aljolson69
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she is early 50's and still faily fit
shes been seeing the present guy for the last 10 years roughly 6 or 7 times a year
they fuck, he comes up her and she usually comes twice
loads of passionate kissing i'd call it making love.
she says she doesn't fancy him, but he does superb massage
sometimes after the fuck or before and leading up to it.
it turns her on talking/fantasising about it while were having sex and can help her to some incredible orgasms
however after a visit she says she feels guilty and the next week she isn't fun to be with - often quite angry - coming out with - why do you put me through this? etc
then once ive talked her through an orgasm discussing it she seems ok with it but wont arrange another session as "its too soon"
usually a month or 6 weeks later she is happy to arrange another visit and I even get her to text him on my phone while we are having sex.
she sometimes gets real anxious the week leading up to it but its always alright on the night.
sometimes in the hotel afterwards she is sex mad which for her is a miracle.
normally she is just her usual bored of sex after half an hour - lets watch tv
rinse and repeat
ive tried getting her to see another better looking guy in the hope if she fancies him she will be more eager but she wont entertain the thought.]
once we met a good looking younger guy in a hotel but she had to get that tipsy and drank too much during and after and was ill and she says never again
so im at a loss how to progress with this
if I didn't push her she wouldn't play at all
she would never bring it up
same with our sex life
she can live without it
recently went 2 months without sex and she wasn't affected at all
weve tried orgasm denaiol getting her right to the brink and then stopping her for a week just before a visit and it went real well
tried it again but she just got irritable and fed up
anyone else been in this position who can offer advice?
the fact she plays makes her appear much sexier to me and helps me enjoy sex more
weve tried a 4 hands massage with her regular guy and another another guy but he was useless
we tried a 4 hands recently with her regular guy and a young lady who licked her as my wife was coming but wife says it all felt a bit weird and she doesn't want to do that again and has since entertained her regular guy on his own in our hotel room, I left once they got started and they had a good session
so is there anything I can do?
shes been seeing the present guy for the last 10 years roughly 6 or 7 times a year
they fuck, he comes up her and she usually comes twice
loads of passionate kissing i'd call it making love.
she says she doesn't fancy him, but he does superb massage
sometimes after the fuck or before and leading up to it.
it turns her on talking/fantasising about it while were having sex and can help her to some incredible orgasms
however after a visit she says she feels guilty and the next week she isn't fun to be with - often quite angry - coming out with - why do you put me through this? etc
then once ive talked her through an orgasm discussing it she seems ok with it but wont arrange another session as "its too soon"
usually a month or 6 weeks later she is happy to arrange another visit and I even get her to text him on my phone while we are having sex.
she sometimes gets real anxious the week leading up to it but its always alright on the night.
sometimes in the hotel afterwards she is sex mad which for her is a miracle.
normally she is just her usual bored of sex after half an hour - lets watch tv
rinse and repeat
ive tried getting her to see another better looking guy in the hope if she fancies him she will be more eager but she wont entertain the thought.]
once we met a good looking younger guy in a hotel but she had to get that tipsy and drank too much during and after and was ill and she says never again
so im at a loss how to progress with this
if I didn't push her she wouldn't play at all
she would never bring it up
same with our sex life
she can live without it
recently went 2 months without sex and she wasn't affected at all
weve tried orgasm denaiol getting her right to the brink and then stopping her for a week just before a visit and it went real well
tried it again but she just got irritable and fed up
anyone else been in this position who can offer advice?
the fact she plays makes her appear much sexier to me and helps me enjoy sex more
weve tried a 4 hands massage with her regular guy and another another guy but he was useless
we tried a 4 hands recently with her regular guy and a young lady who licked her as my wife was coming but wife says it all felt a bit weird and she doesn't want to do that again and has since entertained her regular guy on his own in our hotel room, I left once they got started and they had a good session
so is there anything I can do?
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