That one thing your partner finally tried that REALLY made your sex lives better

[WhO2]

When we were first married, the inexperienced Mrs. WhO2 was willing to try many things in the bedroom. But she had grown up in a home where her Mom was a Jedi master strong in the power of guilt, so there were many lines she wouldn't cross. Over the first couple of years, she finally gave in and crossed these forbidden zones and made our sex lives SOOOOO much better.

- She had never masturbated as a teenager. Too much guilt and too full of a house. Finally talked her in to it for my birthday that first year, and shocker - she LOVED it

- For a couple of years she wouldn't go down on me after I had been in her. This made sex pretty routine (get anything oral out of the way before fucking). When she finally got over this, it took all the routine out of sex

- Trying doggy and similar positions - because of the crazy family she thought doggy was anal. I was finally able to show her it wasn't, and there were a couple of rooms at a hotel in Santa Fe that got to enjoy her learning about the joys of the G-spot

Anyone else have partners who were initially unwiling t try something but finally did?

 

[screwher]

My wife

I have a couple things that really put our sex life over the moon.

1. My wife started taking a physical interest in other men. For years I had fantasized about my wife screwing other men that started when she cheated on me. After many years of faithfulness and monogamy, I noticed she started showing signs of being interested in other men. I didn't object, even subtly encouraged her. She eventually succumbed to temptation and had sex with another while on holiday away from home. That's what would get the ball rolling to our current hotwife lifestyle.

2. Anal sex. A couple years into our relationship I started fingering her ass. My wife really enjoyed it because soon enough after we had ur first anal sex. It's not an every time thing now but it's fucking amazing when it happens!

 

[WhO2]

I have a couple things that really put our sex life over the moon.

1. My wife started taking a physical interest in other men. For years I had fantasized about my wife screwing other men that started when she cheated on me. After many years of faithfulness and monogamy, I noticed she started showing signs of being interested in other men. I didn't object, even subtly encouraged her. She eventually succumbed to temptation and had sex with another while on holiday away from home. That's what would get the ball rolling to our current hotwife lifestyle.

2. Anal sex. A couple years into our relationship I started fingering her ass. My wife really enjoyed it because soon enough after we had ur first anal sex. It's not an every time thing now but it's fucking amazing when it happens!

I love the thought of Mrs. WhO2 being with another man, but only if I am there as well. I have tossed the idea out during sex talk but she has never latched on to the idea the way I hope she had.

 

[ttlvr]

When we were first married, the inexperienced Mrs. WhO2 was willing to try many things in the bedroom. But she had grown up in a home where her Mom was a Jedi master strong in the power of guilt, so there were many lines she wouldn't cross. Over the first couple of years, she finally gave in and crossed these forbidden zones and made our sex lives SOOOOO much better.

- She had never masturbated as a teenager. Too much guilt and too full of a house. Finally talked her in to it for my birthday that first year, and shocker - she LOVED it

- For a couple of years she wouldn't go down on me after I had been in her. This made sex pretty routine (get anything oral out of the way before fucking). When she finally got over this, it took all the routine out of sex

- Trying doggy and similar positions - because of the crazy family she thought doggy was anal. I was finally able to show her it wasn't, and there were a couple of rooms at a hotel in Santa Fe that got to enjoy her learning about the joys of the G-spot




Anyone else have partners who were initially unwiling t try something but finally did?

Years ago, I caught my wife in the act of masturbating. She was in bed, obviously masturbating, but denied it at first. I made a show of smelling her fingers, and she admitted that she was busted. I thought that was so hot, that she masturbates for me as foreplay pretty often. I fucking love it. something about an outwardly prim woman masturbating away while I watch and encourage her works for us both.

 

[WhO2]

Years ago, I caught my wife in the act of masturbating. She was in bed, obviously masturbating, but denied it at first. I made a show of smelling her fingers, and she admitted that she was busted. I thought that was so hot, that she masturbates for me as foreplay pretty often. I fucking love it. something about an outwardly prim woman masturbating away while I watch and encourage her works for us both.

Wow, catching her in the act is so hot. I agree some of the best foreplay is me watching her take care of herself.

 

[dz2681]

Exploring the world of bdsm.... starting to embrace the hot wife lifestyle, small steps in that area but hot nonetheless.

 

[hotcpu]

Sign the divorce papers

 

[GD88]

It’s not a “finally tried” thing but it’s a work in a progress but for my wife it’s dirty talk. For sure she likes to do a lot of things in bed but she has been a bit shy about verbalizing during sex for whatever reason.

