A Question for the boys/men..

[Scareltt]

I was recently informed by my husband that when we dated and through his 20s and 30s that he would masturbate 2 to 3 times a day.

His reasoning for this, was it allowed him to have more stamina with me.

How often do you, younger guys masturbate? Also for what reason?

 

[SpeareChucker]

Well, that's at least something new.



Usually, it's a, "Ladies, how do you feel about...," thread.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’m certainly not young by any account. However, I still masturbate at lest once daily. No scientific reason involved. It feels good and I have a big appetite.

 

[Iris_66]

I’m going to echo Smoothshavendad, I orgasm once a day, I can’t settle otherwise

It may be full on or quickish, with another or alone, kinky or not, but always one way or another

I was recently informed by my husband that when we dated and through his 20s and 30s that he would masturbate 2 to 3 times a day.

His reasoning for this, was it allowed him to have more stamina with me.

How often do you, younger guys masturbate? Also for what reason?

 

[Scareltt]

So it’s like an apple a day?

So once a day? And your wives/significant others know about this?

 

[DevlinSide]

So once a day? And your wives/significant others know about this?

I pretty much go once a day. Sometimes twice. But I’m getting older.

I keep such occurrences to myself.

 

[Matthew Craig]

Sure for stamina. You want a 30 second ride, or a nice long roller coaster? Besiides, it's more often than not women are submissive, so guys need a vast knowlege of sexual positions and ideas.

 

[saintcero]

one a day was the rule

one masturbation session per day was the rule for most of my life. I tend to edge more now and save the climax for my wife. She likes big loads and as my output has decreased over time, saving some now for a bigger load for her later is what I like. Does she know how often I stroked before, I doubt it. it never was a conversation topic.

 

[dolf]

I work on the assumption that my partners wank. It's normal and it's healthy. And it's no great secret that younger guys usually do it more often.

Personally, I don't mind a two minute ride sometimes. The intensity can be a lot of fun. And if a guy always lasts for hours, it puts a girl off if she's not feeling energetic.

 

[InsightRiot]

There was a time when I was jealous of his hand.

What, I'm not good enough to satisfy you?

 

[Dreamer110]

There was a time when I was jealous of his hand.

What, I'm not good enough to satisfy you?

Lol. My recollections of my younger years was if I was alone my hand always found it's way.

 

[DevlinSide]

There was a time when I was jealous of his hand.

What, I'm not good enough to satisfy you?

Sometimes every fantasy isn’t met because she’s not interested for her own reasons. A simple solution is to find a video and “ease the tension”.

 

[Rokk0n]

Hairy palms can cause a control issue sometimes, but wrapping the steering wheel with sandpaper takes care of that.

 

[Scareltt]

Good points..

I work on the assumption that my partners wank. It's normal and it's healthy. And it's no great secret that younger guys usually do it more often.

Personally, I don't mind a two minute ride sometimes. The intensity can be a lot of fun. And if a guy always lasts for hours, it puts a girl off if she's not feeling energetic.

To be honest the 20 and 30 something me never gave it a thought. It was Wednesday night when I was laying with my husband after intercoure that it came up. Since he has agreed to not masturbate his loads have become much bigger. I like that aspect, however he is now constantly a 2 to 4 minuet man.

It’s true that, there is a time, place, and energy level for quick and intense.

Learning new and interesting things all the time.. Thank you Lit.

 

[LupusDei]

Once a day is an average I tend to gravitate to over time, but there's no schedule, it can be as few as two-three per week, and as many as six and more per day.

Depends on too many factors to count, but a rather surprising observation is that ambient temperature plays a role: here in the north above +26 C is rare (maybe 30 days a year at most, never more than two weeks on a streak) and triggers just about anyone's libido in an overdrive; near and even full nudity suddenly becomes commonplace (even otherwise prim and proper prude girls can unexpectedly casually forget swimsuits or ditch the wet one-piece and decide to spend rest of the day in and out of a towel, or wearing only a long tshirt at most).

