I admit it, I'm Bi Sexual

[Nate_666]

I recently watched a video of a woman admitting she was bi sexual even though at the time she realized it, she had not been with a woman. She was mainly attracted to men but was still attracted to women. She eventually was with a woman and loved it....

That got me thinking...The first time I ever truly kissed somebody, I mean really made out with them was with another boy. We were teenagers. Not just kissed but some penis fondly....It is a good memory. I enjoyed it.

I'm 48 now and have never been with another man since. Never had an opportunity. I am attracted to women and have been with plenty, but I also wished I had been with a man. I feel I missed something..

I truly believe I could be with another guy but alas I don't think it'll ever happen. For what ever reason I have allowed myself to become a fat guy with a small dick. I would not wish myself on anybody. Male or Female.

I write this post because I just needed to say it. To truly admit what has been running thru my head for years....I am Bi sexual

 

[wishywashy]

Sexual Pleasures are knocking at your door....

I recently watched a video of a woman admitting she was bi sexual even though at the time she realized it, she had not been with a woman. She was mainly attracted to men but was still attracted to women. She eventually was with a woman and loved it....

That got me thinking...The first time I ever truly kissed somebody, I mean really made out with them was with another boy. We were teenagers. Not just kissed but some penis fondly....It is a good memory. I enjoyed it.

I'm 48 now and have never been with another man since. Never had an opportunity. I am attracted to women and have been with plenty, but I also wished I had been with a man. I feel I missed something..

I truly believe I could be with another guy but alas I don't think it'll ever happen. For what ever reason I have allowed myself to become a fat guy with a small dick. I would not wish myself on anybody. Male or Female.

I write this post because I just needed to say it. To truly admit what has been running thru my head for years....I am Bi sexual

I'm Bi-Sexual myself and I like it even though I'm married and haven't had any sex in the last3 years.

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

As life goes on...

I'm Bi-Sexual myself and I like it even though I'm married and haven't had any sex in the last3 years.

I just PM’d a Lit User a few minutes ago about this very thing. I have known since I was very young that I liked other boys. Then as my life has gone on my feelings for men became very strong. I’ve gone through the “wife” changes turning into little or no sex or intimacy now that we’re older. Knowing I have been Bi Sexual my entire life, I decided to act on those feelings three years ago.

I met a wonderful man through SilverDaddies. He lives in the same city. He’s a massage therapist, and I originally went to him for a massage and lower back relief. He gave me a massage in the nude, as I was nude also. It was an amazing experience. I have found a true friend with benefits. He can touch, caress, kiss, hug, suck and fuck better than a woman. His only aim is to give total and complete pleasure.

He and I have become very close. The only thing is: be very careful. I never thought a man could unlock such deep feelings of endearment in me. It is a very life changing experience. My wife and I are still married, and have been for forty-four years. We met in high school and started to date in our senior year. I want to stay married, but, I do love to be with a man.

So if your considering a m/m experience, I recommend you try it asap!

 

[Astroman72]

I believe sexuality is really more along a spectrum rather than defined by hard categories.

I'm no expert, but I would bet that the vast majority of people have had at least had some instances of being aroused at the thought of a same-sex encounter, even if it's not their regular preference.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Online relationships might be something to try while you are getting into shape

 

[CottonForMe]

I just PM’d a Lit User a few minutes ago about this very thing. I have known since I was very young that I liked other boys. Then as my life has gone on my feelings for men became very strong. I’ve gone through the “wife” changes turning into little or no sex or intimacy now that we’re older. Knowing I have been Bi Sexual my entire life, I decided to act on those feelings three years ago.

I met a wonderful man through SilverDaddies. He lives in the same city. He’s a massage therapist, and I originally went to him for a massage and lower back relief. He gave me a massage in the nude, as I was nude also. It was an amazing experience. I have found a true friend with benefits. He can touch, caress, kiss, hug, suck and fuck better than a woman. His only aim is to give total and complete pleasure.

He and I have become very close. The only thing is: be very careful. I never thought a man could unlock such deep feelings of endearment in me. It is a very life changing experience. My wife and I are still married, and have been for forty-four years. We met in high school and started to date in our senior year. I want to stay married, but, I do love to be with a man.

