The first time you realized someone was flirting with you?

[sunandshadow]

Not sure if this question is too vanilla for this forum, but I'd like to hear everyone's story about the first time you realized someone was flirting with you, and how you felt about it. Did a friend point it out to you? Did it make you uncomfortable? Did your feelings change between the first realization and thinking about it later?

 

[stiv837]

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[AdolfHitlerisBack]

When Churchill sent me that really weird telegram.

 

[LENTINUS]

I was about 13, camping with a group, a girl who was 1-2 years older than me (scary, I know) started quite openly flirting with me and asking me to come to her bed, which made me feel the most uncomfortable I probably ever felt in my life.

Thankfully things have changed a lot for me since then, I was a shy kid but little did I anticipate that with double the age, flirting would become second nature to me.

 

[Brian70]

Not sure if this question is too vanilla for this forum, but I'd like to hear everyone's story about the first time you realized someone was flirting with you, and how you felt about it. Did a friend point it out to you? Did it make you uncomfortable? Did your feelings change between the first realization and thinking about it later?

I'm still usually too dense to figure it out until much later, lol!

 

[Ramone45]

There is a girl in a club I belong to. She has a boyfriend who appears very cuck. I got a new car last fall, and she said it was sexy, right in front of him. Then, she cornered me at the Christmas party. I don't know if it was the crowded, hot room, or if I was coming down with something, but I started sweating unbelievably, LOL. It was crazy. Sweat, pouring off me. Even though it wasn't the case I think she thought I was hot and bothered over her. I kept praying she would cut the conversation short to let me get some water or air. But she kept going on and on. I was fucking drenched. Now when she sees me, she always gives me lots of attention. I've been cordial, but she's more than cordial. Its weird.

 

[liqueur]

There is a girl in a club I belong to. She has a boyfriend who appears very cuck. I got a new car last fall, and she said it was sexy, right in front of him. Then, she cornered me at the Christmas party. I don't know if it was the crowded, hot room, or if I was coming down with something, but I started sweating unbelievably, LOL. It was crazy. Sweat, pouring off me. Even though it wasn't the case I think she thought I was hot and bothered over her. I kept praying she would cut the conversation short to let me get some water or air. But she kept going on and on. I was fucking drenched. Now when she sees me, she always gives me lots of attention. I've been cordial, but she's more than cordial. Its weird.

well? Do her!

 

[liqueur]

I don't think I've ever realized until much too late. A bit clueless, I can be.

 

[coati]

It was so long ago, but I do remember. I remember the girl's first and last name, and what she looked like, the place where we met, the whole scene. And yes, an older guy had to tell me, "Hey, Liz is ready. Don't you see what is going on?"

Her attention did feel good, but I was too young and uncertain of myself to respond in any other way besides being nice to her. I was a virgin until I was 20 or so. Then the floodgates opened.

 

[Jada59]

I'm still usually too dense to figure it out until much later, lol!

Same here. Sometimes others will notice and point it out to me.

 

[Ramone45]

I'm pretty dense too, especially since I don't consider myself particularly attractive. The only thing I have going for me is, that compared to most men my age, I'm in ridiculously good shape.
I recently went to a new eye doctor. She was pretty. Big head of red hair. Skirt and a sheer (not see-thru) blouse. Although I noticed how attractive she was, I was still focussed on the task at hand.
But then I noticed she seemed oddly flustered when she was talking to me. She moved her hair away from her face a couple of times. During small talk, she asked me the same exact question twice, and that seemed to make her even more flustered.
I didn't even consider the fact that I had an effect on her until after I left and thought about our encounter.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

oh god, that was a lifetime a go. I don't know, probably 12 when the boy behind me get snapping my bra strap lol. In my teenage years and 20s, I did greatly enjoy when a male would flirt with me and was quite attune to it. Though, I was prone to putting people into "non sexual" boxes and then any flirting would go unnoticed by me. Such as "friend zone" "bffs boyfriend" "too old" "too good looking" "too affluent" "too intelligent" "not straight" etc etc. Basically, once I decided someone would never have a sexual attraction to me, any flirting was completely missed by me or assumed to be humor, so there were many occasions I finally realized someone was flirting with my when I found their tongue down my throat lol.

Now, if it does happen, I miss it. I guess everyone is in a box now, even strangers. I am generally outwardly humorous so humor is usually returned on a regular basis, from friends and strangers, thus if there is any flirting, I assume humor and not actual flirting.

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

There was once in high school where my best guy friend was wanting more and I didnt realize it. He was too scared to make it obvious, so I missed his signals. Wish I hadn't. Live and learn

 

[LWulf]

I am usually the flirtor, not the flirtee