Birthday wish

[subserviant]

Pats birthday ,always a problem ,what to get her ,how does one go about buying a gift when she has the means to purchase what ever she wants .
So I began the yearly issue once again.
You won’t get me what Want ,well this was a bit different ,How do you know that when I have ne idea what you want .
A sigh oh never mind .Not to be put off ,I pressed on .Look tell me ,I’ll do my level best to get what you want .Getting frustrated ,what the hell did she expect ,please Pat be reasonable,tell me .
Will you promise to do what I want ? The do escaped me ,I grabbed on to the opportunity to finally to find out what she wants .
Yes I promise ,it has to be some thing that I can get you .Are you sure ,I want your iron clad garruantee that you’ll fullfill the promise .
Ok I should have given it some thought ,I was so happy I threw caution to the wind ,yes I told you
I promise ,please tell me .
She looked straight into my face ,I want to watch you giving oral to another guy and watching a guy fuck you .
I was flabbergasted to say the least .

 

[SissySalina]

What seems to be the problem, you promised!

 

[subserviant]

well you see , yes I did promise but not having any notion what her would request be ,I was kinda taken by surprise ,not kinda ,complete surprise .On looking back at our recent intimate sessions I guess I might have seen it coming ,well not really ,I mentioned on a couple of occasions that I wouldn't mind her pegging me . I must admit that I have had fantasized a few times about the very thing she was suggesting .When I had mentioned the pegging she had been noncommittal ,but on a few occasion has pushed fingers into my mouth telling me to suck them whilst doing a number on my nipples which she knows I love .
So as I stood in front of her feeling like an errant school boy ,trying to figure out a way to get out of it ,she angrily glared at me ,yeah I knew you'd welsh .Trying to safe face ,I asked if we could discuss it to which she replied to paraphrase Yoda ,do or don't do there is no discussion ,And so I inquired how it would play out .
As it happens she has a gay friend with whom she has already talked it over with and he is all for it .
so now on the next phase By the way I love her dearly and would and do anything she wants just wasn't expecting this

 

[jomar]

Yeah, yeah, resistance is futile and all that...keep us posted.

 

[BBCfan]

She looked straight into my face ,I want to watch you giving oral to another guy and watching a guy fuck you .
I was flabbergasted to say the least .

WOW!!! Pretty wild.

So are you up for it? Will it be your first time?

 

[subserviant]

So I knew the guy with whom she had apparently set this up ,Brad,he has a stained glass business ,he and Pat have been friends for quit a while ,I have met him on a few occasions ,a good looking guy not ones typical vision of a gay .
Now I had to wonder is this guy doing Pat a favor ,is he a type of voyeur who gets his kicks from doing a straight guy . When I asked her she just shrugged ,its not your businesses ,your either going to do it or not ,I certainly can't force you . Well in manner of speaking she could force the issue ,she was well aware of my propensity to have her control our time in bed ,she has become some what domineering in having me go down on her after regular sex ,this was after I explained to her how much I loved to have her tell me what to do .
When I first mentioned how i would love to be told go down on her after sex she thought it very strange ,when i asked her if she wanted me to lick her after she peed ,her answer of yuck that's disgusting I never mentioned it again , trying to laugh it off ,to much wine ,she seemd to get over it ,so with this birthday request or I suppose it could be called a demand she has taken on a new persona
Do i like it ? Yes and no ,but I knew if I turned down her demand things would defiantly cool off in the bedroom I desperately wished I could run what to do by some one else but of course that was out of the question .

 

[Xringm1a]

So I knew the guy with whom she had apparently set this up ,Brad,he has a stained glass business ,he and Pat have been friends for quit a while ,I have met him on a few occasions ,a good looking guy not ones typical vision of a gay .
Now I had to wonder is this guy doing Pat a favor ,is he a type of voyeur who gets his kicks from doing a straight guy . When I asked her she just shrugged ,its not your businesses ,your either going to do it or not ,I certainly can't force you . Well in manner of speaking she could force the issue ,she was well aware of my propensity to have her control our time in bed ,she has become some what domineering in having me go down on her after regular sex ,this was after I explained to her how much I loved to have her tell me what to do .
When I first mentioned how i would love to be told go down on her after sex she thought it very strange ,when i asked her if she wanted me to lick her after she peed ,her answer of yuck that's disgusting I never mentioned it again , trying to laugh it off ,to much wine ,she seemd to get over it ,so with this birthday request or I suppose it could be called a demand she has taken on a new persona
Do i like it ? Yes and no ,but I knew if I turned down her demand things would defiantly cool off in the bedroom I desperately wished I could run what to do by some one else but of course that was out of the question .

