I know that this topic has been covered before but I'm just curious and I can't help it. Women what are your favorite sizes ? And does size count? I'm about 8 inches sometimes I even get a little bigger if in very horny. Is it a good size? I'm very confused about what size is considered small/average and big.
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This is the first time the subject's come up around here....
I saw a similar thread while I was checking previous pages. But it doesn't matter that's not the point anyways.
I am not blessed in this department, I'm slightly below average when erect and not only that, I'm "uncut" as well, you know, that type of cock that most women don't like. This is not a photo of me but I am pretty much the same as this -
https://www.bing.com/images/search?...608033210058868873&selectedIndex=4&ajaxhist=0
I am 39 years old now in a long term relationship with a woman that clearly doesn't see it as an issue and we've never really spoke about it.
For a long time though I found my penis size/type really debilitating because lets face it, as you go through life, sex, or the hopeful prospect for it, is always in the background when we have social interactions with the opposite sex, I'm not saying every woman I've known and meat was a potential sexual partner, but just knowing that I'm not very well equipped, psychologically ruined any potential for sex if there is an attraction there between me and someone else, to a point where I actively avoided getting too close to women.
I always assumed that everyone else had a bigger penis than me and so if I had sex with a woman she would compare and judge me negatively against her previous partners.
I don't think women realise just what an issue this is for men in the culture we live in, where penis size/type, along with how good you are in bed is literally a measure of what you are and if you don't measure up, so to speak, it can make you feel like you're not even a valid human being.
https://www.bing.com/images/search?...608033210058868873&selectedIndex=4&ajaxhist=0
I am 39 years old now in a long term relationship with a woman that clearly doesn't see it as an issue and we've never really spoke about it.
For a long time though I found my penis size/type really debilitating because lets face it, as you go through life, sex, or the hopeful prospect for it, is always in the background when we have social interactions with the opposite sex, I'm not saying every woman I've known and meat was a potential sexual partner, but just knowing that I'm not very well equipped, psychologically ruined any potential for sex if there is an attraction there between me and someone else, to a point where I actively avoided getting too close to women.
I always assumed that everyone else had a bigger penis than me and so if I had sex with a woman she would compare and judge me negatively against her previous partners.
I don't think women realise just what an issue this is for men in the culture we live in, where penis size/type, along with how good you are in bed is literally a measure of what you are and if you don't measure up, so to speak, it can make you feel like you're not even a valid human being.
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I understand. But from what I've heard women care more about "knowing how to use it " and not size. Furthermore due to low self esteem I always feel ike I will be a let down to women that's why I started this thread.
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You know I've always been a bit sceptical about claims of cock size. What is the convention for measuring? On a freezing day? Just after a really hot shower? Measure from the tip of the cock along the top of the shaft? Or along the bottom? -- you get a different measurement, for sure!
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Very much true but... I don't expect the guy to do everything! I don't even expect him to give me an orgasm. That's something we need to do together. What worked like a charm with one person might not work with another. I've been with guys who insisted on doing to me what their ex liked. Okay, nice to try but if that doesn't trip my trigger, stop beavering away at it. You'll exhaust yourself and neither of us will have any fun.
I will say that all of the guys I've been with seemed to have pretty much the same cock size. I'd like to say that I never measured one but I did try. Why? He kept carrying on that he thought he wasn't big enough. He also said that my pussy was very loose. He had only ever been with a couple of other women and both had babies. I don't know if they got stitched up to be tighter or they just felt different than me but at the time I could work a pencil in and out of myself. So not loose. But I also couldn't really feel his cock inside of me unless he was wearing a condom. That was kind of weird but I later discovered that he didn't really like sex at all. Perhaps once he entered me he sometimes began to lose his erection. I don't know. But I did try to measure him because he wouldn't shut up about his size. Whipping out the tape measure cured him of that!
I suppose there are some women who are into a specific look or size of a cock. I do think some are prettier than others but... If I'm with a guy then I'm good with whatever he's got. We then just have to work together to figure out how best to put it to use.
