Partner's Previous Lover

[Smallchange4]

Who has actually seen their partners previous lover's penis soft or erect.? By previous I mean the one just before u hooked up. I believe my most anxiety inducing occasion was when I had just started dating a former housemate's ex. I had never seen his cock before but he popped up beside me at the urinals at a bar? He was absolutely enormous. It was like a donkey compared to a hamster. This caused me to be even more trepidatious than usual when I have sex with a girl for the first time. Unless he was an utterly incompetent lover I had much to live up to.

 

[luv23way]

I can’t believe you asked that...listen to this! I hooked up with my wife in high school, married over 40. Her previous boyfriend was a friend of mine, and Chuck had a big cock, not huge but longer than most of the other white guys for sure. Knowing him, I knew when we started to date that she was an awesome cocksucker...still is the best female cocksucker I’ve ever had.

 

[I_am_done]

I have not seen or met any X of my girl but would not mind to see the old time of her with them...

 

[Erodicus]

She showed me a photo of it.

 

[FL30]

Who has actually seen their partners previous lover's penis soft or erect.? By previous I mean the one just before u hooked up. I believe my most anxiety inducing occasion was when I had just started dating a former housemate's ex. I had never seen his cock before but he popped up beside me at the urinals at a bar? He was absolutely enormous. It was like a donkey compared to a hamster. This caused me to be even more trepidatious than usual when I have sex with a girl for the first time. Unless he was an utterly incompetent lover I had much to live up to.

it shouldn't matter, she's NOT with him any more. There's a reason for it and it wasn't the size of his dick!

We're all different, just get one with life and stop obsessing over it or it will drive you crazy.

 

[curiousnme]

I can’t believe you asked that...listen to this! I hooked up with my wife in high school, married over 40. Her previous boyfriend was a friend of mine, and Chuck had a big cock, not huge but longer than most of the other white guys for sure. Knowing him, I knew when we started to date that she was an awesome cocksucker...still is the best female cocksucker I’ve ever had.

I noticed you stated "best female cocksucker....".
Nice avatar - is it you?

 

[ttlvr]

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Who has actually seen their partners previous lover's penis soft or erect.? By previous I mean the one just before u hooked up. I believe my most anxiety inducing occasion was when I had just started dating a former housemate's ex. I had never seen his cock before but he popped up beside me at the urinals at a bar? He was absolutely enormous. It was like a donkey compared to a hamster. This caused me to be even more trepidatious than usual when I have sex with a girl for the first time. Unless he was an utterly incompetent lover I had much to live up to.

My wife actually told me that her previous lover was bigger than me. I think she wanted me to know that for some reason..

 

[Smallchange4]

My wife actually told me that her previous lover was bigger than me. I think she wanted me to know that for some reason..

One of my former girlfriends told me that not only every guy she had been with (including her bf from high school days) was much bigger but she had told more than a few of her female friends about it when they exchanged tales about partners past and present.

 

[PFWilly]

He wasn’t actually a previous for her, they had their first night of fun after our marriage.

Have I seen him? Oh yes, up close and very personal. I totally understand why she loved fucking and sucking him. Definitely more than a mouthful...lol.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

My wife's only male lover prior to me was her dad. Yes, I have seen him, and sucked and been fucked by him. He introduced us.

 

[amofiga]

I've never seen my wife's previous boyfriends or her former fiancée. Why would I care? Anyone who obsesses over someone's previous sex partners is foolish and it's counterproductive unless you are of a cuck personality and enjoy tormenting yourself . If your spouse is a talented cocksucker or pussy eater or a good fuck, then just be thankful to those who taught them and be happy you didn't have to waste your time doing it. Those who desire virgins are gluttons for punishment.

 

[vizio]

I loved when my ex wife would talk about one of her previous lovers. I got me so I would ask her to tell be about having sex with him when I was enjoying her body.

 

[Justfantasies]

I loved when my ex wife would talk about one of her previous lovers. I got me so I would ask her to tell be about having sex with him when I was enjoying her body.

I do that a lot. She always looks a little embraced and then comes right out with all the little details. Fortunately my wife has slept with a lot of guys.

 

[amofiga]

@justfantasies: I agree. I personally find hearing about some of my wife's previous erotic experiences and I wish she was more free and "creative" about telling them. For me, making them as "dirty" as possible would be turn on. On the other hand, she seems to be more insecure and hates knowing about women that I've been with so I have to keep it to myself. I've often wondered, but sometimes think that women are much more possessive and insecure about their SO's experiences past or present than are men. You read a lot about men who relish being cuckolded, hearing about or watching their wives have sex with others, but not so much about women who might find it a turn on to hear about their SO/BF/Husband's adventures.

