Seeking FWB....slow down and connect with me.

LucianaGrace

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Do you feel the desire to be connected with someone? The type of connection that is open, free, and authentically honest? The type that anchors you in a freedom to unashamedly be yourself, no strings attached?

That’s what I’m seeking.

In truth, I’m a single woman with a busy life. And I’m missing that deep connection that comes with sexual expression. I don’t want to suppress my sexual needs and sensuality simply because life is the way it is right now. So, I thought I’d be brave and place this rather too-honest ad to see if there is anyone like me out there who might feel the same.

A little about me…
• I’m an early 30s, single, working professional woman.
• I’m in a rather large transformational period in my life, including a relocation from Australia to the UK in the foreseeable future.
• I lean towards the more creative and positive view of life, but have seen quite a lot of the darker things.
• I do have shyness tendencies. But I’m otherwise a combination of goofball, giggles, and dorkiness.
• Bisexual with submissive tendencies.
• Any other details, please feel free to ask.

What I am seeking…
• A FWB, in its truest form.
• A connection that is founded on mutual satisfaction in all manner of ways (be it physical, intellectual, ect).
• A like-minded person who I can laugh with, have those D & M’s when they’re needed, and have a little online sexual fun.
• Someone I may be able to find my centre with. In all honesty, I’m going through such large changes that I’m feeling overwhelmingly aloof. So, I’m looking for someone I can openly talk to, who can help me remain focused, and won’t let me give up on myself. And ideally, I’d want to do the same for them in return.
• A connection more in real-time (so Skype based).

What I’m not looking for…
• Anything too serious. I’m not looking for anyone to fall inlove with me.
• A Daddy/little or BDSM-focused relationship. I have a long history in the BDSM community, and I’m currently not wanting to limit my sexual expression by such dynamics. This is mostly due to the fact that I believe it develops naturally between 2 sexually compatible individuals.
• To play with any attached individuals (it’s a rule I have to protect myself).
• Visual play (I’ve done it in the past and it has backfired in ways that I’m not willing to repeat).

Ummm…so yeah…that’s it, as I’m not exactly sure what else to say.

Please feel free to PM if you have any questions, I promise I’m not scary. And if not, I hope this finds you well on your own journey.

All my love,
Lucy
 
Gents (emphasis on Gents, players need to walk away).

I've been lucky enough to speak to this lady a few times (not in the context outlined above, just chat) and she is amazing.

Don't be a dick. Be nice, be open and let her breathe and I reckon she would end up being one of the best people you know.

Good luck, my lovely x
 
Nicely written!

Question for clarification—you are not looking for attached individuals...meaning someone already in a relationship? I’m in a loveless marriage that I’m biding my time to leave (I have a plan and will be transitioning) but I’m seeking many of the same things you are seeking. Mainly someone to have open chats with.
 
I don't do the FWB thing, nor would I be geographically convenient to do so if I did, but I really like this ad. Thoughtful, open, genuine, direct. If that also represents the character of the woman behind it, you deserve to have this succeed.

May you find exactly what you seek and all the happiness you desire. :rose:
 
Good luck, hun! You know I wish you nothing but the best and happiest in your life. -Hugs-
 
It sounds as if she is looking for a online FWB, not real time FWB. Wish you luck.
 
I just wanted to leave a quick message to thank you all for such overwhelming support. I’m truly touched. Thank you. Please have patience with me as I make my replies. :kiss:

Gents (emphasis on Gents, players need to walk away).

I've been lucky enough to speak to this lady a few times (not in the context outlined above, just chat) and she is amazing.

Don't be a dick. Be nice, be open and let her breathe and I reckon she would end up being one of the best people you know.

Good luck, my lovely x
Thank you, Mr EW. You’re such a gentleman. Thank you. :rose:

Nicely written!

Question for clarification—you are not looking for attached individuals...meaning someone already in a relationship? I’m in a loveless marriage that I’m biding my time to leave (I have a plan and will be transitioning) but I’m seeking many of the same things you are seeking. Mainly someone to have open chats with.
Thank you for your question.

Yes, by attached I refer to someone in a relationship. From personal experience, it’s much safer for me to play with individuals who aren’t in a relationship already. Now, I’m not personally seeking anything purely monogamous with this ad. And for the right connection I might consider people in an open relationship. But I’m sorry, I do have to have this boundary.

But please know that I do hope things begin to improve for you soon. :rose:
 
To whomever is able to fulfill the requirements, which were expertly presented, LucianaGrace is one of the kindest souls I know here. She is beautiful inside and out.
 
Well written

Truly great personal....It is very inviting..wish I wasn’t so bi polar to meet your needs..good luck!
 
Hi everyone,

Don’t mind me while I duck, cover, and apologise deeply for my silence to replies.

I posted this ad, then life became crazy. Lit took a backseat, so I’m sorry for such a delay.

I realised when I logged in to reply that people may not be interested in hearing from me since it has been a while.

So please accept my apology and this little bump to see if there is anyone interested.

I hope you’re well.

Yours,
Lucy :rose:
 
Hello miss grace happy hump day. I am currently working right now but i plan on sending you a pm later hope to get to chat you soon
 
I am certainly interested in finding out if we are compatible. What you posted is everything I look for in FWB.
 
Just a little bump for hump day.


Let me clarify, I’m married. Not leaving that relationship and looking for many of the same traits you are, too.

I’d love to chat sometime. I am not in an open marriage (I think that was miscommunicated through my original reply.

No rush either, I’m busy as well. I wanted you to know that! Have a wonderful day!
 
A well written post!

I hope you find people, friends in the U.K. And that life settled down!
 
Not so much as a bump, but a quest to see how everyone is going. How has the year started for you all? What adventures are coming up?

As always, I hope you are well. :rose:

- Lucy :rose:
 
Very nice sentiment. You're original post was really well written, I hope you had some luck.
I've met some amazing people, yes. The thing with connections is that it can be relatively rare to find. I may not have found what I was originally seeking, but I feel blessed that I managed to meet some really wonderful people. And perhaps that is the best outcome at the end of the day. :rose:
Good to see this thread kept alive!
Awwww...thank you, Mr D. Such a true gentleman :rose:
 
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