How many partners have you had?

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So I read somewhere that the average number of sexual partners one has through their life is like 3-8 depending on region. Curious if this an accurate average. Doesn't sound right to me so figured id ask Lit. If your willing to give your number out cool if not just let me know if that average is about right. thanks

Ill start im 35 male, 22 partners, with one 3 some and no guys whats your stats?
 
31 married male, only been with 2 women in my life. The older I get and the less my wife is interested in sex, it makes me crave more experiences, especially with new people. The feeling the first time with someone new, the butterflies and excitement is such a great feeling. Wish I could have it again.
 
I’ve been with 4 women,married now and I’m 33 years old however I’m trying to work up to getting my wife on board with adding a guy or gal to our love life at some point so the numbers may go up.
 
It seems this is not the place for an inquiry like this, if you want it to be representative.
 
Only 1 for me (and hubs). Met him (my HS BF) at 16, engaged to him at 19, married at 20.

Kissed a couple of girls but never anything more.
 
How is this a personal ad?

But also - I always wonder about this. I also wonder what the number is if you take out the less attractive people who really don't even try to get sex.

I forget how rude people can be outside of PG until I accidentally wonder out.

So many jack-ass assumptions in that post.

Who says your definition of attractive is the only one? Anyone, even people who you think are unattractive can and do have sex.
 
Thanks

Thanks to everyone so far for your input. I know this is not exactly a personal ad but i felt like the PG was for nonsexual chatting and this would get a better response from people.

And btw i've never consider myself attractive, very average but i was constantly trying so i might have a higher number than a more attractive less active guy.
 
And btw i've never consider myself attractive, very average but i was constantly trying so i might have a higher number than a more attractive less active guy.

More partners does not equal more sex. As hubs pointed out at a bar one time when a friend was giving him grief, he has been having sex 3-5 times a week, every week, since he was 17. The longest he has ever gone without was 4 weeks after each of our babies were born because he said 8 weeks was ridiculous. How many non-married men can say the same? :cool:
 
Enough that I was happy and am happily married now for many many years. So the specific number to me means nothing and never will.
 
More partners does not equal more sex. As hubs pointed out at a bar one time when a friend was giving him grief, he has been having sex 3-5 times a week, every week, since he was 17. The longest he has ever gone without was 4 weeks after each of our babies were born because he said 8 weeks was ridiculous. How many non-married men can say the same? :cool:

Good for you and hubby! As a non married male, I can say I'm very jealous. I've given up looking for it knowing my "number" will stay the same until I leave this Earth. I'm very happy and quite content even if I still love talking with others about what turns them on. Thank You Lit.
 
31 married male, only been with 2 women in my life. The older I get and the less my wife is interested in sex, it makes me crave more experiences, especially with new people. The feeling the first time with someone new, the butterflies and excitement is such a great feeling. Wish I could have it again.

Man, I feel ya. Very similar situation except 3 not 2, and I'm not Bi, as far as I know. Though maybe I just haven't seen the right guy yet.
 
I wasn't' thinking about people I consider unattractive... I'm talking about people who consider themselves unattractive or unfuckable and they just don't try to get sex. Sadly, there are a lot of people due to whatever baggage they have from negative self-perceptions based on shit that happens in High school, or just what the media defines as sexy...

I'm not trying to belittle anyone. I'm trying to make my own slutty number seem better. :)

You're kind of bitchy. You're number would be higher if you were nicer most likely. JK. :D

She’s not kinda bitchy... I reacted to your post as well...

I don’t consider myself attractive, or particularly fuckable... other folk disagree with me, I’m confused as to why peeps like me skew the figure though... cause actually I probably have sex as much as most folks on here, and more than some... admittedly I won’t reach your ‘slutty’ (your words) numbers, because I have been faithful to my long term partner but that’s nothing to do with attractiveness...
 
I stopped counting at 40. I may have hit 50.

And after reading everyone else's numbers, I feel like a total man-whore...:eek:
 
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