The Real Unicorn

[AtramentousRex]

We all hunt for it. The lover who shares everything with us. Our passions matched, our proclivities and inclinations mirrored. Someone who has either the same, or complimenting fetishes and kinks. Someone we can be our true self with, without fear of judgement or rejection. In my experience, that is the rarest of creatures and the hardest to find and capture. Of course there is still the fantasy...

I'm just a hunter in the dark woods, looking for my Unicorn.
Maybe she's looking for her Huntsman?

 

[Caligirl90]

Well yes. As a matter of fact i am!

 

[BiTodd]

It would be a rare and magical creature that complimented my naughty desires.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

That is extremely hard to attain. I am starting to doubt whether someone can find that person that is in perfect alignment with everything: kinks, chemistry, intelligence. Yes, some people find it, but it truly is a rarity. I'm starting to seriously wonder if humans are naturally monogamous. It's unfair and unrealistic to expect your partner to fit you like a puzzle piece. I tried looking for the right kinky partner and I realize now that he/she probably doesn't exist because of my expectations, not aesthetically, but because I refuse to be a punching bag for sociopaths and narcissists, which run rampant in the world. Perhaps I am wrong and he/she is out there but I highly, highly doubt it.

I'm sorry if I sound jaded. I guess I am. I hope you find the right person for you, dear.

 

[emjaypiketres]

That is extremely hard to attain. I am starting to doubt whether someone can find that person that is in perfect alignment with everything: kinks, chemistry, intelligence. Yes, some people find it, but it truly is a rarity. I'm starting to seriously wonder if humans are naturally monogamous. It's unfair and unrealistic to expect your partner to fit you like a puzzle piece. I tried looking for the right kinky partner and I realize now that he/she probably doesn't exist because of my expectations, not aesthetically, but because I refuse to be a punching bag for sociopaths and narcissists, which run rampant in the world. Perhaps I am wrong and he/she is out there but I highly, highly doubt it.

I'm sorry if I sound jaded. I guess I am. I hope you find the right person for you, dear.

Good insight, FWIW. Older male in N.C. here, if ypu’d Care to chat. Can PM here or on Kik, if you’re interested.

 

[AtramentousRex]

Well yes. As a matter of fact i am!

Good! So what kind of Huntsman suits your wants and needs then, Caligirl?

It would be a rare and magical creature that complimented my naughty desires.

I know, right!? It would be intoxicating and rewarding in ways hard to define.

That is extremely hard to attain. I am starting to doubt whether someone can find that person that is in perfect alignment with everything: kinks, chemistry, intelligence. Yes, some people find it, but it truly is a rarity. I'm starting to seriously wonder if humans are naturally monogamous. It's unfair and unrealistic to expect your partner to fit you like a puzzle piece. I tried looking for the right kinky partner and I realize now that he/she probably doesn't exist because of my expectations, not aesthetically, but because I refuse to be a punching bag for sociopaths and narcissists, which run rampant in the world. Perhaps I am wrong and he/she is out there but I highly, highly doubt it.

I'm sorry if I sound jaded. I guess I am. I hope you find the right person for you, dear.

Oh dear. First of all, I am so sorry that you keep meeting those kinds of men/people. There do seem to be a lot of them and its part of why I have decided the BDSM community is not for me. It seems to be overly saturated with that kind of person. Both the male and female variety.

Perfectly matched isn't something I expect to find. I just would like to find a woman who enjoys lots of the things I enjoy. For instance, I truly enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex. But it seems that few women enjoy both giving and getting. Either they are happy to go down on me, but dont have want me to taste them, or they dont really enjoy sucking a dick. I wont ever force someone to do something they do not enjoy.

Good insight, FWIW. Older male in N.C. here, if ypu’d Care to chat. Can PM here or on Kik, if you’re interested.

 

[HardandFrustrated]

Yes, the "Unicorn" is elusive. There are millions of people out there and believe it or not, more than will fit your description as the perfect person or maybe even "soul mate." The problem is finding them--they don't just walk up one day and knock on your front door. You must actively hunt them down. It may take lots of effort, but you can find them. I've always found it best to be honest and spell out your desires, wishes, kinks, etc. up front. There may be some things you can compromise on, others not. Your post sounds discouraging, but don't give up. What ever it is you're looking for, they are out there. Just let others know what you're seeking, be discriminating and above all, don't give up!

 

[AtramentousRex]

Yes, the "Unicorn" is elusive. There are millions of people out there and believe it or not, more than will fit your description as the perfect person or maybe even "soul mate." The problem is finding them--they don't just walk up one day and knock on your front door. You must actively hunt them down. It may take lots of effort, but you can find them. I've always found it best to be honest and spell out your desires, wishes, kinks, etc. up front. There may be some things you can compromise on, others not. Your post sounds discouraging, but don't give up. What ever it is you're looking for, they are out there. Just let others know what you're seeking, be discriminating and above all, don't give up!

It was not my intention to sound discouraging. It was more about gaining interest. I know it would help if I had a profile, but Lit is not letting me add to mine. Is there a certain number of posts you need to have a profile?

 

[AtramentousRex]

I'd love to talk to a warm and sweet, kinky nerdy girl. Still hunting through the woods for my Unicorn.