Mostly what it would do to our relationship. It’s a turn on for me and I know I can probably handle it. But I wouldn’t enjoy it if he didn’t and I’m just worried he might freak out afterwards. We just got over a rough patch and I’m happy with the way it is now. Don’t want to mess it up.
If you don’t want to mess things up then just reserve those fantasies for pillow talk.
And honest communication is big. But if you think you can really handle it and you realize maybe hubby can too,have him give you some rules to follow. Let him feel like he has some say.


