, it's sad.

There is no brag in anything I said.
So long as I'm treated with respect I will treat anyone---, ANYONE with the very same level respect.
And from what I was told when I got here better than 15 years ago, is that I can be of ANY persuasion sexually or otherwise to be here and post here if I wanted.
So don't of wasting your time with me you stupid, stupid kid.

 

[Justfantasies]

Used to talk to my wife's ex-hubby a lot. After a year or so, we compared notes

 

[liqueur]

There is no brag in anything I said.
So long as I'm treated with respect I will treat anyone---, ANYONE with the very same level respect.
And from what I was told when I got here better than 15 years ago, is that I can be of ANY persuasion sexually or otherwise to be here and post here if I wanted.
So don't of wasting your time with me you stupid, stupid kid.

Expecting respect is entirely appropriate, The "brag" has nothing to do with that, or sexual persuasion, it has to do with talking about violence as if it were something to be proud of. That's the part that's sad. Not appropriate, Especially talking about violence against your wife's lovers, on threads that celebrate her right to have lovers.

(signed) an old fart who truly wishes he were a kid

 

[MKvDeepSea]

I don't think there's a simple answer to the question. We opened our marriage in the late 1970's while my wife was in college and I had reenlisted in the Navy. Since I was gone so much we opened our marriage.

At the time the guys she had sex with were all college students (except for two professors) and most of them thought our relationship was "cool" and it was easy for us to become friends. Much to my delight a couple of them had girlfriends who also thought it was "cool" and felt it embraced a woman's right to sexual freedom. This resulted in some fun threesomes and foursomes.

And, there had been a couple of guys who were glad to have sex with her but were scared to meet me when she tried to introduce them to me. There were also a couple guys who had no problem taking my wife to bed, but were disdainful toward me for "allowing" my wife to have sex with other men.

Then again, I've introduced my wife to some of the women I've had sex with and it was pretty much the same. Some were "cool" with it and became friends while others were disdainful toward her.

When it comes to human nature, there's just too many variables for a simple answer to a complex question.

 

[WestVaCouple]

My husband talked to one of my old boyfriends one night and ended up comparing notes. It did not make him uncomfortable, me on the other hand, it was more than a little weird.