I Want Him to Take Control

[Dannyluvsu13]

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Thow me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

 

[Xringm1a]

This may not help much, but he is an IDIOT

 

[Justfantasies]

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Thow me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

Nothing wrong with you at all, but hard to turn a guy into something he is not. perhaps an adventure with a big manly man who wants only to fuck you and fuck you hard?

 

[ducks]

That sucks he want just take you. And using your body for his pleasure and in turn you actually are using him.

 

[dumbeg4]

Hi Dani,
You sound lovely and only 18! Surely too young to stay anchored to a partner who denies your desires?
Your wish to be controlled occasionally is perfectly natural and should be explored. Try Fetlife maybe.
I share your appetite. Have I taken my advice? No but I am 73!
Go flap your wings.

 

[Earthly1]

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Thow me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

You want to be swept of your feet like this young man?

https://i.imgur.com/sxdGyXE.jpg?3

 

[ElliesExplorations]

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Thow me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

I have been feeling this way as well, right now we are more like taking turns so we both can experience what we like. I know that he also likes to be taken, as do I...so taking turns helps...don't give up, keep trying.

 

[cuck72]

Nice hairy man

You want to be swept of your feet like this young man?

https://i.imgur.com/sxdGyXE.jpg?3

MMMMMMMM, A huge fantasy of mine when we're alone, or else thinking of him cuckolding me. Of cause I'd be their clean up bitch.

 

[Gabriel1664]

Dani - wonderful and so accurate

Such a wonderful and such an articulate description of how you feel, and what you need. Thank you.
G

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Thow me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

 

[Mr_Neb]

Hi everyone,

I hate feeling like the man in the relationship. I have to plan the dates. I have to decide what we do all the time. I have to initiate anything intimate. I have a hidden submissive nature and had a very stressful upbringing. I just want to not have to think about everything all the time and let go. Occasionally, I want to be used anytime, anywhere and feel wanted (sexually). Throw me on the bed and have your wicked way with me. I'm not going to break like china. When I bring up how I feel, he makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting to just be controlled a little bit. Is there?

~Dani

I am afraid that you just might be a victim of modern times and certainly too young to remember what it was like prior to the the sexual revolution of the 60's and the women's liberation moment. (I however am not that young!)

Back then male and female roles were much more well defined. (I am not saying that is/was a good or bad thing. It is just the way it was.) Men were SUPPOSED to open doors, pull out chairs, stand up, pay for dates, make "the first moves", etc. when it came to women.

The (appropriate) demand and achievement of equality for women in the workplace and other places of power spilled over into somehow branding expressions of chivalry as sexists and demeaning to women. That behavior was something to be bred out of men.

Back then it resulted in just some confusion that was generally worked out one-on-one. Now however, it has become a virtual assault on manhood. You are now seeing an entire male generation that has been indoctrinated from birth on the modern version of feminism with is little short of the emasculation of men.

Few men have the guts to maintain what was good about the old days yet treat women a equal partners. Good luck finding that person in this day and age.