 

[Justfantasies]

@justfantasies: I agree. I personally find hearing about some of my wife's previous erotic experiences and I wish she was more free and "creative" about telling them. For me, making them as "dirty" as possible would be turn on. On the other hand, she seems to be more insecure and hates knowing about women that I've been with so I have to keep it to myself. I've often wondered, but sometimes think that women are much more possessive and insecure about their SO's experiences past or present than are men. You read a lot about men who relish being cuckolded, hearing about or watching their wives have sex with others, but not so much about women who might find it a turn on to hear about their SO/BF/Husband's adventures.

Completely agree. My wife and I have a fairly open marriage and I am more than fine about her fucking other guys. However, in the not-too-distant past I had a lover who couldn't stand the idea that I was still having sex with my wife, even though she (my lover) slept around a lot (which again was fine with me)

 

[vizio]

I do that a lot. She always looks a little embraced and then comes right out with all the little details. Fortunately my wife has slept with a lot of guys.

The one that got me off the most concerned a young man she deflowered. Yes was well over 18 that's what made it so hot to hear about. Telling a young man how to please

 

[Justfantasies]

The one that got me off the most concerned a young man she deflowered. Yes was well over 18 that's what made it so hot to hear about. Telling a young man how to please

That's hot. I bet your wife came big time with that one. My turn ons are when my wife had really casual sex with someone she hardly knew.

 

[vizio]

That's hot. I bet your wife came big time with that one. My turn ons are when my wife had really casual sex with someone she hardly knew.

She did as did I. Is that as huge a turn on for her as well?

 

[Justfantasies]

She did as did I. Is that as huge a turn on for her as well?

You mean is casual sex a turn on for my wife? If so the answer is yes

 

[vizio]

You mean is casual sex a turn on for my wife? If so the answer is yes

No I was referring to her telling you about every detail

 

[Justfantasies]

No I was referring to her telling you about every detail

Yes it seems to be -- she'll say, "I have just of the time when I ....of course, I was very young" And we'll take it from there. What follows is a litany about where it occurred, what she was wearing, the size of his cock, how it felt, whether she came or not, who she told and so on ...

 

[luckyseven]

My wife actually told me that her previous lover was bigger than me. I think she wanted me to know that for some reason..

Although she tries to deny it, I know she sought out guys who were well-endowed. She loves being stretched by the biggest and thickest. Strange how she settled down with a guy who has an average penis.

 

[BBCfan]

although I've never seen my current girlfriend's previous lovers cocks, I kind of have in a way. I recently bought a realistic black dildo to play with. It is huge at 10 in and over 7 inches around. When she saw it she admitted that she wants had a lover who was very similar in size and shape to the dildo.

I was shocked and intimidated as this thing is massive. She also has had many very large black cocks as she has dated some very tall black guys in the past.

I am above average in size and have never been insecure before but this did bring out some insecurities. I asked her some very honest questions and she gave me honest answers and let me know she does not desire any past lovers ever.

I also know that she had only come a couple times before in her life with previous lovers and I make her come almost all the time so that certainly helps me be more secure.

Now I'm at a comfortable spot where I actually like hearing about her past experiences if she is comfortable enough to tell them, I find them a turn on.

 

[mywife4othermen]

Although she tries to deny it, I know she sought out guys who were well-endowed. She loves being stretched by the biggest and thickest. Strange how she settled down with a guy who has an average penis.

I know exactly what you mean.
My wife's former boyfriend is extremely large. Long and thick. She had told me so much about him and the great sex they used to have that I had to track him down nd meet him! Why? So many mixed and intense emotions and desires.

 

[Smallchange4]

I know exactly what you mean.
My wife's former boyfriend is extremely large. Long and thick. She had told me so much about him and the great sex they used to have that I had to track him down nd meet him! Why? So many mixed and intense emotions and desires.

One girl I was with never directly suggested that she was disatisfied with the size of my cock but then she told me about fucking a black guy . She didn't say that he was big but what she did say was very telling about her preferences. She said she was very disappointed because he wasn't much above average. Later on in our relationship she confessed that she had been shocked at how small my cock was because I had such big feet. Eventually she openly admitted that size was indeed very important to her.