So if your considering a m/m experience, I recommend you try it asap!

Oh yes. That could be me too. Really want a friend with benefits but retain being married loving relationship with her too. But I desire male on male, not just for physical but for intimacy that only a male can reciprocate.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yes it's all in the relationship and when you click it can be amazing!

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I recently watched a video of a woman admitting she was bi sexual even though at the time she realized it, she had not been with a woman. She was mainly attracted to men but was still attracted to women. She eventually was with a woman and loved it....

That got me thinking...The first time I ever truly kissed somebody, I mean really made out with them was with another boy. We were teenagers. Not just kissed but some penis fondly....It is a good memory. I enjoyed it.

I'm 48 now and have never been with another man since. Never had an opportunity. I am attracted to women and have been with plenty, but I also wished I had been with a man. I feel I missed something..

I truly believe I could be with another guy but alas I don't think it'll ever happen. For what ever reason I have allowed myself to become a fat guy with a small dick. I would not wish myself on anybody. Male or Female.

I write this post because I just needed to say it. To truly admit what has been running thru my head for years....I am Bi sexual

It feels good to finally say it ... I am Bi sexual too. About 10 years ago, I had a great shift in my sexual turn ons and started thinking about what it would be like to have some m2m adventures. For the last four years, I have indulged in them to the extent of performing oral sex with a select few buddies. I have not been involved in any anal sex, yet, but that is not out of the question.

Nice thread.

 

[Sunnyade]

I recently watched a video of a woman admitting she was bi sexual even though at the time she realized it, she had not been with a woman. She was mainly attracted to men but was still attracted to women. She eventually was with a woman and loved it....

That got me thinking...The first time I ever truly kissed somebody, I mean really made out with them was with another boy. We were teenagers. Not just kissed but some penis fondly....It is a good memory. I enjoyed it.

I'm 48 now and have never been with another man since. Never had an opportunity. I am attracted to women and have been with plenty, but I also wished I had been with a man. I feel I missed something..

I truly believe I could be with another guy but alas I don't think it'll ever happen. For what ever reason I have allowed myself to become a fat guy with a small dick. I would not wish myself on anybody. Male or Female.

I write this post because I just needed to say it. To truly admit what has been running thru my head for years....I am Bi sexual

Acceptance is a good 1st step, hopefully you will find the right person for you.

 

[pussycatmeowth]

Labels suck man. If you like them, have sex with whoever likes you too, Male or Female and in between!

 

[sensualhub]

Labels suck man. If you like them, have sex with whoever likes you too, Male or Female and in between!

Totally agree pussycat

 

[CandiCame]

Hey Op it sounds like it's body issues that are holding you back, and I just kinda want you to remember that you're never too old to make changes. If you think guys aren't gonna want you because you're out of shape, that's... I mean first of all that's not true, there are tons of guys who like chubby guys, but if it's a confidence thing, you can make lifestyle changes to bring your confidence up.

And just... not everybody is a size queen. I think that shit gets blown out of proportion.

45 isn't knocking on death's door the way you presented it. That's like half a human lifespan. You're not super old. It's not like you have to be resigned the way your post reads.

 

[blowit]

Labels suck man.!

Feel free to call me a wanabee label then

 

[Mqoi]

I finally came to terms with my desire for both men and women a few years ago and it brought a peace of mind that I'd never had about it.

 

[J1biboi]

I have always thought of myself as bisexual, even before I knew there was such a term. For as long as I can remember I have had the desire to suck cock. Having played around with a couple other kids when I was a kid, it wasn't until my mid twenties when I finally sucked a real cock. Though I haven't sucked another one since, the desire has been and is still there. It has never bothered me one bit to think of myself as bisexual.

 

[SparkyMark1961]

A few years ago I came to the conclusion that it is OK to be bi.
I had been chatting with guys on Silver Daddies and met up with a couple.
I never got to do all the things I want to do.
All the time I was doing it I felt like I was doing something wrong and that it wasn't ok to be like that. I am married and it caused me to seriously struggled with it.
Then one day as I was driving home something hit me, it is not illegal to be this way so why such guilt? Felt like a weight was lifted off of me.
Haven't done anything since then but am still interested.
Maybe one day I can spend the night with another man to do the things I want to do. Here's hoping.

