Ritualistic Sex

[PrinceLukey]

I am really aroused by this and feel darkly called to it, but I do not know a great place to read and learn more about it. Has anyone here had experiences with sex rituals?

 

[HolyTrinity]

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[runsilent]

I am not sure what the phase means. Please explain.

 

[davenjenn]

If you look on Amazon you will find many books on Sex Magick. It's a place to start.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

There really, seriously SHOULD be a special category here for 'the occult.' You would no doubt get the whole 'musical range' of what this means to various people, but no doubt also, you might get some genuinely 'interesting' stuff.

Whether the OP specifically means something along the lines of ritualistic sex in occult practices, or just simply ritualized sex for its own sake... ...I am not certain, but both contain similar exercises in highly structured, organized, planned sexual and erotic actions and activity. Personally I am inclined to think that A LOT of what is considered widely to be genuine authentic 'occult'-type sexual events, tend to forget the point of raising SEXUAL emotions, and end up being outright bizarre, or disturbing; sure, they can also raise emotional sensations, but these might also not truly be directly sexual.

...Most 'experts' in seduction, are unfolding highly pre-arranged rituals that lead to sex. And some 'experts' of sex itself, have tried-and-tested styles of sex acts which could class as 'ritualistic.'

 

[LupusDei]

I have an ancient fantasy of doing sex right in the front in church. With or without audience (and that's two very different flavors) either aided by religious bullshit or in contrast desecrating the place internationally, or hottest of all mixing both: when it's for example, portrayed as holy for public, but I do it for entirely my own motivation that runs contrary.

Then there's sauna experiences, mental un-physical orgasms from stirring kundalini mechanically.

Also I have had a couple of occasions when it goes the other way: what starts as ordinary rump in the bed sometime in the second hour evolve into borderline occult experience.

Once I got my special fit attack while with a very loving partner, and she drive me through it to the point of seeing the globe with columns of light blooming out -- us being source of one -- that's undescribable to the point you after just lay and wonder, did you just outright realized your very purpose in this life, or was that just a small glimpse of what's possible.

 

[PrinceLukey]

Yes

That ancient, primal intensity is what I need and am interested in. I think the occult is part of it but also Eastern traditions as well. I hesitate to put limits on it...I just know that what I mean is something that is dark, devious, and full of intentional meanings.

 

[PrinceLukey]

You liked this?

I do have some "starter" links that I could share via DM.

 

[Jada59]

Could you spell out a little more about what this is? Having sex at certain times or in conjunction with spells? I'm not sure.

 

[PrinceLukey]

Yes to both

I have very little experience in this realm and I think some people inherently have a feeling of what is moving.

To your question. Spells? Yes. Moons and time of day/night? Yes.

All of the above, anything and everything. Embracing our demons.

 

[Jada59]

I have very little experience in this realm and I think some people inherently have a feeling of what is moving.

To your question. Spells? Yes. Moons and time of day/night? Yes.

All of the above, anything and everything. Embracing our demons.

Hmmm... I am very much into the occult. But I don't embrace demons.

I just went to Amazon and saw the book called Sex Magic. It refers to Law Of Attraction and says that the book includes spells, amulets, etc. Those things are not part of LOA. I am very much into that too. Weird.

 

[PrinceLukey]

Interesting

When was this book written?

 

[liqueur]

I am really aroused by this and feel darkly called to it, but I do not know a great place to read and learn more about it. Has anyone here had experiences with sex rituals?

There are 100s, probably 1000s, of teachers of sex magic and ritual sex—some of them valid and well-regarded, some just looking for cult-followers to get their rocks off.

One of the ones I know best and respect is Raven Kaldera, who approaches it from a shamanic perspective. You can find him on his own website— Raven Kaldera— but honestly, a better way to get to know him and his approach to things might be by joining FetLife.com (Free, like here, and safe and secure. More group oriented than thread oriented.) Once there, you can follow "RavenK," and join his group, "Raven Kaldera's Own." (these last two links won't work unless you've joined FetLife)

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

That ancient, primal intensity is what I need and am interested in. I think the occult is part of it but also Eastern traditions as well. I hesitate to put limits on it...I just know that what I mean is something that is dark, devious, and full of intentional meanings.

Dare I say this... Why yes, yes I dare.

You mean like, like, something like... ...SEX?!

All jokes aside though, I know what you mean.

Modern day media and entertainment industry depiction of sex is banal, even pedestrian.

They've lost it.

But you're raising such a VAST theme. Very complex.

I grew up in the Far East, AND among a mix of 'classes' but fundamentally, I personally was closer to the real 'folkloric,' more or less well, I won't say 'lowEST' classes because that isn't true, but to some extent I was raised well inside some of the more 'darkly traditional' families. My father had a long history - and his family before him - of living among Far Eastern ethnic people, and my mother was so outlandishly intellectual and knowledgeable that she encouraged things.

