Question for straight men who suck cock

[heating1st]

I've noticed that a lot of straight men who lick to suck cock are older. So I want to ask a question.

When you were young and virile you probably never thought about it. Now that you are older and it's harder to get hard and stay hard, you think back to what it was like to always be hard. And to get hard in an instant. And how thick and well defined your cock was. The head plump and thick. The veins running up your cock.

But now that your body and libido have slowed down, you think about sucking a young (of course I mean of age) hard cock. Taking the thick shaft in your mouth and remembering...

To you cock sucking men, am I on the right track here? Does sucking a hard cock remind you and what it was like to be young?

 

[FGB]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

 

[PaxNurgle]

I agree to some extent. But there are some males who are submissively inclined, who get off on the humiliation aspect of it when commanded or ordered to do so (usually in a BDSM context) by a hot, strong female. They do it not because they enjoy sucking cock per se, or because they are attracted to men, but because they are attracted to WOMEN, perhaps more so than most straight guys. And they get off on surrendering themselves to a strong, hot, beautiful woman's sadistic whims. So they become willing to engage in forced homosexual acts because the thought of "Bending" their sexual tastes for their partner's amusement is a huge turn-on for them. It's a humiliation/BDSM fetish for hot women, not really a latent homosexual desire.

This is hard to understand for a lot of people, and it is clearly not something most heterosexual men would ever being into- even most of those with female domination fantasies. But I suppose that by some strict definition, you can say that any man who engages in homosexual acts FOR ANY REASON, or in any context, regardless of their true sexual orientation, can still be described as homosexual.

I prefer to go purely by sexual orientation. Otherwise, men who are subject to unwanted sexual contact with other men (prison rape, for example) would still be considered "not straight" and that is not a fair assessment.

 

[Earthly1]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

For me its quite complicated. I am male, I and have always found the thought of sex from a woman's point of view quite thrilling, and from time to time when I was in my teens and through my twenties I privately fantasised about being fucked by an older man with me in the "female role," but it never happened, but 12 years ago when I was 27 I did suck a cock of a much older man.

Despite this, I do not find men attractive, I don't "fancy" men, I've never looked at any man and thought "ooo he's nice," I'm just not attracted to men like that at all.

 

[CandiCame]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

How about we don't tell other people how to self-identify their own sexuality?

I've hooked up with plenty of straight guys. Sexuality and gender are much more complex than male+male=gay.

Let people label themselves however they feel comfortable. There's no reason to be a dick to the op.

 

[FGB]

How about we don't tell other people how to self-identify their own sexuality?

I've hooked up with plenty of straight guys. Sexuality and gender are much more complex than male+male=gay.

Let people label themselves however they feel comfortable. There's no reason to be a dick to the op.

Don't have a problem with Gay or Bisexual people or Straight people.

I know the difference.

Calling the Sun a brighter Moon will not help your Sunburn or help you tan by moonlight....

 

[CandiCame]

Don't have a problem with Gay or Bisexual people or Straight people.

I know the difference.

Apparently not.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I've noticed that a lot of straight men who lick to suck cock are older. So I want to ask a question.

When you were young and virile you probably never thought about it. Now that you are older and it's harder to get hard and stay hard, you think back to what it was like to always be hard. And to get hard in an instant. And how thick and well defined your cock was. The head plump and thick. The veins running up your cock.

But now that your body and libido have slowed down, you think about sucking a young (of course I mean of age) hard cock. Taking the thick shaft in your mouth and remembering...

To you cock sucking men, am I on the right track here? Does sucking a hard cock remind you and what it was like to be young?

I had my first taste of cock when I was--, too young to mention on this site.
That feeling never left me,

I don't consider myself straight or gay or bi or any other quirky or any other funny label.
But for the benefit of those who have to pigeon hole everyone's sexuality
I'm a 'sexual opportunist' and 'orgasmic technician'.
So, NO, I don't think you are anywhere close.

 

[KUJACK]

No

I suck a lot of young cock when I was in my teams that early 20s but I stopped because I thought it was gay and I really like women and pussy
Now I realize that it's not just that I want a cock in my mouth in my cock in a pussy but I want both and all the time

 

[magicalmoments]

I've noticed that a lot of straight men who lick to suck cock are older. So I want to ask a question.

When you were young and virile you probably never thought about it. Now that you are older and it's harder to get hard and stay hard, you think back to what it was like to always be hard. And to get hard in an instant. And how thick and well defined your cock was. The head plump and thick. The veins running up your cock.

