The Boyfriend Experience

[betamale30]

I like to consider myself straight but recently have been under the control of a dominant gay male.. He keeps bringing up the idea of me giving him the "boyfriend experience" as he calls It . I would have to go out on a date with him and pretend I'm his gay boyfriend the whole entire time, then at the end of the date he would rate me on how my performance was. Im very nervous about all this and am so scared of being seen in public with him by someone i know, i dont want to disappoint him but dont now if I'm comfortable with going through with this. Has anyone ever been in this type situation before? And if so how did you handle It ? Am i making to big a deal about all this and overthinking It?

 

[FL30]

I like to consider myself straight but recently have been under the control of a dominant gay male.. He keeps bringing up the idea of me giving him the "boyfriend experience" as he calls It . I would have to go out on a date with him and pretend I'm his gay boyfriend the whole entire time, then at the end of the date he would rate me on how my performance was. Im very nervous about all this and am so scared of being seen in public with him by someone i know, i dont want to disappoint him but dont now if I'm comfortable with going through with this. Has anyone ever been in this type situation before? And if so how did you handle It ? Am i making to big a deal about all this and overthinking It?

Go some place out of town where no one would know you to experience this, if that is your only hang up.

 

[Mqoi]

I had a barracks room mate once that we'd go to a motel way out of town to have sex. It was long before don't ask, don't tell and we were both career military who didn't want to end our careers over it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

By Way Of Thanks

I like to consider myself straight but recently have been under the control of a dominant gay male.. He keeps bringing up the idea of me giving him the "boyfriend experience" as he calls It . I would have to go out on a date with him and pretend I'm his gay boyfriend the whole entire time, then at the end of the date he would rate me on how my performance was. Im very nervous about all this and am so scared of being seen in public with him by someone i know, i dont want to disappoint him but dont now if I'm comfortable with going through with this. Has anyone ever been in this type situation before? And if so how did you handle It ? Am i making to big a deal about all this and overthinking It?

Don't forget, it is considered a courtesy to finish the Gay Date by giving your friend a thorough blow-job...

 

[Sunnyade]

Go for a discrete overnight stay where you aren't known and indulge fully in the experience.

 

[Infectedhole]

I had a barracks room mate once that we'd go to a motel way out of town to have sex. It was long before don't ask, don't tell and we were both career military who didn't want to end our careers over it.

Damn why couldn't I have a roommate like that when I was in?

To the OP I would go out of town so it would be harder for someone to spot you. If you live in a small town go to a large city and then do it

 

[Kantarii]

I’ve dated dozens of guys. Never have I been under any of their “control” or had to “pretend” to be anything other than who I am. Then again, at the time I wasn’t confused or considered myself straight. Don’t lie to yourself, just be yourself. Kant

 

[interwebs]

You should not feel forced to do anything only experiment with guys if you want too there is being submissive during sex but not having your entire life controlled

 

[Mqoi]

Damn why couldn't I have a roommate like that when I was in?

To the OP I would go out of town so it would be harder for someone to spot you. If you live in a small town go to a large city and then do it

It was just luck of the draw. We were 2 to a room there so it was just us. He was gay and I'm bi. After I moved in there, we both made a few joking type comments about sex between men which got me to thinking about him. I started going around the room naked after my nightly showers (trolling him) and he eventually took the bait. As well as a regular sex partner, he became my mentor on being a gay career member of the military. There was motel about an hours drive from the base that we stayed the weekends at to have our fun.