Social Experiment - Ladies, Send a PM to a Random Man on Lit for a Change

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Morning everyone. Looks like things got heavy while I was away.

To those that posted their personal stories, I won't quote but I can relate. I've loved and lost people here. I get a little unsure when I don't hear from people for a few days even now, because of it.

Life is complicated, and while Lit and other sites allow us to skirt around some of life's difficulties, it creates whole new ones to deal with. I hope you all have found some peace with the virtual/real life balance. If your still working toward that, just remember that everyone here is looking for something, sometimes you are it and sometimes your not. Sometimes they don't even know until they find it what they needed. Just remember that we are all taking a journey and sometimes our paths cross and diverge, and on lucky occasions we get to travel together for a while.
 
I cannot be all happy flirty rainbow farts all the time, but I like to stimulate intellectual conversations.

So in that line, how about this question; Do you think many of the people here at Lit have unreasonable expectations?
 
I cannot be all happy flirty rainbow farts all the time, but I like to stimulate intellectual conversations.

So in that line, how about this question; Do you think many of the people here at Lit have unreasonable expectations?

I haven't had enough interactions to really have a valid sample with which to form an opinion.

I will say that thus far, it's been pretty positive... I mean, there have been a couple bumps, but I'm also pretty careful to have been polite and kind to everyone I meet.

And on that note, this night shifter is clocking out. Have fun daywalkers. Stay on the sunny side of the street if you can!
 
Morning everyone. Looks like things got heavy while I was away.

To those that posted their personal stories, I won't quote but I can relate. I've loved and lost people here. I get a little unsure when I don't hear from people for a few days even now, because of it.

Life is complicated, and while Lit and other sites allow us to skirt around some of life's difficulties, it creates whole new ones to deal with. I hope you all have found some peace with the virtual/real life balance. If your still working toward that, just remember that everyone here is looking for something, sometimes you are it and sometimes your not. Sometimes they don't even know until they find it what they needed. Just remember that we are all taking a journey and sometimes our paths cross and diverge, and on lucky occasions we get to travel together for a while.

I wholeheartedly agree with you.

Feelsbadman.
 
I wholeheartedly agree with you.

Feelsbadman.

It'll work out man, promise.

I meet someone on here a while back, she was special, if I had been different or the situation not as complicated or if I just had followed my gut I think things could have gotten real. But it ended pretty badly and I felt the same as you do right now. But it gets easier. Find you someone who you enjoy talking/skyping/playing with and be honest and just enjoy a bit, it helps.
 
Morning everyone I'm not a tea drinker or coffee lol
I prefer juice ,
anyone up to anything more exciting than doing chores ?

Up for it? Certainly... higly depends on how busy work is...

And as an indication how busy work is... I started writing this reply 2 f*cking hours ago...
 
On a totally different note, I got home from work and started on dinner. I am thoroughly housebroken... Which is another subject entirely...

I do the meal planning and the shopping as well, which only makes sense. I didn't plan very well, and I have had half the ingredients I needed to make my signature turkey Crock-Pot chili.

I forgot to get canned beans and a couple other items...
I had to improvise a little bit. I used unsoaked, dry, red beans and added enough chicken stock and water to cover up all the ingredients. If this works, it will be a new easy recipe for workday meals.

If interested, PM me and I'll let you know if it turned out and share the recipe. It's super healthy, made with turkey and kale (cuz I'm a fuckin hipster.). No, I'm not a hipster...

https://imgur.com/a/mfWcsAw
 
On a totally different note, I got home from work and started on dinner. I am thoroughly housebroken... Which is another subject entirely...

I do the meal planning and the shopping as well, which only makes sense. I didn't plan very well, and I have had half the ingredients I needed to make my signature turkey Crock-Pot chili.

I forgot to get canned beans and a couple other items...
I had to improvise a little bit. I used unsoaked, dry, red beans and added enough chicken stock and water to cover up all the ingredients. If this works, it will be a new easy recipe for workday meals.

If interested, PM me and I'll let you know if it turned out and share the recipe. It's super healthy, made with turkey and kale (cuz I'm a fuckin hipster.). No, I'm not a hipster...

https://imgur.com/a/mfWcsAw


Can I come over for lunch lol
 
Can I come over for lunch lol

Fraid not, because the beans were dry they have to cook for a good long while otherwise you get the gassy bean issues everyone jokes about. These will get an 8 hour minimum cook, then be served with shredded cheese and sour cream.

Won't be ready in time for lunch. Thanks for the compliment though, totally appreciate it!
 
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I have 3 hours of work today. Then 12 hours tomorrow, 12 hours Wednesday. Then I have to count all CIIs and then...

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

CVS!
 
Hello!

Hey guys I'm sorta a new around here, I saw that there were some problems on here a while ago. Hope everything's sorted now! Monday has been surprisingly good, hope y'all are having a nice day too!
 
Hey guys I'm sorta a new around here, I saw that there were some problems on here a while ago. Hope everything's sorted now! Monday has been surprisingly good, hope y'all are having a nice day too!

Yea everything is Kosher, a few raw patches but everything will heal.
Well welcome back/too and I hope you enjoy the stay.
 
Hey guys I'm sorta a new around here, I saw that there were some problems on here a while ago. Hope everything's sorted now! Monday has been surprisingly good, hope y'all are having a nice day too!

Nah, it’s all me.

I may sound like a broken record at this point, but I’m having a really bad week. I take credit for it. My bad.
 
I'm way too shy to do this. :eek:

I thought I was, too, until I did it the first time. The first time always feels the hardest. :)


Hey guys I'm sorta a new around here, I saw that there were some problems on here a while ago. Hope everything's sorted now! Monday has been surprisingly good, hope y'all are having a nice day too!

No road is ever smooth all the time, is it? My day has also been quite nice so far. Welcome to our little corner of Lit.
 
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