First to cum?

[WOMENvsmen]

Dearl all,

I have a question for you. And I need you to be sincere. Is there any real competition between the sexes which consists in making the other "submit". In other words, if you are a man you have to make your gf cum first, and if you are a woman you have to make your bf cum first to win.

I ask this because I heard once something called "first to cum loses", and I'm not sure if it refers to this or not. Does someone know? And if you know, can you tell me about your experiences?

Thanks.

I'm a straight male by the way...

 

[bicurnow]

Dearl all,

I have a question for you. And I need you to be sincere. Is there any real competition between the sexes which consists in making the other "submit". In other words, if you are a man you have to make your gf cum first, and if you are a woman you have to make your bf cum first to win.

I ask this because I heard once something called "first to cum loses", and I'm not sure if it refers to this or not. Does someone know? And if you know, can you tell me about your experiences?

Thanks.

I'm a straight male by the way...

Once upon a time my gf lost over 20 times in the same session!!

 

[WOMENvsmen]

Once upon a time my gf lost over 20 times in the same session!!

Wow! I thought women had a clear advantage over us in that competition.

 

[strong_daddy]

My wife regularly loses this competition to the point that she begs for mercy. I tell her phone a friend.

 

[Transamwriter]

I generally like to make my woman cum first, before I cum.

 

[WOMENvsmen]

Then it exists! I will try it with my girl and comment the result. We have had sex like any other couple but never a competition.

 

[Charles_Sir]

Since we started dabbling in bdsm my wife has always cum before me. When we are D/s I claim all her orgasms as mine and take them when I please. I make her cum multple times then if I am pleased or she begs well enough I give her mine.

 

[Rascalinity]

After being physically kicked out of bed & ferociously beaten up by a feral woman for cumming too soon during sex, I later made up for it for crying on on a another woman who said I wore her pussy out (both of those situations during my early college years after years of sexual & physical abuse during my childhood & adolescence).

During my early adulthood, I was in a relationship & was endlessly criticized for not cumming. That, she said, dealt with their inability to orgasm...because I, personally, did not get off.

I have painfully very little sexual & dating experience since then.

There is no "winning", in my book. Just be the best lover you can possibly be for someone who is willing to do the same. Then, you both fucking win. Period.

 

[WOMENvsmen]

I finally tried it with my girlfriend. I never saw her with such determination to win. We have had sex and as many of you say, I've let her cum first, for courtesy and also because the penis becomes flaggy after orgasm and cannot satisfy the vagina much after that. She really wanted to make me cum first since she's very competitive. After all, we had sex for around 45 minutes. I swear I tried to make her squirt but she was really better. She defeated me fair and square. Drained me after long minutes of "sex fighting". It worths the try. But I feel a little bad now that I know I'm the only one who lost to his girlfriend...