Try to work on your self esteem. Low self esteem doesn't work for anyone. That being said, I think most women will be more than willing to help you with sex and be supportive of you no matter what. Fixing people is something that most women will instinctively want to do. So if she likes you, don't worry about it. Just start playing around and see what seems like fun!
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Let me start off by saying that I think cocks (unless very small), are lovely. But if I’m pushed I do like them big and fifth (given the choice), I think 8 inches or more like 9-10 inch’s would be ideal for me. Though they can (sadly), be rare for most guys. I almost exclusively date black guys these days so they do tend to be bigger. So I’d say (sorry for rambling), 9-10 inches and girthy is best.
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Size does the necessarily matter but many women I have known tend to espouse a desire for decent girth. There also seems to be a connection to what they are used to. For instance if a woman has enjoyed men with above average size but never any that are quite small they tend to be a tad disappointed and even if the sex in general isn't that bad they daydream about bigger cocks. My penis is a skinny 4" erect and although it is not necessarily a deal breaker so to speak I can't say they didn't prefer something a bit meatier.
Exactly and I can't get a already number because of its freezing it will be a bit smaller.
I will keep that in mind. True I really need to work on my self esteem. Btw is it very different when in sex a guy uses a condom? I mean the feel.
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Yes. It’s a difference for sure. Men aren’t the only ones that lose out on the sensation front
Okay interesting.
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I have a tiny penis and usually little stamina when actually fucking. I totally rely on digital or oral stimulation to give most women I have had sex with enjoyment. I was with one girl who believe it or not had no interest in foreplay or any oral or digital stimulation. She made that abundantly clear the first time we had sex. I stuck my little cock in her and maybe lasted 3 or 4 strokes then came. She gave me 2 more chances to do better over the next couple of weeks but although I may have improved slightly neither time could have lasted even a minute. It turned out she was only using me to get a chance with a friend of mine. She eventually succeeded and they were together for a few years. I was sleeping in the bedroom next to his room when they got it on the first time. Let's say she didn't sound like she was faking her enjoyment and I could hear her gratitude for quite a long time. I knew he had a much bigger cock and I learned that he obviously had far better staying power as well.
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I like a big cock if everything else comes with it. I especially like looking at and playing with long beautiful cocks on a toned young stud.
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Something that is rarely mentioned is the visual stimulus of seeing a large penis. I have never seen women drool over the sight of a tiny flaccid or erect penis live on film or in pictures. Has any girl ever said something to the effect of ' I heard he's got a tiny penis I wouldn't mind him riding me" I actually do have a very small cock and I am fine about it but I am well aware size can definitely matter.
What you are saying is me. Curently a young stud in a university .
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Mmnn
Im 7-inches
Im 7-inches
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I mostly fall for the mind before I see the penis. If you can charm me I might be yours for the taking. However, I'm sure we've all be in a situation where as soon as the clothes come off you wonder why you're there. I like small penises in my ass so sometimes its a nice treat for both of us. My favorite size is 7-8" because it feels good everywhere for as long as they can last. I do love the feeling of bigger cocks too but they can wear me out, make me sore and ruin me for my husband who usually likes to take advantage of my used pussy after I get home, lol.
Trust me, 8" is on the big size, and as already been said, confidence is extremely sexy.
Trust me, 8" is on the big size, and as already been said, confidence is extremely sexy.
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As a guy, 8" is perfect for me. (shorter to suck, though. Even my dentist says I have an overactive gag reflex. Her hygienist just giggles.)
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"More drool, more lubrication" a lover of mine used to say.
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I've often wondered if that gag reflex creates a nice squeezing sensation on the head. It's too unpleasant for me to explore. There aren't too many things that can kill the scene like feeling you're about to barf on the guy's cock
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I've often wondered if that gag reflex creates a nice squeezing sensation on the head. It's too unpleasant for me to explore. There aren't too many things that can kill the scene like feeling you're about to barf on the guy's cock
I'm in the average six inch club so...
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So..... ? you're offering yourself for research purposes?
