I blew it :(

[Boredozhub]

I’m so pissed at myself for blowing the chance!!!
I’ve fantasized so often about being picked up in a hotel bar during one of my business trips...Well tonight I’m in Salt Lake City and went to the Ramada bar for a couple of drinks, while I’m there a guy begins to make small talk with me, we hit it off and for sure had a connection so i of course began to freak out... I told him I had to get back to my room and call the missus and turn in for the night, he puts his hand on my thigh, barely missing my cock and says “ I promise I won’t say a word while you call her.” I laughed it off but had butterflies like crazy, told him cheers and left, when I got in the elevator I could feel my cock leaking so much it was like I pissed myself... now I’m so pissed that I didn’t follow through. Anyone had any similar experiences?

 

[jakelc]

I’m so pissed at myself for blowing the chance!!!
I’ve fantasized so often about being picked up in a hotel bar during one of my business trips...Well tonight I’m in Salt Lake City and went to the Ramada bar for a couple of drinks, while I’m there a guy begins to make small talk with me, we hit it off and for sure had a connection so i of course began to freak out... I told him I had to get back to my room and call the missus and turn in for the night, he puts his hand on my thigh, barely missing my cock and says “ I promise I won’t say a word while you call her.” I laughed it off but had butterflies like crazy, told him cheers and left, when I got in the elevator I could feel my cock leaking so much it was like I pissed myself... now I’m so pissed that I didn’t follow through. Anyone had any similar experiences?

There are plenty more horny guys, trust me, one blown experience shouldn’t put you off trying again. Try to relax and not panic or freak out, maybe an extra drink. Don’t let this be the end of your experience. One of my first and best experiences came after I’d blown my first chance. I’d gone to a gay bar with the idea of my first hook up with a stranger. I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend just sex. The first guy to come on to me was a gorgeous black guy. Muscular and sexy as hell. We hit it off but at the last moment I started to panic, to this day I have no idea why. In the end I made my excuses about meeting friends and left. As soon as I was outside I knew I’d made a mistake but couldn’t face going back in and trying to backtrack. I went to another bar for a drink to drown my sorrows and met an older guy who bought me a drink and started chatting. Before I knew what was happening he’d kissed me and I was responding. I spent the night with him and we both missed work the day after to stay a little longer for a follow up. I still regret that first missed opportunity but I wouldn’t have had the second chance and a great time otherwise.

 

[Hitchiker69]

It's normal and natural to be nervous in that situation. Sounds like you're a gay virgin, you were half aroused, had a drink or two...perfectly normal. I'd be surprised if you were relaxed.
You may have missed a great opportunity, but there will be other chances.
I'm not far from SLC. Maybe I'll start hanging out at the Ramada bar...we might both get lucky!

 

[Boredozhub]

I’ll be back in SLC this weekend through Monday

 

[nassauguy_2001]

The title is misleading, I thought maybe you sucked your first cock

 

[Boredozhub]

Lol hmmm m

 

[HomerSimpson123]

Boredozhub, I've had a similar experience. I still regret it, but haven't let it stop me.

 

[jackstud]

I’ll be back in SLC this weekend through Monday

Relax and pick up on the next opportunity

 

[klippert]

those chance encounters are mostly missed opportunities...don't beat yourself up...If you now know the signs, and how to move forward.
if it is the pick...chance encounter. That hotel bar will be a hot bed i'm sure. just be careful

 

[tmmmbrrr]

I’m so pissed at myself for blowing the chance!!!
I’ve fantasized so often about being picked up in a hotel bar during one of my business trips...Well tonight I’m in Salt Lake City and went to the Ramada bar for a couple of drinks, while I’m there a guy begins to make small talk with me, we hit it off and for sure had a connection so i of course began to freak out... I told him I had to get back to my room and call the missus and turn in for the night, he puts his hand on my thigh, barely missing my cock and says “ I promise I won’t say a word while you call her.” I laughed it off but had butterflies like crazy, told him cheers and left, when I got in the elevator I could feel my cock leaking so much it was like I pissed myself... now I’m so pissed that I didn’t follow through. Anyone had any similar experiences?

You didn't really blow it. You attracted that situation to yourself and were true to your feelings of the moment and walked away. Its not a very simple proposition. There is a lot riding on a spur of the moment decision -- fidelity, personal safety, STDs and among other things, compatibility -- even for a one night adventure.

Now you have the chance to sort those feelings and other things out some more. How bad can that be? If its something you want, I bet that wasn't the only guy in the only hotel on the only night who ever might hopefully put his hand on your thigh.

 

[CuriousGuy62]

You didn't really blow it. You attracted that situation to yourself and were true to your feelings of the moment and walked away. Its not a very simple proposition. There is a lot riding on a spur of the moment decision -- fidelity, personal safety, STDs and among other things, compatibility -- even for a one night adventure.

Now you have the chance to sort those feelings and other things out some more. How bad can that be? If its something you want, I bet that wasn't the only guy in the only hotel on the only night who ever might hopefully put his hand on your thigh.

that's a great attitude.