He's gonna plow your field!

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Pats birthday ,always a problem ,what to get her ,how does one go about buying a gift when she has the means to purchase what ever she wants .
So I began the yearly issue once again.
You won’t get me what Want ,well this was a bit different ,How do you know that when I have ne idea what you want .
A sigh oh never mind .Not to be put off ,I pressed on .Look tell me ,I’ll do my level best to get what you want .Getting frustrated ,what the hell did she expect ,please Pat be reasonable,tell me .
Will you promise to do what I want ? The do escaped me ,I grabbed on to the opportunity to finally to find out what she wants .
Yes I promise ,it has to be some thing that I can get you .Are you sure ,I want your iron clad garruantee that you’ll fullfill the promise .
Ok I should have given it some thought ,I was so happy I threw caution to the wind ,yes I told you
I promise ,please tell me .
She looked straight into my face ,I want to watch you giving oral to another guy and watching a guy fuck you .
I was flabbergasted to say the least .

So what's the problem! Happily give her what she wants. If you haven't done it before you will love it and it will open up new avenues for adventure. If you have done it before, you already know how much fun it is!

 

[subserviant]

ok thanks for the advice ,but I have never engaged in sex with another guy ,its easy to say go with it but as a dried in the wool heterosexual loving every thing about women ,now I have to go with a gay experiment ? yeah an experiment .I would never outside of a fantasy would I ever have taken up with another guy I am resigned to telling her that I will do it ,perhaps that will be enough to satisfy her and she'll call the whole thing off ,seeing as I have done or will do as she wants .Still think it a bit strange that when i mentioned her using a strap on she was not crazy about it ,now she wants me to do it while she watches ,rather strange .

 

[JackOffer]

There's always a first time for everything. Give it a try, as a life-long bisexual, I can tell you that you will love getting it on with another guy, and if that makes her happy as well, it will probably lead to a better sex life with her. too. Both my late wives loved witching me with other guys, and joined in every chance they got.

 

[Dreamer110]

I'd give my wife anything she asked for. Guess I'm just nice that way.

 

[SissySalina]

So I knew the guy with whom she had apparently set this up ,Brad,he has a stained glass business ,he and Pat have been friends for quit a while ,I have met him on a few occasions ,a good looking guy not ones typical vision of a gay .
Now I had to wonder is this guy doing Pat a favor ,is he a type of voyeur who gets his kicks from doing a straight guy . When I asked her she just shrugged ,its not your businesses ,your either going to do it or not ,I certainly can't force you . Well in manner of speaking she could force the issue ,she was well aware of my propensity to have her control our time in bed ,she has become some what domineering in having me go down on her after regular sex ,this was after I explained to her how much I loved to have her tell me what to do .
When I first mentioned how i would love to be told go down on her after sex she thought it very strange ,when i asked her if she wanted me to lick her after she peed ,her answer of yuck that's disgusting I never mentioned it again , trying to laugh it off ,to much wine ,she seemd to get over it ,so with this birthday request or I suppose it could be called a demand she has taken on a new persona
Do i like it ? Yes and no ,but I knew if I turned down her demand things would defiantly cool off in the bedroom I desperately wished I could run what to do by some one else but of course that was out of the question .

sissy has a question, what do you consider "gay"?
To most being bisexual is not being gay, it is just having sex with both sexes. You do not have to love men to have sex with them, you don't even have to kiss a man.
You are looking at this act of sex not as to satisfy your wife but as being gay. Have you talked to Her about this problem of yours?

