Possible for a man to stop cum if interupted?

[DragonCat91]

Me again with another off the wall question, this one quite difficult to "research" myself since I'm female. Say a healthy, 30 some year old male is having a good time with his wife, but in the middle of the passion, they're walked in on and he pulls out in shock. If he'd reached the point of no return, could he keep from blasting cum everywhere? How fast and effectively can the mood be ruined by something like this?

I'm thinking he'd still be hard when he pulls out but softening real quick, so yeah.

 

[ElectricBlue]

A few deep breaths is enough to slow a man down, so he's more likely not to come if he withdraws suddenly.

 

[saintcero]

" If he'd reached the point of no return, could he keep from blasting cum everywhere?"

Maybe you could define 'point of no return' for us.

 

[DragonCat91]

" If he'd reached the point of no return, could he keep from blasting cum everywhere?"

Maybe you could define 'point of no return' for us.

Like, right before the cum happens, when he gets that "here it comes!" feeling.

A few deep breaths is enough to slow a man down, so he's more likely not to come if he withdraws suddenly.

That works! He'd also be really pissed of course.

 

[Handley_Page]

Me again with another off the wall question, this one quite difficult to "research" myself since I'm female. Say a healthy, 30 some year old male is having a good time with his wife, but in the middle of the passion, they're walked in on and he pulls out in shock. If he'd reached the point of no return, could he keep from blasting cum everywhere? How fast and effectively can the mood be ruined by something like this?

I'm thinking he'd still be hard when he pulls out but softening real quick, so yeah.

If all the internal muscles in his bits have started working, there's no way he could avoid leaving trail of goo as he pulls out. I suspect his blood pressure will fall - real fast - so his dick will deflate.

Like, right before the cum happens, when he gets that "here it comes!" feeling.

That works! He'd also be really pissed of course.

The expression is "pissed off".
'pissed' means drunk.

 

[ElectricBlue]

The expression is "pissed off".
'pissed' means drunk.

Not in the US, it doesn't.

Pissed = drunk = English and Australia usage (and Kiwi).
Pissed in US = pissed off in UK/Oz.

Americans don't understand what piston broke means. They think it's to do with an engine .

 

[holliday1960]

Not in the US, it doesn't.

Pissed = drunk = English and Australia usage (and Kiwi).
Pissed in US = pissed off in UK/Oz.

Americans don't understand what piston broke means. They think it's to do with an engine .

Yeah? Yeah? *Clenches fists and stomps up and down* Well, at least 'we yanks' know the difference between a cookie and a f'n biscuit! Or...or a chip and a fried potato!

Gosh, HP...don't get him started on his poor and unfortunate American 'friends'...i.e. cuzzins...

I believe the original question was: Can you stop a man from ejaculating? The answer is 'yes'...if you grab, pinch and twist...REALLY hard! Come here, Eebs...let me show 'em.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Yeah? Yeah? *Clenches fists and stomps up and down* Well, at least 'we yanks' know the difference between a cookie and a f'n biscuit! Or...or a chip and a fried potato!

Gosh, HP...don't get him started on his poor and unfortunate American 'friends'...i.e. cuzzins...

I believe the original question was: Can you stop a man from ejaculating? The answer is 'yes'...if you grab, pinch and twist...REALLY hard! Come here, Eebs...let me show 'em.

Oh my days, Miss Holliday, what HAVE I said? Hush my mouth. You'll be telling me next to watch my taste in music - but we have both sorts here, country AND western...

 

[holliday1960]

Oh my days, Miss Holliday, what HAVE I said? Hush my mouth. You'll be telling me next to watch my taste in music - but we have both sorts here, country AND western...

In the words of the pup, 'Oh, my daze!'...or was that days? Nope, I think it's daze. (Some residual effects from the original dazed and confused state of yester-year.) Not country AND western?!! Well, you little geeks down under there keep it up and next thing you know...You'll re-invent the Beatles! (Or the wheel; whatever you deem appropriate) *shrugs*

After rereading the OP's question, I'm suddenly struck with the urge to run naked up and down the streets, shouting, "The British are cumming! The British are cumming!" But... I think it's been done before. Makes you wonder how Paul knew that, doesn't it? Never mind.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Now that the thread has turned silly, I will go ahead and use the joke that came to mind when I read the thread title:

Not if he's with me.

 

[JasonClearwater]

In the words of the pup, 'Oh, my daze!'...or was that days? Nope, I think it's daze. (Some residual effects from the original dazed and confused state of yester-year.) Not country AND western?!! Well, you little geeks down under there keep it up and next thing you know...You'll re-invent the Beatles! (Or the wheel; whatever you deem appropriate) *shrugs*

After rereading the OP's question, I'm suddenly struck with the urge to run naked up and down the streets, shouting, "The British are cumming! The British are cumming!" But... I think it's been done before. Makes you wonder how Paul knew that, doesn't it? Never mind.

The British aren't cumming, actually. It's very hard to concentrate when you're laughing your arse off.

Fancy taking my days in vain. Dirty colonists the lot of you.

 

[holliday1960]

Now that the thread has turned silly, I will go ahead and use the joke that came to mind when I read the thread title:

Not if he's with me.

That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Besides, men are funny creatures...you tell 'em not to cum and they'll do it or die. smh Unless you're wearing shiny black latex and leather boots...then maybe...