Speaking of younger days, it counted as mandatory preparation before a date, just like shaving or brushing teeth, just as technical and required, just to keep one's sanity, stay cool and under control. Does it increase stamina, probably, but that effect wears off rather quickly, I would think (in my forties I still can cum up to six times in under two hours).

Other times it's just such an animalistic urge, you run to your room or other secluded place, push pants down as soon out of sight and are done in under two minutes, but at least didn't rape anyone (although that's often what the imaginary scenario is in this).

In high school I had sex with my regular girlfriend near daily, but still wanked off two to three times a day, almost as a rule featuring other girls in the fantasy; all I could do not cheat on her for real (and sometimes not enough).

Interesting that in times with a live-in partner it goes down a lot, to near nothing for prolonged periods. But yes, if she's not directly involved (and does that even count as this if she is?) it's none of her business. I don't log every time I go to piss, and this may be just as simple need sometimes.

 

[DevlinSide]

To be honest the 20 and 30 something me never gave it a thought. It was Wednesday night when I was laying with my husband after intercoure that it came up. Since he has agreed to not masturbate his loads have become much bigger. I like that aspect, however he is now constantly a 2 to 4 minuet man.

It’s true that, there is a time, place, and energy level for quick and intense.

Learning new and interesting things all the time.. Thank you Lit.

I dated a woman a few years ago who was savvy on this topic. She’d text me throughout the day she was going to get me off first, just so my stamina would be suitable for her a bit later.

 

[ronmcc2448]

I was recently informed by my husband that when we dated and through his 20s and 30s that he would masturbate 2 to 3 times a day.

His reasoning for this, was it allowed him to have more stamina with me.

How often do you, younger guys masturbate? Also for what reason?

Once a day or I cant sleep, what sleep I do get.

Yes GF is aware and she encourages because she knows I am thinking about her and our adventures.

We are both 54. Age is only a number.

 

[CandiCame]

I never thought to track this but like... I have chronic insomnia and I jacked off twice last night? I can start tracking it because I have no idea if that's average or not. Sometimes not at all but I live with someone I have an active sexual relationship with so I assume it would be more if I didn't?

That shit is supposed to help you sleep and sometimes it does but it didn't work last night.

 

[o2baPrince]

In my teens and 20’s, yep, a few times a day. Married this kids in my thirties? Far, far less. It has picked up since we are close to an empty nest. Wife doesn’t know, she would think it was a statement of her sexuality. Which is low. Why makes waves?

 

[LupusDei]

That shit is supposed to help you sleep and sometimes it does but it didn't work last night.

Yes, this too. And it is like the only way I can step away from that dream. Sometimes won't help anyway, and then I just find something to read.

 

[ToddRocks]

When younger .. Yes, I would masturbate as often as possible.. Still try to when privacy permits..

Like others have posted.. it does increase stamina.. takes the edge off ..

As I have gotten older.. masturbating the day before creates more sexual energy.. almost like "priming the pump" so to speak..

I didn't realize I was collecting data to be useful on this thread... Glad all that pleasure has value for Scarlett and others..

 

[beew]

Once a day or I cant sleep, what sleep I do get.

Are you sure about that?
With all the pics you keep posting..

 

[Matthew Craig]

There was a time when I was jealous of his hand.

What, I'm not good enough to satisfy you?

You're female?

 

[dolf]

I never thought to track this but like... I have chronic insomnia and I jacked off twice last night? I can start tracking it because I have no idea if that's average or not. Sometimes not at all but I live with someone I have an active sexual relationship with so I assume it would be more if I didn't?

That shit is supposed to help you sleep and sometimes it does but it didn't work last night.

I do that too. But rarely twice in a night. He never wakes up, but I've mentioned it before. Sometimes it works...

 

[CandiCame]

I do that too. But rarely twice in a night. He never wakes up, but I've mentioned it before. Sometimes it works...

I actually don't jack off in the bed where I could wake somebody up. I go to the shower. That might be why it's not working, actually, because I do have to walk back to bed after that.