I am an older Dom with 30+ years of experience in the D/s lifestyle. I’m looking for a submissive for an online relationship. If things work out over time, I’m not against meeting for real and maybe turning it into a face-to-face, live in relationship, but at the moment my current life situation means things will remain online only for the near future.
While my preference runs to younger subs, I am open minded and will consider subs of any age. To me, the essence of D/s is about the exchange of control. That said, and online relationship with me will involve the sub giving up control to me. How much control will depend on the particular subs limits and other life commitments, but I am interested in taking as much control as I can.
This control will involve both on time orders and also on going rituals that I will expect her to perform. I have a special enjoyment of humiliation and degradation, so many orders will involve humiliation and degradation to one degree or another. Others will involve some pain. Others will simply be simple exercises in control. All orders and rituals will be given with respect to the subs limits. Her limits will always be respected, but she should expect those limits to be pushed a little to help her grow.
One thing up front. The exchange of audio, photos and even video will be expected over time. This will be a two way exchange, but it won’t likely be an equal exchange. As I said, I will respect a subs limits, but if this exchange is a limit for you, then you’re not the sub I’m looking for. Communication will initially be by email, but as time progresses, voice, phone and video chat might be possible if both of us agree.
This is just a quick introduction, I don’t expect someone could make a decision knowing just this, so I expect to spend time communicating further before any commitments are made. I prefer email for communication, if think you’re interested and would like to ask me for more details please contact me at: j021967 (at) yahoo (dot) com
While my preference runs to younger subs, I am open minded and will consider subs of any age. To me, the essence of D/s is about the exchange of control. That said, and online relationship with me will involve the sub giving up control to me. How much control will depend on the particular subs limits and other life commitments, but I am interested in taking as much control as I can.
This control will involve both on time orders and also on going rituals that I will expect her to perform. I have a special enjoyment of humiliation and degradation, so many orders will involve humiliation and degradation to one degree or another. Others will involve some pain. Others will simply be simple exercises in control. All orders and rituals will be given with respect to the subs limits. Her limits will always be respected, but she should expect those limits to be pushed a little to help her grow.
One thing up front. The exchange of audio, photos and even video will be expected over time. This will be a two way exchange, but it won’t likely be an equal exchange. As I said, I will respect a subs limits, but if this exchange is a limit for you, then you’re not the sub I’m looking for. Communication will initially be by email, but as time progresses, voice, phone and video chat might be possible if both of us agree.
This is just a quick introduction, I don’t expect someone could make a decision knowing just this, so I expect to spend time communicating further before any commitments are made. I prefer email for communication, if think you’re interested and would like to ask me for more details please contact me at: j021967 (at) yahoo (dot) com