 

[holliday1960]

The British aren't cumming, actually. It's very hard to concentrate when you're laughing your arse off.

Fancy taking my days in vain. Dirty colonists the lot of you.

Morning, Jase. Start your day spitting coffee instead, did you? And such a cute little arse it is, too! You should move on over to the dirty rebs' side you know. We've got real cookies, not biscuits...

 

[Hypoxia]

Human males are delicate creatures and easily distracted

 

[ElectricBlue]

Human males are delicate creatures and easily distracted

I notice you forgot the full stop there. Got distracted, maybe? Thus either proving a point or demonstrating it's not just men get distracted .

 

[DragonCat91]

Good god this thing really got wild while I was gone!

Yes, by "pissed" I meant "really angry".

If all the internal muscles in his bits have started working, there's no way he could avoid leaving trail of goo as he pulls out. I suspect his blood pressure will fall - real fast - so his dick will deflate.

Lol trail of goo.

Regardless, I think I have enough of an answer now.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

There's an entire genre of erotica call 'ruined orgasm'. Orgasm begins and stimulation is stopped. Ejaculation seems to be more of a dribble. Doesn't seem much like fun.

 

[LWulf]

I'm a control freak and in my life, I didn't ask myself the question but explored the possibility.

Yes, up to a point but then nature takes over. Basically, it's like cresting a hill.

Now, the question remains, can a man stop himself forcefully from cumming? Yes, with some practice, and a good PC muscle, BUT there are two stages. The first stage is where you flatten out "going down the hill." It's the same concept as breathing. Can you hold your breath and stop yourself from breathing? Yes, and with practice, for a longer and longer amount of time. And just like holding your breath, there is a little rush of excitement up to a point where holding it is fun. the second stage, much like holding your breath isn't fun. When holding your breath, the pressure can back up and pop your ears, you'll feel blood vessels start to pool with blood or maybe they are constricting as your heart beats faster. Your heart beat will beat faster because you are causing the body stress by what it wants to do normally and naturally.

Also, a man can stop himself from cumming, if he is still on the upward side of "cresting the hill," but his body has already started to "gather" ejaculate ready to orgasm. Effectively, it's "edging." Again, the body has already started pooling ejaculate, ready to release it, and if no release comes (no pun intended), then you get what is referred to as "blue balls" and that can cause pain like someone has kicked you between the legs, only the pain stays for a day or so. Release after the pain has started doesn't make the pain go away.

Effectively, it's very similar to needing to sneeze, and pinching your nose closed, just before you do, with similar catastrophic effects.

 

[KeithD]

Edging is a whole subcategory.

But, to the OP, I think that if you've reached a point of no return, the answer obviously is that, no you can't prevent completion. That's sort of the definition of "point of no return."

But, yes, I think you can get such a sudden shock that, if ejaculation hasn't started, it can be prevented. That's what the whole "edging" sex practice is all about.

 

[Hypoxia]

I notice you forgot the full stop there. Got distracted, maybe? Thus either proving a point or demonstrating it's not just men get distracted .

I blame the Android tablet. Really. Full stop.

 

[weftandwarp]

Ejaculation is a process of peristalsis isn't it? Like that of an ovum in the fallopian tube, like the peristalsis in the gut. It doesn't happen all the time, only when there are contents needing to be pushed along. It's a function of the autonomic nervous system which means it can't easily be controlled. If the urethra is blocked (ie knot in the penis) the semen will be pumped into the bladder. I've never been able to find appropriate references but I think that is what is happening.

 

[weftandwarp]

I blame the Android tablet. Really. Full stop.

I have an android tablet. I find it too large and the corners could be shaped better. Taking them is beyond me. My guess is lots of water is required.

I have trouble submitting things here with mine. It's a pain.

 

[LWulf]

Ejaculation is a process of peristalsis isn't it? Like that of an ovum in the fallopian tube, like the peristalsis in the gut. It doesn't happen all the time, only when there are contents needing to be pushed along. It's a function of the autonomic nervous system which means it can't easily be controlled. If the urethra is blocked (ie knot in the penis) the semen will be pumped into the bladder. I've never been able to find appropriate references but I think that is what is happening.

From first hand experience, yes, that is what happens. And if that happens often enough, infection, or crystallization occurs, and that's why cranberry juice is your friend.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Now that the thread has turned silly, I will go ahead and use the joke that came to mind when I read the thread title:

Not if he's with me.

Brr ump bump ching!

(What, nobody else thought that was hilarious?)

On topic: I did once, causing a horrendous cramp. Yeah, there. Never again.

On UK vs US English: Being from Canada, I used American spellings when my company was owned by Brits and British spellings when it was owned by Americans. I now spell color, harbour, labour etc with or without a "u", and change as often as I like in a document. Well, not on Lit. I just pick one at the start...

 

[ChloeTzang]

Edging is a whole subcategory.

But, to the OP, I think that if you've reached a point of no return, the answer obviously is that, no you can't prevent completion. That's sort of the definition of "point of no return."

But, yes, I think you can get such a sudden shock that, if ejaculation hasn't started, it can be prevented. That's what the whole "edging" sex practice is all about.

Evil snicker. Ohhhhh yes. Such fun keeping a guy on the edge and not quite there. Alas, the point of no return is, in fact, where he goes over the edge and it's such fun when he's doing his best not to and one is doing ones wicked best to force the issue. I'm with Melissa on this one. It's happening, guaranteed.