 

[subserviant]

Well I think she knows about how i feel ,I always figured having sex with the same gender would be considered gay,by teh same token I have viewed trans sexual s and have not considered having sex with with a transgender woman ,that is a man becoming a woman ,so I am in a quandary .perhaps Pat has read into my desires ,or at least what she perceives what my desires are ,and she ia in all probability not far off course .As I explained in my earlier posts about trying to get her to take a more dominant role in our relationship perhaps this is her way of saying " ok buster this is what you want ,this is what you get " It is difficult to draw her out as to her feelings ,So I have agreed to do what she wants ,her smile lite up the room .I do hope its all worth it ,now I am filled angst over whats going to happen later today

 

[ReadyOne]

Sounds like you haven't discussed your hard limits with Pat.

If you have, and she's going past them, then your relationship is probably in trouble. It may not be this specific incident, but one in the future....

If you have not, then please do so. If you don't, you will find yourself (eventually) at a point where there is too much stress on your relationship....

 

[subserviant]

So I worked up the nerve to “have the little talk” I guess I was a little worried about the unknown .What made you decide to go down this road I asked earlier today .Another bomb shell ,I’m doing this as much for you as I am for me .
I was stunned ,what the hell are you talking about ,doing it for me .Oh come on do you think I’m so dumb that I can’t read between the lines ,the way you have been after me to make you go down on me after we screw ,when you begged me to let you wipe my pussy before you used your tongue but you really wanted me to tell you no .I have done some research on line ,I pretty well figured out what your desires are .
And so it went ,now waiting for Brad I’m not feeling a lot better but am detremined to go through with it

 

[SissySalina]

Thank you for your thoughts!
sissy saying: In life there am many doors and some are opened and some are left closed the choice is up to the individual; just remember if you do not open the door you never know what is behind it.
or
Try it you may like it or not but al least you found out.
Best wishes!

 

[subserviant]

So I got a reprieve ,Brad called ,he couldn't make ,some thing about finishing a window and the lead or what ever he uses .It is fine with Pat ,I think she is getting a kick out of watching me squirm .So that was yesterday ,he promised to be here today .
So taking advice ,I talked at length to my wife ,it became very clear that she has for some time suspected about my desire to be dominated ,my recent requests when we are intimate firmed up her suspicions ,according to what she told me she has been doing some research on line ,as she put it ,one does not have to be a rocket scientist to figure me out ,it took a while for her to come to the realization
that she might enjoy having me due her bidding ,that is not just in bed and there for the birthday request ,to prove to herself and to me that she is truly in charge .
I have of course known about my propensity to be domed ,so given my reluctance to engage in sex with another man ,I guess its still called sex at any rate things might work out for the better now that the air is cleared about our relationship .
I did express my reservation about ,and this is difficult to talk about ,when Brad ejaculates ,just the thought of his doing so in my mouth is so repugnant .it makes me gag juts thinking about it .
Pat laughed ,you do it every time we have sex ,you eat your own cum ,its no different .
Well it is different I pointed it as when I go down on her its fairly easy to work on her clit until she orgasms and not swallow my ejaculate .
She grinned ,we'll have to work on that .shit why did I have to shoot off my mouth ,any way I told her on no uncertain terms that I wouldn't swallow .I might as well pissed into Lake Erie to bring up the level ,her pat on my cheek ,oh yeah you are ,you'll do exactly as I want and I want you eat his cum .
I did a little research on the net about gay sex ,I didn't learn a lot of new stuff ,one thing that is stressed repeatedly is to use loads of lube when being penetrated use lots then use more ,unless your into pain and want to risk being ripped ,also in big letters ,use protection in all cases unless your in a long time relationship and completely trust the other person even then its not a bad idea to use a condom .Now its wait for Brad to show

 

[ChrissyCD64]

sissy has a question, what do you consider "gay"?
To most being bisexual is not being gay, it is just having sex with both sexes. You do not have to love men to have sex with them, you don't even have to kiss a man.
You are looking at this act of sex not as to satisfy your wife but as being gay. Have you talked to Her about this problem of yours?

I totally agree. I "love" my wife, but I "like" sex with all human beings regardless of gender as does my wife, but we both have a preference for "same-sex" sex. That doesn't mean that either of us is "gay", it just means we have preferences but are open to sex with anyone and everyone.

 

[SissySalina]

If She has done proper research on line then she should have picked up on the dynamics of the D/s relationship and understand that it is not all about the domination but the caring that also goes with the relationship.
A good dominant cares about the submissive and does not pushes into areas that bother the sub. The dominant work up to things in gradual steps.

