Intelligent Submissive Lady Seeking Intelligent Dominant Gentleman

[satin_desires]

Hello there,

I realize that this is my first post, but I hope you will find it delightful enough, should you take a chance to read it. I am a 34 year old intelligent submissive woman, who is looking for a Dominant who will not bore me to tears, and who craves intellectual rapport as much as I do.

A little about me. I am interested in a great many things, some of them including erotic epistle writing, pet play (not involving animals), guided masturbation, losing control, power dynamics, and others that I will gladly share with you should you ask within the context of a conversation. I have limits and a safeword, and I expect them to be respected, but am otherwise very eager to please and learn under the tutelage of a Gentleman.

I ask that you be at least in your thirties (preferably older than me), kind and a decent human being, as well as being your strict Domly self. I am not looking for married Gentlemen, as I am not myself married.

Thank you for reading this, and I welcome your response in PM.

 

[misterJJP]

Hello Satin_Desire, I have read your post and I hope we can connect.
I am older than you, intelligent, well educated, well traveled and intellectually curious. I am French American raised and born in France.
I am a Dom who has had a few subs. But I am a gentle and loving Dom. Of course you would be humiliated and spanked, but never too harshly. My intention is always to bring pleasure to my sub and spanking and humiliation must be part of it.
You did not say where you are located, although, at this stage, it really does not matter. As for me I am in Florida.
Hoping to hear back from you soon.
misterJJP

 

[Thefallenone1986]

hi

bdsm master here, if your interesting in being bound into my plaything pm me

 

[misterJJP]

no reply from you

Look here, slut, I spent some of my valuable time to answer your thread more than a week ago. No answer, no acknowledgment. As soon as we get appointed, I'll put you across my knees for a good spanking on your bare ass, and finger fuck you until you come like a bitch in heat.
misterJJP

 

[satin_desires]

Dear "misterJJP",

While I am sure you are wonderful at the arts of spanking and finger fucking, I am afraid your way of writing does little to entice. Alas, I believe we are fated to live lives apart.

Yours truly,

satin_desires

 

[misterJJP]

getting things right

Dear satin_desire
I am delighted my second post enticed you to acknowledge me.
Since my first one, that was all nice and proper, did not get your attention,
I thought maybe if I shocked you, I would maybe succeed in getting it. Delighted that It did.

I have no doubt you are an intelligent, cultivated, sensitive woman, which is the first thing that enticed me to write to you. Now, since you posted an ad in the BDSM section, I suspect there is a darker side in you and I thought it was this side of you, you wanted to explore. If you do, please tell me what you really want.

mister JJP

 

[satin_desires]

I would not say that it enticed so much as affronted. If you did not see at that moment that my interest was nonexistent, then I confess myself to be very sad for your intellectual capabilities.

I am not willing to explain to you any of my desires or anything similar because I am frankly not interested. Good luck to you in your journey, of course. Pushy men are not rewarded by me.

 

[satin_desires]

I am still looking for a Gentleman who would be willing to take me on. Thank you to those of you who have been kind enough to look at this advert.

 

[Thefallenone1986]

pm me Satin i'll look after you

 

[satin_desires]

Thank you for your PMs, Gentlemen, but I am still looking.

 

[satin_desires]

I find my search renews itself. Inquiries made to my PM box are welcome.

 

[gateau66l]

I find my search renews itself. Inquiries made to my PM box are welcome.

I seek subject in rl and in writing, in short ready to all

 

[formertroll]

Sorry you've had bad luck so far, enjoy this bump.

 

[Unravelx]

Hilarious exchange in this thread, love it xD

Good luck in your search

 

[Pazusu]

I am not looking for a relationship, though I am interested in exploring. I would never be the kind of man who wants to posess. I am not a jealous man, the stereotype dominant macho. But I know I like to be given the chance to feel dominant, but only because I know you crave to be submissive. You being submissive makes you feel very feminine. And I being dominant makes me feel very much like a man. But I know you need to feel safe in our self created storm of darkness. Sucked in to it, challenging our fears, playing with our demons.

Together we would challenge our darkest demons one by one. It could mean on the level of pain, humiliation, unfair treatment, wondering about ourselves: why are these things that arouse me? But we have to find that out by not judging what we feel but undergoing all this. Thus being able to let go of this uglyness inside, the soft and kind parts get the space they need and deserve.

I sometimes even think it's the dom who needs to feel safe to do this. To let go of this darkness without any shame, or fear of judgement.

Curious about your thoughts.

 

[satin_desires]

Well, it's been a while and nothing has come to fruition. I thought I'd give this another go, perhaps. We shall see how it turns out. Inquiries are welcome.

 

[Weber08]

Hi there

Would you reconsider communicating with a kinky married grandfather? I am 79 and quite kinky and would be delighted to have a kinky pen pal.
Weber

 

[IllianaTheFallen]

sub to sub bump for the lovely miss satin. wishing you lots of luck, sweetie!

 

[Cause66]

I realise that you rejected the idea of a married man originally, but if your views on that have changed then please feel free to say hi. I may not be single, but I do bring experience to the table. If not then I wish you luck in your search x

 

[satin_desires]

Thanks, Illiana!

For the record, no, I am not looking to be any man's extra. I prefer to be the protagonist in my own story, so married is NOT okay for me. I don't care if that "limits" my choices, as some have condescendingly told me in PM, but it's an ethic of my own, and I appreciate anyone who adheres to it. Thanks.

 

[HeavyBalls]

Thanks, Illiana!

For the record, no, I am not looking to be any man's extra. I prefer to be the protagonist in my own story, so married is NOT okay for me. I don't care if that "limits" my choices, as some have condescendingly told me in PM, but it's an ethic of my own, and I appreciate anyone who adheres to it. Thanks.

A gentleman can and will respect both your choices and feelings.

 

[LilMissWednesday]

Bump because ethics matter - hope you find what you are looking for

 

[satin_desires]

Thanks so much, LilMissWednesday! You're awesome!

 

[satin_desires]

Gentlemen: For the record, a little humility and some general human interaction skills go a long way. Please, if you're going to PM me, try your best not to be condescending and/or passive aggressive. Those are huge turn offs. Just thought I'd post this PSA.

 

[Midwest50Guy]

Gentlemen: For the record, a little humility and some general human interaction skills go a long way. Please, if you're going to PM me, try your best not to be condescending and/or passive aggressive. Those are huge turn offs. Just thought I'd post this PSA.

I think you described 96 percent of the folks here LOL