betamale30
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In your opinion are good cocksuckers born? Or is It a Talent learned and prefected over years of practice sucking dicks?
How does one become a good cocksucker?
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eruditeaphrodite
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It is a natural talent dependent on the innate sensuality of the sucker and the responsiveness of the suckee. Practice on your finger 
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It's a natural talent that can get perfected with time. You have to be in the mood and "feel" it.
Of course, his reception makes a big difference.
Of course, his reception makes a big difference.
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Whether it's a girl or a guy, if they REALLY enjoy sucking a cock, that's about 90% of the battle.
If they don't really like it, but are just doing it to make you happy--that's not as much fun, for me at least.
If they don't really like it, but are just doing it to make you happy--that's not as much fun, for me at least.
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I totally 100% agree.
Except...
Even a horribly bad blow job is better than none at all.
It's when your partner runs to the bathroom to puke while your cum is still flowing from your cock... now that's when things go really bad.
"Uhhh..... honey.... I'm about ready to... OH. MY.... GOHDDDDD!!!"
That might help.
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Practice and desire.
It’s not enough to just show up and let him put it in your mouth - most guys will say that is better than no blowjob at all which I suppose is true but that isn’t what you are after.
You want to give him an experience he will dream about.....find all the right spots and moves that will make him unable to hold back from filling your mouth with thick yummy cum. Make him know you want it, not just that you are doing him a favour. Learn to deep throat. Ask him for the opportunity to suck him off, do it in naughty places, tell him in public how much you look forward to it, wear the outfit that gets him going......,all so that you appeal to his mind as well as his cock. Let your inner bad girl out and apply yourself to the art of cock sucking as if you want every man to forget every other woman.
Every man is different but there are good places to start. Tease his taint with the tip of your tongue. Suck on his balls very gently - done right it is exquisite for him but you have to be ever so gentle so he can trust and relax enough to really enjoy it. The underside of his cock head is often very sensitive and can be the trigger. Suck - make sure your mouth is applying real suction (as opposed to just friction) to the shaft of his cock like you are trying to melt a popsicle in your mouth. Don’t be afraid to make some noise and get a bit sloppy with it. Look up at him with a smile that shows you enjoy it. Deep throat is good (psychological as much as physical) but don’t focus too much on that. Swallow.
Oh and a blowjob means using your mouth. It doesn’t have to be hands free but it is more than a handjob with the occasional lick on his cock head. If you find yourself resorting to using your hands for more than a couple seconds because you don’t want to use your mouth then you may not be applying yourself enough.
If you have time he will usually enjoy a nice session of edging to get his cock twitching and hard. But I do that first because it isn’t as effective once he is all wet.
I think there is some talent to it or maybe it is a desire. If you don’t want to do it you probably won’t be that good. If you only want to do it to please him you will be good but not great. I’m told I give great head....I think it is because I like it.
It’s not enough to just show up and let him put it in your mouth - most guys will say that is better than no blowjob at all which I suppose is true but that isn’t what you are after.
You want to give him an experience he will dream about.....find all the right spots and moves that will make him unable to hold back from filling your mouth with thick yummy cum. Make him know you want it, not just that you are doing him a favour. Learn to deep throat. Ask him for the opportunity to suck him off, do it in naughty places, tell him in public how much you look forward to it, wear the outfit that gets him going......,all so that you appeal to his mind as well as his cock. Let your inner bad girl out and apply yourself to the art of cock sucking as if you want every man to forget every other woman.
Every man is different but there are good places to start. Tease his taint with the tip of your tongue. Suck on his balls very gently - done right it is exquisite for him but you have to be ever so gentle so he can trust and relax enough to really enjoy it. The underside of his cock head is often very sensitive and can be the trigger. Suck - make sure your mouth is applying real suction (as opposed to just friction) to the shaft of his cock like you are trying to melt a popsicle in your mouth. Don’t be afraid to make some noise and get a bit sloppy with it. Look up at him with a smile that shows you enjoy it. Deep throat is good (psychological as much as physical) but don’t focus too much on that. Swallow.