I did it by taking the lead. Whenever we’re making out and she starts rubbing my cock, I’d ask her things like “What are you touching?”, “Is it hard?”, “Do you like it?” etc. etc. At first she’d just answer “Yes” to my questions but it was well worth it when she said “You’re so hard, Babe”.

Same thing when I’m fucking her, I’d just ask her questions about what we’re doing and make sure that I verbalize how good it felt. Until finally one night she said “My God, Baby. It feels so good...it feels so...I’m going to cum! I’m going to cum!”

 

[Samisstout]

Watching porn . She loves it now

 

[Clem99]

I finally got my wife to let me lick her ass. Fantastic!

 

[kadams258]

I finally got my wife to let me lick her ass. Fantastic!

i licked my gf's ass on our first date lol. Couldn't imagine waiting for that.

 

[Jada59]

I am pretty willing to try most things. Most of my partners were not though. For instance, I couldn't go anywhere their nipples or their ass. They'd freak! And forget having anal with me. Nope.

Normally I will try something with someone twice. If he balks the first time, I will usually let some time pass, get him really aroused and try again. Nope. Always a fail.

And the anal with me? Did not try a second time because they made gagging sounds or were so disgusted by the whole thing, it became unpleasant.

Sex should be fun. No sense even trying something if they act like that.

 

[kadams258]

I am pretty willing to try most things. Most of my partners were not though. For instance, I couldn't go anywhere their nipples or their ass. They'd freak! And forget having anal with me. Nope.

Normally I will try something with someone twice. If he balks the first time, I will usually let some time pass, get him really aroused and try again. Nope. Always a fail.

And the anal with me? Did not try a second time because they made gagging sounds or were so disgusted by the whole thing, it became unpleasant.

Sex should be fun. No sense even trying something if they act like that.

wow, that sucks. i'm like the anti those guys.

 

[Jada59]

wow, that sucks. i'm like the anti those guys.

Me too!

 

[jakelc]

For us it was Dogging, something my wife had been wanting to try, talking to me about and fantasising about. When we finally tried it was the first step on the road to wife swapping, swinging and group sex. One on one we were already good but add others to the mix and our sex lives became something else entirely.

 

[Klinkster]

Sex outdoors would be one of the best things we started doing years ago!
We have been caught a time or 50, but that sort of added to the excitement!

 

[MadCatZach]

better sex

She has a toy called a jackrabbit. The head thrusts in and out, the shaft has spinning balls in it and the whole thing vibrates. I walked into the bedroom and she had her friend Jack pumping into her pussy on high speed vibration. She said, " get your cock out and get over here and stick it in my mouth." I didn't want any trouble, haha, so I quickly obliged. It was the best sucking she had ever done and we both had great orgasms. It became a ritual, when she got a desire for her jack rabbit I had to stick my cock in her mouth at the same time. No problem Honey. It made for extra fun.

 

[EmilyJane]

For us it was Dogging, something my wife had been wanting to try, talking to me about and fantasising about. When we finally tried it was the first step on the road to wife swapping, swinging and group sex. One on one we were already good but add others to the mix and our sex lives became something else entirely.

I've been in the scene for a lot of years but haven't been inclined to dogging.

 

[WhO2]

She has a toy called a jackrabbit. The head thrusts in and out, the shaft has spinning balls in it and the whole thing vibrates. I walked into the bedroom and she had her friend Jack pumping into her pussy on high speed vibration. She said, " get your cock out and get over here and stick it in my mouth." I didn't want any trouble, haha, so I quickly obliged. It was the best sucking she had ever done and we both had great orgasms. It became a ritual, when she got a desire for her jack rabbit I had to stick my cock in her mouth at the same time. No problem Honey. It made for extra fun.

Nice! Toys are such a great addition. I've heard there are men that forbid their wives from using them. Hard to imagine that.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Sign the divorce papers

Lol, beat me to it. Was gonna say "she got the hell out of my life."

 

[SissySalina]

Making sissy become a sissy.

 

[Smallchange4]

Confessing to me that she had always been dissatisfied with our sex life after I found out she had been cheating on me. We stayed together for a few more years and in that time our sexual horizons expanded in ways that gave both of us a great deal of pleasure.

 

[I_am_done]

I asked her to suck me and she agreed.

 

[ElectraRex]

Sexting. Helped spark so many fun things.