 

[subserviant]

makes sense in what you say ,however in our case she has beyond any shadow of a doubt figured out from the way I have acted in the past that its my wish to be subservient to her,and i can't deny , did wonder what the outcome would have been if I had absolutely refused ,perhaps this began as a test ,now as the time to fulfill her wishes draws close I must admit I am growing a little excited ,not so much of doing the nasty with a guy but to see her reaction ,yes I know from having read about the Dom/Sub relationship that it is ultimately the sub who calls the shots . I have had fantasy's of being humiliated for quit some time ,this will I think prove to myself and to Pat if I really want it to go forward .
A question if I may .Do you and your wife engage in sex with members of the same gender in the presence of each other and if so does it prove to be a turn on for you both .
Any further advice appreciated and welcomed .

 

[SissySalina]

Short answer: yes
Long: The participation on sex with same sex in presence of each other is practiced. It makes Her happy and feel good which makes sissy happy and feeling good. Please note that sissy is in permanent chastity via a tube so does not enjoy release in that way.
She very much enjoys seeing sissy get fucked and seeing sissy swallow loads, it is easy to tell this from Her expression and actions.
Her orgasm's are much more intense when She is with a woman vs a male.
She note She does like to keep sissy in restraints when She is with a woman.

 

[SissySalina]

There is also this: You are doing this for Her and for yourself, this type relationship is built on a large pile of TRUST, if you do not have this then this type relationship will not work.
Best advice is to take it slow and steady, build on each day. If you trust enough then it will work out but do not push it. The biggest part of trust is communicating with each other.
The first time the anticipation seems worse than the actual act and that's when the trust between the parties comes into play.
Hope this helps!

 

[Iris_66]

I absolutely agree, as ever, Sisy talks a lot of sense

For me, as a Dom, it’s not at all about me, it’s about my Subby

My Sunny loves giving up complete control, and it relies on me knowing her as well, if not better, than she knows herself. I try to make her become so turned on she looses control, but never does anything she genuinely doesn’t want to do

If you really don’t want to have sex with a guy, you need to say so. If you want him to come on your face or body, say that. But you need to have a proper talk about your Ds rules and boundaries

If She has done proper research on line then she should have picked up on the dynamics of the D/s relationship and understand that it is not all about the domination but the caring that also goes with the relationship.
A good dominant cares about the submissive and does not pushes into areas that bother the sub. The dominant work up to things in gradual steps.

 

[subserviant]

Thanks for all the input .lots to think about .However the longer this scenario continues ,the more convinced I am that I will if Pat agrees to becoming more submissive to her ,it just seems to be the fit i am looking for . Another little glitch ,Brad once again called to postpone our meeting ,now i am starting to wonder if there is in fact an actual meeting set up as its Pat who answers her phone .
I inquired of her if my suspicions are in fact correct ,all she does is smile and say " oh yeah its going to happen " I will say its done wonders for our sex life as last night was mind blowing ,I have in the past urged her to take charge when we are intimate ,I have no idea why it turns me on like it does but the have her tell me what she wants me to do is ,well its great ,Last night ,and this is after many months of almost begging her to twist and pinch my nipples she did so ,she had always expressed concern about hurting me ,it would seem that she finally figures out that being hurt is exactly what i desire ,I remember her nails digging in ,me yelling ,ripe them off at the moment of my orgasm ,even though she did not oblige ,she did inflict Magyar pain .She continued after I had release not quiting when i asked her to ,she had me lay in a 69 position when I went down on her saying that it was a huge turn on for her in making me moan ,saying she could feel it going straight to her clit .
So the wait continues ,I am a lot less concerned about having to have our meeting with Brad I must say ,looking forward to it ? Well perhaps not but have resigned myself that its going to happen .
So it hasn't come to Pat making me into a sissy as I assume is not uncommon in this type of relationship and to be truthful I really dont have any desire to be treated as a "slave" .Time will tell I suppose as to what is going to happen down the road .Brad now says tomorrow ,we'll see .

 

[SissySalina]

A "slave" is quite different from a "sissy". Do you dress up? Have you tried makeup?

By the want you may want to turn on PM's so you can send and get messages privately.