Oh and a blowjob means using your mouth. It doesn’t have to be hands free but it is more than a handjob with the occasional lick on his cock head. If you find yourself resorting to using your hands for more than a couple seconds because you don’t want to use your mouth then you may not be applying yourself enough.
If you have time he will usually enjoy a nice session of edging to get his cock twitching and hard. But I do that first because it isn’t as effective once he is all wet.
I think there is some talent to it or maybe it is a desire. If you don’t want to do it you probably won’t be that good. If you only want to do it to please him you will be good but not great. I’m told I give great head....I think it is because I like it.
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The worst blowjob I ever had was wonderful.
A true craftsman lives for his work and it's never work for him.
When I take a man's cock into my mouth, my whole attention is devoted to his responses, audible and physical. I want to give him a blow job so good, he'll be back for more. What I love to do is to edge him along as long as I can.
When I take a man's cock into my mouth, my whole attention is devoted to his responses, audible and physical. I want to give him a blow job so good, he'll be back for more. What I love to do is to edge him along as long as I can.
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Would you mind if I had your post printed into flyers, so that I could give one to any future sexual partner I might have?
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From my experience and I have some... A woman can sharpen her skills with practice and learn to be first class.
Now I have to add a few things.
About forty percent or more are not as good as they think.
Someone with a natural talent, desire and practice can damned near make you pass out!
Without a desire AND natural talent, it is hard to teach them to be a really good cocksucker, I still have the scars to prove it.
Amazingly not everyone can that can give a decent Blowjob can deep throat and of them, the best are remembered for life!
I am sure other people can add more.
Now I have to add a few things.
About forty percent or more are not as good as they think.
Someone with a natural talent, desire and practice can damned near make you pass out!
Without a desire AND natural talent, it is hard to teach them to be a really good cocksucker, I still have the scars to prove it.
Amazingly not everyone can that can give a decent Blowjob can deep throat and of them, the best are remembered for life!
I am sure other people can add more.
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Would you mind if I had your post printed into flyers, so that I could give one to any future sexual partner I might have?
Lol. Sure. Do I get copyright?
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I asked my wife how she got so good at it and she lifted her head, 'Lots and lots of practice.'
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Excellent advice!
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Be attentive to his reactions, and don't be afraid to ask questions about how much he enjoys different things. My longtime male lover, for instance, does not like having his balls sucked. I would do this sometimes and he said nothing because he did not want me to feel bad. Then, one time, during a threesome, I noticed his expression while the other woman sucked his balls. I asked him about it later and learned the truth. I also learned in that conversation he doesn't like prostate milking. I can now focus my fellatio on the things he likes best, making it much more satisfying for us both.
Again, don't assume, but, rather, ask and explore!
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Yeah, the biggest thing is to pay attention. Try different things and every time he responds positively, file that away as a technique to repeat later.
Also ... variety. Don't just bob your head up and down. Mix it up. Take him into your mouth and tease his slit with your tongue. Rub his cock on your cheek while he's looking down at you. Suck hard on the sensitive spot right under the head. Do one thing for a while until he's moaning with pleasure and then switch and do something else. If it seems like he's really close, ease off a bit and tease his balls with your fingernails until he settles down. Then you can ramp up the intensity again.
A great blowjob has a rhythm to it. He's not just fucking your mouth. You're trying out different things on him and riffing off how he responds.
Also ... variety. Don't just bob your head up and down. Mix it up. Take him into your mouth and tease his slit with your tongue. Rub his cock on your cheek while he's looking down at you. Suck hard on the sensitive spot right under the head. Do one thing for a while until he's moaning with pleasure and then switch and do something else. If it seems like he's really close, ease off a bit and tease his balls with your fingernails until he settles down. Then you can ramp up the intensity again.
A great blowjob has a rhythm to it. He's not just fucking your mouth. You're trying out different things on him and riffing off how he responds.
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