cock size

It's how you use it that counts. A horse may be well equipped but that does not make him necessarily a sensitive lover.

*snort*

Oh, come on! I can not seriously be the only one to see the irony in someone with screen name Mr. Ed commenting on a horse's equipment and sensitivity.

Well played, Mr.Ed63! Well played indeed!


Any road, according to a brilliant woman it was my distinct pleasure to share a marriage bed with for 22 years, "I'd rather be tickled to death than stabbed to death if I had to choose." I'm not completely sure I was meant to overhear that. :eek:


On the other hand, I happened to be in the... er... "debriefing" with her gynecologist after a hysterectomy. And tried to crawl under my stool when said prim and proper woman with an accent reminiscent of Dr. Ruth mentioned uterine bruising. While peering over her glasses straight at me. :eek:

In my defense, though, it was the five-inch Freddy Kruger claws digging in my ass cheeks spurring me on. ;)
 
Threads on this topic are pointless and have been done to death, but the responses always assume that it's a question of size OVER technique! Why not both??? Given a sensitive and experienced lover, a big cock in the hands of someone who knows how to use it is superior to the same man with smaller equipment. Size does matter! As a confirmed Cocksucker, I definitely prefer the sensation of having a thick cock fucking my throat.
 
it doesn't matter what size penis the man has, whether it be the size of a cocktail weenie or the size of a stallions. But in my personal preference thickness is better than length, anywho when a man drops his pants. Whatever he is sporting is not a problem and a deal-breaker, my panties are still coming off and we're having sex. A deal-breaker for me it's not the size of the man's penis..... it is his attitude and how he treats me!
 
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Size

Such an infatuation!

I am a guy, straight, who has had a compliment or two from partners over the years. One says that I am the biggest she has ever had, that said, she has only had 5 in her 62 year old life, so .....

A little longer that 6 inches (15 cm) with a girth of 5 3/4 (14 cm). Looking at the charts that puts me at the slight upper end of normal, so no big deal.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#/media/File:Human_penis_sizes_length_only.svg

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#/media/File:Human_penis_sizes_girth_only.svg

It's the only one that I have and it will have to do.
 
7”-9” and thick, ideally 6” in circumference or more

And yes it matters. It is not the thing or the most important factor. But it isn’t irrelevant.

Obviously a good lover is attentive, we have a connection, he takes his time and he knows how to use his cock. But if it happens to be big then all the better.

In my opinion the way that women dodge the question belies the truth. If I asked you if you like steak better than chicken and you answer that good chicken is better than over cooked steak you aren’t answering the question - you are avoiding it.

On this topic the question usually is not “is size the most important thing”. Yet that is the question women choose to answer usually with some exasperated statement. That tells me they are avoiding the question because they don’t want to state the truth.

Most women don’t dwell on size nearly as much as guys imagine but to say or imply that it doesn’t matter at all and you’ve never considered it is disingenuous. To all the women who get frustrated with men asking the question I would ask why are you so unwilling to answer it - not evade by answering a different question than the one asked but actually answer the question asked.
 
Size matters, maybe?

I often say size size doesn’t matter because the best sex I have had has not been with the guy with the biggest dick, but with the guy who had an average size dick but he knew exactly how to use it. I was with someone who had a dick that was at least 9 inches, huge in my opinion,and it was too much. When I have sex, I like it really hard and with the guy with the really big dick-it hurt and I didn’t enjoy it as much.

I think size in combination with technique is important. A guy with a huge dick but no technique is not best thing in my book.
 
hey...

Threads on this topic are pointless and have been done to death, but the responses always assume that it's a question of size OVER technique! Why not both??? Given a sensitive and experienced lover, a big cock in the hands of someone who knows how to use it is superior to the same man with smaller equipment. Size does matter! As a confirmed Cocksucker, I definitely prefer the sensation of having a thick cock fucking my throat.

Well said Sterculius,
Your response, has been my opinion (with exception to the 'throat fucking') since I was 17 and learned how to live with having only a 6 inch hard-on.

A very gorgeous crazy (not quite high school graduate) hillbilly girl told me,

"Never mind what you aint got, this is what you got---, learn how to use and you'll never be alone."
 
7”-9” and thick, ideally 6” in circumference or more
And yes it matters....
Most women don’t dwell on size nearly as much as guys imagine but to say or imply that it doesn’t matter at all and you’ve never considered it is disingenuous. To all the women who get frustrated with men asking the question I would ask why are you so unwilling to answer it - not evade by answering a different question than the one asked but actually answer the question asked.