But now that your body and libido have slowed down, you think about sucking a young (of course I mean of age) hard cock. Taking the thick shaft in your mouth and remembering...

To you cock sucking men, am I on the right track here? Does sucking a hard cock remind you and what it was like to be young?

Your assumptions may be right for some but don't fit my circumstances.
I was in my late 20's when I first had my cock sucked by another man. Before that I was strictly hetero. I found that having my cock sucked by a guy was usually better than being sucked by a woman so I kept indulging myself. I also found that I enjoyed sucking dick myself although I will say that I indulged in this primarily as a means to have sex with married women.
I also found that I enjoyed fucking guys in the ass. I never developed a taste for being fucked in the ass myself but found an orgasm inside a guys ass was as good as fucking a woman in the ass or, indeed, in the pussy. Although I will say if given a choice of pussy or ass I'll take the pussy every time.
Also, I've been in a monogamous hetero relationship for almost 20 years. If I had my wife's permission I'd get involved in bi sexual activity again on an instance.
So, as I say, for me your theory is way off.

 

[BBCfan]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

Actually recent studies on brain psychology have come to different conclusions.

The male brain can have a sexual imprint, usually at a young age, that has a recurring loop that occurs and repeats causing a fetish to form.

One can be completely hetero and only attracted to women but have a fetish to suck cock that will continue to reactivate at times and usually will never go away.

There is zero attraction to men and still complete desire for women yet the urge to suck cock will exist.

These cases are considered straight men with a fetish to suck cock just as the title states.

 

[MadCatZach]

I sucked a few cocks while in my 20's and actually preferred sucking older men. It was for me about giving them pleasure and perhaps it was some phycological hang-up relating to pleasing my own Father somehow. As an Older man now I find pleasure in men my age and have no desire for some young man. Men my age understand about the giving and taking of pleasure just for the pure joy of it. I still find women more exciting but I also enjoy a nice cock to play with.

 

[Astroman72]

Actually recent studies on brain psychology have come to different conclusions.

The male brain can have a sexual imprint, usually at a young age, that has a recurring loop that occurs and repeats causing a fetish to form.

One can be completely hetero and only attracted to women but have a fetish to suck cock that will continue to reactivate at times and usually will never go away.

There is zero attraction to men and still complete desire for women yet the urge to suck cock will exist.

These cases are considered straight men with a fetish to suck cock just as the title states.

That pretty much describes me exactly. I've always had a normal romantic and sexual interest in women, but from when I first became sexually aware, I've always had an equally strong craving for gay sex, especially sucking cocks. I've never had the slightest romantic or emotional attraction to men--or really even physical attraction, aside from the penis.

That being said, even though my desires for women and men are very different, I still identify as bisexual, because I do kind of agree that you're not exactly straight if you love cocks.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

I totally disagree! I myself consider myself bi, as I love all sex with any human beings, male, female, transgendered, etc. That said, in my opinion, sucking a guys cock, giving him a hand-job, or even fucking his ass does not make you gay or bi. Only when you, yourself, have had a human cock penetrate your ass, as I have many, many times and love it, do you become bi or gay. Even getting your ass fucked by a woman with a strap-on does not count because that is still sex with a woman.

 

[BBCfan]

I've noticed that a lot of straight men who lick to suck cock are older. So I want to ask a question.

When you were young and virile you probably never thought about it. Now that you are older and it's harder to get hard and stay hard, you think back to what it was like to always be hard. And to get hard in an instant. And how thick and well defined your cock was. The head plump and thick. The veins running up your cock.

But now that your body and libido have slowed down, you think about sucking a young (of course I mean of age) hard cock. Taking the thick shaft in your mouth and remembering...

To you cock sucking men, am I on the right track here? Does sucking a hard cock remind you and what it was like to be young?

I think it's likely different for most guys. I personally explored my cocksucking desires when I was still fairly young. I had fucked countless women and then my fetish to suck cock emerged (re-emerged). I explored it for quite some time but now prefer to feed my fetish solely through fantasy and some role play.

I think a part of older guys becoming more curious may have more to do with the fact that there is disconnect often with women as they age and become less interested in sex. The comradery of sexual understanding combined with a more open mind and less concern about societal judgements perhaps makes pursuing male on male interaction more appealing.

Just a theory.