I would 'grade' Eastern sex culture and knowledge in this order, and this is not exhaustive or even necessarily 'correct' but it is MY experience of things:

Tamils/South Indians no 1

HIGH class Cantonese and Shanghainese INTELLECTUALS no 2 (add the White Russians into this and you end up with Karl Lagerfeld and Coco Chanel and even whatshername 'Mrs Simpson')

Some of the Himalayan and surrounding areas tribal groups extending all the way North WEST to what some call 'Korasan' no 3

Indonesians totally overrated

Malay culture highly-influenced by the Brama-Raj Indian subculture, and benefits, but few have maintained this cultural heritage nowadays

Thai is interesting but it too, contains what is effectively the Pali (Himalayan) and South Indian Vedic roots, especially when it comes to sex and the occult.

This kind of 'sex' is tied to psycho-spiritual power.

Rituals...? Hmn. Plenty, dude. And mostly unknown and not talked about anymore.

Yet even in today's 'advanced high tech' world, in India you will see here and there the REAL sex mantra stuff like for instance with the Tara-Tarini sect - admittedly this is North Indian, but it is one example where the rites and rituals and EFFECTS, are more publicly known at least.

Broadly speaking, the Indian rituals INvoke one or other of the major sexual deities INTO the living physical human, who then gains demi-god like power, or powers.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I have an ancient fantasy of doing sex right in the front in church. With or without audience (and that's two very different flavors) either aided by religious bullshit or in contrast desecrating the place internationally, or hottest of all mixing both: when it's for example, portrayed as holy for public, but I do it for entirely my own motivation that runs contrary.

Then there's sauna experiences, mental un-physical orgasms from stirring kundalini mechanically.

Also I have had a couple of occasions when it goes the other way: what starts as ordinary rump in the bed sometime in the second hour evolve into borderline occult experience.

Once I got my special fit attack while with a very loving partner, and she drive me through it to the point of seeing the globe with columns of light blooming out -- us being source of one -- that's undescribable to the point you after just lay and wonder, did you just outright realized your very purpose in this life, or was that just a small glimpse of what's possible.

… an ancient blue orb just slightly smaller or larger than a basketball... that continuously falls in on itself, the whispers are what I have a hard time with, because they never stop, the whispers never stop. And the orgasm is never the same, sometimes it feels like you have no power left and you are left dying on the floor. Slowly winding down like an old watch. Other times, the orgasm is so light, its sensation is almost like an afterthought, until the waves of energy start racking you from the very pinnacle of being to the very depths of your soul. And all you can do is roll on the floor and moan in a listless ecstacy, no strength, until the globe turns its face toward you and you accept the energy it offers you.

 

[jaF0]

I have an ancient fantasy of doing sex right in the front in church. With or without audience (and that's two very different flavors) either aided by religious bullshit or in contrast desecrating the place internationally, or hottest of all mixing both: when it's for example, portrayed as holy for public, but I do it for entirely my own motivation that runs contrary.

"Father william saved her from the streets
She drank the lifeblood from the saviours feet
She's sister mary now, eyes as cold as ice
He takes her once a week
On the alter like a sacrifice"

'Spreading The Disease' - Queensryche

 

[PrinceLukey]

Banal and pedestrian

Dare I say this... Why yes, yes I dare.

You mean like, like, something like... ...SEX?!

All jokes aside though, I know what you mean.

Modern day media and entertainment industry depiction of sex is banal, even pedestrian.

They've lost it.

But you're raising such a VAST theme. Very complex.

I grew up in the Far East, AND among a mix of 'classes' but fundamentally, I personally was closer to the real 'folkloric,' more or less well, I won't say 'lowEST' classes because that isn't true, but to some extent I was raised well inside some of the more 'darkly traditional' families. My father had a long history - and his family before him - of living among Far Eastern ethnic people, and my mother was so outlandishly intellectual and knowledgeable that she encouraged things.

I would 'grade' Eastern sex culture and knowledge in this order, and this is not exhaustive or even necessarily 'correct' but it is MY experience of things:

Tamils/South Indians no 1

HIGH class Cantonese and Shanghainese INTELLECTUALS no 2 (add the White Russians into this and you end up with Karl Lagerfeld and Coco Chanel and even whatshername 'Mrs Simpson')

Some of the Himalayan and surrounding areas tribal groups extending all the way North WEST to what some call 'Korasan' no 3

Indonesians totally overrated

Malay culture highly-influenced by the Brama-Raj Indian subculture, and benefits, but few have maintained this cultural heritage nowadays

Thai is interesting but it too, contains what is effectively the Pali (Himalayan) and South Indian Vedic roots, especially when it comes to sex and the occult.

This kind of 'sex' is tied to psycho-spiritual power.

Rituals...? Hmn. Plenty, dude. And mostly unknown and not talked about anymore.

Yet even in today's 'advanced high tech' world, in India you will see here and there the REAL sex mantra stuff like for instance with the Tara-Tarini sect - admittedly this is North Indian, but it is one example where the rites and rituals and EFFECTS, are more publicly known at least.

Broadly speaking, the Indian rituals INvoke one or other of the major sexual deities INTO the living physical human, who then gains demi-god like power, or powers.

You are very right about that and thank you for your insights.

I am looking for more and these are some great ideas to research...I want to feel
more and not just settle for something that I know can and should be so much more intense.