Well stated.
Although uninvited, I will answer the question as a man. If it's going in my mouth, I like it a little smaller, because I have what my dentist calls an "overactive gag reflex." But it its going in my ass afterword, forget that, I'm with policywank— 8" and a bit on the thick side is ideal for me.
 
hey...

it doesn't matter what size penis the man whether it be the size of a cocktail weenie or the size of a stallions. But in my personal preference thickness is better than length, anywho when a man drops his pants. Whatever he is sporting is not a problem and a deal-breaker, my panties are still coming off and we're having sex. A deal-breaker for me it's not the size of the man's penis..... it is his attitude and how he treats me!

Tara,
I do SOoooo--, like the attitude that you sport here.

And in the viewing of what 'yank fodder' you've provided us with,
I can 'see' the delicious sexual pleasure/terror you are capable of and it makes me smile.
 
My wife says that the biggest was not close to the best that she has experienced. But she did say that it would be nice to have a really thick one if the guy knows how to use it.
 
Been thinking about this thread a bit since I woke up earlier and got tickled. While what I did say was true, if intended to be mildly humorous, I think I might have a bit more to add to the equation.

A long, long, really long time ago, I looked up whilst studying engineering and decided I really needed to make a life change. And switched my major to one that actually required me to take not one, but three college courses in sex.

The particular one I'm remembering was "Human Sexuality Through the Family Life Cycle." (And, oh, the stories I could share about that sixteen weeks!)

Any road, there was one particular class session where we discussed something that I think might be relevant. Sadly, I can't cite the original study. And for all I know, it was the teacher's Master's thesis making an appearance, since professors and TAs tended to do that back then.

But, from what I can remember, there was a Native American Tribe... can't remember if it was Comanche, Hopi, or just what (this was longer ago than some people reading this have been alive)... But, they had a "fire man" and "fire woman." And the primary job that went with that title was introducing tribe members to sexuality.

And one of the secondary jobs was, I shit you not, to evaluate the young men and women for size compatibility.

Now, obviously it's not like lock and key or anything. (But, wouldn't that make shit so much simpler?! Just drop trousers and wander around until you find the match.) But, there were four general size labels. (And yes, they were on the fucking final exam.)


As I recall, all this time later it was;


Buffalo Man/Woman

Horse Man/Woman

Wolf Man/Woman

Rabbit Man/Woman​


I'm not a hundred percent sure I remember them correctly. In fact, as I recall, I missed one on the test. But, that was the general gist.


And, one of the big reasons for the "fire man" and "fire woman" to evaluate size was to avoid marriage mismatches. I do remember the discussion about that vividly. I was one of only three or possibly four males in a class of around fifty. And when we talked about a "rabbit man" with a "buffalo woman" there was a lot of hilarity. But, when we talked about a "buffalo man" with a "rabbit woman" there were a whole lot of winces.

TLDR; From what I know, it's not so much a size that is perfect. No "master key," if you will. But, the physical compatibility as well as emotional congruity and mental connectedness that makes the penis size "work" or not.


And I probably should have just left it the fuck alone after my earlier appearance when I woke for a smoke. But, eh. There it is.


And I'm gonna wander off into the sunrise now and let someone wiser than me correct whatever I might have fucked up.
 
This is kind of like breast size for men. Women are obsessed with breasts and size while most men just like a good pair provided they're hung on a great woman. Not quite analogous but you get my drift...a penis or pair of boobs on their own lack context and mean very little.
 
Been thinking about this thread a bit since I woke up earlier and got tickled. While what I did say was true, if intended to be mildly humorous, I think I might have a bit more to add to the equation. . . .
Fascinating stuff!

And as for this. . .

The particular one I'm remembering was "Human Sexuality Through the Family Life Cycle." (And, oh, the stories I could share about that sixteen weeks!)

I would love it if your would start another thread and tell some of those stories.
 
it doesn't matter what size penis the man whether it be the size of a cocktail weenie or the size of a stallions. But in my personal preference thickness is better than length, anywho when a man drops his pants. Whatever he is sporting is not a problem and a deal-breaker, my panties are still coming off and we're having sex. A deal-breaker for me it's not the size of the man's penis..... it is his attitude and how he treats me!

Well said thano you from us average sized gents.
 
I've never been with a guy who was too small or too big. I have been with a few guys who thought they were too small, though. I always want to say something like, "Dude, you had an orgasm, and I had an orgasm. It works. Be happy."
 
I've never been with a guy who was too small or too big. I have been with a few guys who thought they were too small, though. I always want to say something like, "Dude, you had an orgasm, and I had an orgasm. It works. Be happy."

And as some comedian or other once said, "I never had a bad orgasm."
 
I've never been with a guy who was too small or too big. I have been with a few guys who thought they were too small, though. I always want to say something like, "Dude, you had an orgasm, and I had an orgasm. It works. Be happy."

I like how you put that, Very well said!
 
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