 

[MadCatZach]

You could be correct as many of the men I have chatted with are seeking some form of sex after their wife decided she was no longer interested in sex. Some sucked a cock 45 years ago and now would like to have another go at it. Some want to cuddle naked and sucking one another off is a small part of the total package. I have only talked to a couple men that simply wanted to suck a cock and then leave. No blow and go , they want a friend with benefits and rubbing naked bodies together since their wives no longer consent to any of that rubbish.

 

[windwater]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

___________________________

So rare to see someone tell it like they see it.

1/2 of these threads are devoted to like topics.

And I swear 1/3 of the members here are guys pretending to be women.

Just be who you are, and it's OK to have an opinion.

 

[BBCfan]

That pretty much describes me exactly. I've always had a normal romantic and sexual interest in women, but from when I first became sexually aware, I've always had an equally strong craving for gay sex, especially sucking cocks. I've never had the slightest romantic or emotional attraction to men--or really even physical attraction, aside from the penis.

That being said, even though my desires for women and men are very different, I still identify as bisexual, because I do kind of agree that you're not exactly straight if you love cocks.

Interesting...we all have unique variations I suppose.

I was always girl crazy, yet was curious about cock only from the stand point of how I measured up and from that the curiosity to see other cocks grew.

I had a few experiences when young, shy and insecure around women but was horny as fuck so the brotherhood of shared sexuality seemed an ok alternative.

When my desire to suck dick again started years later it was a slow progression before acting on it. After years of occasionally acting on it the allure faded yet the desire remains mentally strong, it just unfulfilling when acted on now.

It's never gone beyond wanting to suck dick and never any attraction to the guy. Often it would have been preferable to just engage the cock without the guy attached, LOL

I don't care about labels but in my search for understanding this behaviour I've realized I best fit the category of a straight guy with a fetish to suck dick.

That said if I'm engaged in role play with my GF, I prefer to be called a faggot and a cocksucker.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

___________________________

So rare to see someone tell it like they see it.

1/2 of these threads are devoted to like topics.

And I swear 1/3 of the members here are guys pretending to be women.

Just be who you are, and it's OK to have an opinion.

I somewhat take offense at your comment. I am not pretending to be a woman. Since I retired four months ago, I no longer own any male clothing and live 100% as a woman except that I have a well working cock. My wife loves it this way loves watching me with guys while she enjoys her girlfriends, some of whom are the wives of the guys I'm with.

 

[BBCfan]

I somewhat take offense at your comment. I am not pretending to be a woman. Since I retired four months ago, I no longer own any male clothing and live 100% as a woman except that I have a well working cock. My wife loves it this way loves watching me with guys while she enjoys her girlfriends, some of whom are the wives of the guys I'm with.

Wow, fascinating. Good for you!

Did this lifestyle desire always exist or more just evolved through experience?

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Only a newbie could come up with this.

Straight men do not suck Cock,Dick,Penis or whatever you want to call it.

They don't fuck males in the ass and they don't take it up the ass.

NO male on male action.

If you do ANY of this you are not Straight.

Just THAT simple.

Correct.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Wow, fascinating. Good for you!

Did this lifestyle desire always exist or more just evolved through experience?

It has existed nearly all of our lives. I have always liked guys more than gals and dressed as a girl except for school; and later for work, and she has always liked gals more than guys. Our parents introduced us as a way to try to get each of us interested in the opposite sex. Now that I am retired, I live full time as a woman, just with a fully functioning cock.

 

[bicurnow]

It has existed nearly all of our lives. I have always liked guys more than gals and dressed as a girl except for school; and later for work, and she has always liked gals more than guys. Our parents introduced us as a way to try to get each of us interested in the opposite sex. Now that I am retired, I live full time as a woman, just with a fully functioning cock.

Sounds like a blast. Would love to see you hard in panty hose but shaved clean

 

[BBCfan]

It has existed nearly all of our lives. I have always liked guys more than gals and dressed as a girl except for school; and later for work, and she has always liked gals more than guys. Our parents introduced us as a way to try to get each of us interested in the opposite sex. Now that I am retired, I live full time as a woman, just with a fully functioning cock.

Fascinating. Very cool marriage. Good for you. Congrats on your retirement.

 

[windwater]

I somewhat take offense at your comment. I am not pretending to be a woman. Since I retired four months ago, I no longer own any male clothing and live 100% as a woman except that I have a well working cock. My wife loves it this way loves watching me with guys while she enjoys her girlfriends, some of whom are the wives of the guys I'm with.

Good for you.
Yea!
So you're not who I was talking about.