 

[transqueen]

Mustering up courage

I admit that I'm bicurious at this point. I just want suck a cock and have mine sucked by a man. Still mustering up the merve.

 

[transqueen]

Bi Curious

I am bicurious mmyself. Just want suck a cock and have mine sucked. A gloryhole may be my best bet. If I enjoy it I'd do it again.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Enjoy Your Bisexuality

Finally and absolutely accepting your own essential bisexual nature is not something to 'admit' or 'confess' in a shameful or furtive way. It is something to joyfully celebrate and embrace with eager gratitude.
It's pretty-much accepted now that gender-orientation forms a wide spectrum. There are people at the extreme poles of that spectrum who will always be sadly mono-sexual. But the majority of us are located at some point between, either actively or passively, either acted-on or wondered about. Most of us have memories of same-sex juvenile explorations precipitated by eager curiosity, and maybe those memories are subsequently sidelined or repressed. Or we've strayed onto same-sex adult websites, purely in the interests of curiosity… of course! But by declaring your bisexuality proudly you're opening up new potentials for erotic pleasures far beyond those that society routinely sanctions. Enjoy your bisexuality. And enjoy it to the max...

 

[transqueen]

I just PM’d a Lit User a few minutes ago about this very thing. I have known since I was very young that I liked other boys. Then as my life has gone on my feelings for men became very strong. I’ve gone through the “wife” changes turning into little or no sex or intimacy now that we’re older. Knowing I have been Bi Sexual my entire life, I decided to act on those feelings three years ago.

I met a wonderful man through SilverDaddies. He lives in the same city. He’s a massage therapist, and I originally went to him for a massage and lower back relief. He gave me a massage in the nude, as I was nude also. It was an amazing experience. I have found a true friend with benefits. He can touch, caress, kiss, hug, suck and fuck better than a woman. His only aim is to give total and complete pleasure.

He and I have become very close. The only thing is: be very careful. I never thought a man could unlock such deep feelings of endearment in me. It is a very life changing experience. My wife and I are still married, and have been for forty-four years. We met in high school and started to date in our senior year. I want to stay married, but, I do love to be with a man.

So if your considering a m/m experience, I recommend you try it asap!

I enjoyed reading your story. I'm sure it will help some folks.

 

[SuperSissy]

Totally agree pussycat

Double totally agree. And on any given day you may pick something different from the menu. Even something you never thought you would experience.

 

[Nate_666]

Thanks to all you fine folks for the responses. I may just try a site to start talking to somebody, see where it goes.

Kinda chuckled at transqueen's post..Yeah I too would like to experience sucking a cock...but it's not all about that.

Man, woman...having a connection would be nice

 

[redruin3]

I love being bi! I remember being curious a few years back, know I confirmed it! Embrace it.

 

[coati]

Bi-dar

I've been bisexual for most of my long life. My first sexual experience with another adult was with a man. Over the years I have had many encounters with both men and women, but I never openly "advertised" my bisexual nature.

About a week ago I was in the parking lot of a Tractor Supply outlet looking at those utility trailers they have out front, and this guy in a pickup truck stopped next to me and rolled down his window to ask directions. We talked a bit about how to get to his destination and about utility trailers, and then, out of the blue, right before he took off, he said, "Hey, please don't take offense by what I am going to ask, but just to confirm my intuition, are you bi?"

I was shocked, told him I was, and asked what tipped him off. He said it was just his intuition based on the comfortable way that I communicated with him. He was bisexual, also. This was not a hook-up attempt, just a simple conversation that took place in a parking lot, and he went on his way.

So it appears that I may regularly admit I am bisexual without saying it explicitly. I guess I have had enough experiences with men to affect my demeanor in public.

 

[meohmyoh44]

How much of our sexuality depends upon our innate nature and how much depends upon our experience is the subject of eternal conversation.
So let's get busy and have more discussions.