When I look over my previous ads, in many of them altruism comes shining through; unjustifiably so. But let me be honest: even though I have a penchant for wanting to give a lot away to the woman I search for, I am not doing this out of pure altruism; instead I long for getting something back in return. To be liked, to be admired maybe, to be recognized as a man worth knowing; whatever you like to call it.
In this pursuit of attracting a soul and a heart, nobody is selfless; myself included.
And frankly I find that totally fair; I am not chastising myself. Because why am I doing what I do here? To win someone's liking and more, in return for getting mine. And I am just as certain: when a woman sends me back a PM, she does that because she also wants to be liked and admired. Nothing wrong with that either.
So what am I prepared to offer you here? Not all that much, if you go by conventional metrics. My main offer to you is intimate companionship, and that's worth something mainly for people who used to get it from their spouses, but no longer do so. As for me, my wife lost her interest in erotic intimacy, when her menopause ended without any more desires in that direction. And unfortunately many other things go by the wayside, when erotic intimacy disappears in a marriage.
I am no longer young and perky; all I can claim is perennial horniness. Or – to say it in more civilized terms – my sex drive is still up and running. Useful perhaps, should you be missing that a lot in your current partnership.
Then I consider myself a human male being, and I expect you to be a highly human female. Again it does not sound like much, but in reality it can be a priceless treasure (if two people claiming it mean that with full honesty), in these days and age of ever more de-humanizing environments. You can count on meeting somebody, who will stand behind you, or walk beside you, whichever way you like to phrase it.
And next I would like to extend that a lot further than only treating each other with respect and with a positive view on one another. My intention is nothing less than enticing and arousing each other's libidos, and in addition to that, also each other's souls and minds as well. "Mindfondling" and tickling each other's souls, if you pardon the expression. I really hope you are enjoying such activities.
Maybe you have to count me as a hopeless romantic, combined with lots of optimism. Not entirely safe for a totally realistic engagement. But frankly, I am convinced there are more important things in life than only realism, however much I value it most of the time.
In this pursuit of attracting a soul and a heart, nobody is selfless; myself included.
And frankly I find that totally fair; I am not chastising myself. Because why am I doing what I do here? To win someone's liking and more, in return for getting mine. And I am just as certain: when a woman sends me back a PM, she does that because she also wants to be liked and admired. Nothing wrong with that either.
So what am I prepared to offer you here? Not all that much, if you go by conventional metrics. My main offer to you is intimate companionship, and that's worth something mainly for people who used to get it from their spouses, but no longer do so. As for me, my wife lost her interest in erotic intimacy, when her menopause ended without any more desires in that direction. And unfortunately many other things go by the wayside, when erotic intimacy disappears in a marriage.
I am no longer young and perky; all I can claim is perennial horniness. Or – to say it in more civilized terms – my sex drive is still up and running. Useful perhaps, should you be missing that a lot in your current partnership.
Then I consider myself a human male being, and I expect you to be a highly human female. Again it does not sound like much, but in reality it can be a priceless treasure (if two people claiming it mean that with full honesty), in these days and age of ever more de-humanizing environments. You can count on meeting somebody, who will stand behind you, or walk beside you, whichever way you like to phrase it.
And next I would like to extend that a lot further than only treating each other with respect and with a positive view on one another. My intention is nothing less than enticing and arousing each other's libidos, and in addition to that, also each other's souls and minds as well. "Mindfondling" and tickling each other's souls, if you pardon the expression. I really hope you are enjoying such activities.
Maybe you have to count me as a hopeless romantic, combined with lots of optimism. Not entirely safe for a totally realistic engagement. But frankly, I am convinced there are more important things in life than only realism, however much I value it most of the time.
