The Real Chubby Tummies Of Lit

[RjThoughts]

I do too. And yes. I lurk. But not out of creepiness. I am in awe of the women who post here, with self-confidence or courage I can only dream of having one day.

I've been conditioned to think of myself as unattractive. And that's what I see. Right or wrong, that's still what I see. Intellectually, I know that people who put others down are just trying to feel better about themselves. But my head rarely convinces my heart of anything.

Believe your mind. You can overcome the bullshit you were told growing up. It won't take a Thanos finger snap instant to happen, but with every instance you smile when someone calls you attractive/hot/wet dream causing, you'll get closer.

 

[Bjerget]

Chubby, chubby everywhere...


Briefly, in profile

<~~ *click!*

You are forever and always so beautiful.

 

[beachbaby179]

Believe your mind. You can overcome the bullshit you were told growing up. It won't take a Thanos finger snap instant to happen, but with every instance you smile when someone calls you attractive/hot/wet dream causing, you'll get closer.

thank you.

 

[TongueLust]

If you love a woman, you love her unconditionally*

Yep, and it goes both ways, unless it is detrimental for us.

I do too. And yes. I lurk. But not out of creepiness. I am in awe of the women who post here, with self-confidence or courage I can only dream of having one day.

I've been conditioned to think of myself as unattractive. And that's what I see. Right or wrong, that's still what I see. Intellectually, I know that people who put others down are just trying to feel better about themselves. But my head rarely convinces my heart of anything.

We all have insecurities, but I made a promise to myself that I will not deal with anyone who doesn't love me unconditionally.

I agree, the women on here are brave.

 

[RjThoughts]

thank you.

Welcome

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I had this conversation a few months ago, after spending some naked time with a new friend:

Me: I was so worried about what he would think, bla bla bla
Girlfriend: Did he have a boner?
Me: Well... yes...
Girlfriend: .......



She made her point.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You are forever and always so beautiful.

You are, too.

 

[TongueLust]

Hi!

This made me giggle. I'm glad for you, to have that, and to know that you're worth it.

It's not easy, but after you get over the shock of it all. *Giggling*

A fave, and please I hope the words doesn't offend anyone.

https://youtu.be/lj5-71ziM5c

 

[Cogan]

I had this conversation a few months ago, after spending some naked time with a new friend:

Me: I was so worried about what he would think, bla bla bla
Girlfriend: Did he have a boner?
Me: Well... yes...
Girlfriend: .......



She made her point.

The best gesture of appreciation!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I agree, the women on here are brave.

My passion that my daughters and granddaughter specifically should not have to live with the burden of this insecurity fuel my actions. I don't feel brave, but I do feel determined.

 

[TongueLust]

I had this conversation a few months ago, after spending some naked time with a new friend:

Me: I was so worried about what he would think, bla bla bla
Girlfriend: Did he have a boner?
Me: Well... yes...
Girlfriend: .......



She made her point.

^^Giiiiiirl, yes!

 

[RjThoughts]

My passion that my daughters and granddaughter specifically should not have to live with the burden of this insecurity fuel my actions. I don't feel brave, but I do feel determined.

*reaches into the interwebs and says*

Let me feel your determination.

*feels all eye rolling*

 

[TongueLust]

My passion that my daughters and granddaughter specifically should not have to live with the burden of this insecurity fuel my actions. I don't feel brave, but I do feel determined.

I still say brave, and they will feel their own stuff.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It's not easy, but after you get over the shock of it all. *Giggling*

A fave, and please I hope the words doesn't offend anyone.

https://youtu.be/lj5-71ziM5c

That was awesome!

The best gesture of appreciation!

Indeed!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

^^Giiiiiirl, yes!

*reaches into the interwebs and says*

Let me feel your determination.

*feels all eye rolling*

*laughs and slaps your hand away*

I still say brave, and they will feel their own stuff.

Truth.

 

[TongueLust]

Trust me that boner is awesome.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Trust me that boner is awesome.

I'm looking forward to the next one!

 

[TongueLust]

I'm looking forward to the next one!

Enjoy.

 

[Todger65]

Oh my goodness! You guys!!



It is amazing to me that what society has always told me is ugly and unappealing and needs to be fixed, can be found to be acceptable and even beautiful by anyone except maybe my mother. . But to hear that my soft body is sexy and desirable and the subject of fantasy is truly life-changing.

When i was in school, my parents got me a subscription to Seventeen magazine. There are no chubby models to be found in their pages, but their are plenty of diets and articles telling us 'how to lose ten pounds by changing the way that you dress.'

There are chubby actresses in comedies, but when was the last time you saw a large woman cast as a romantic lead?

Are there any full-figured pop stars? I can think of Mama Cass, and that's it.

It's easi-er to rock what I've got on Lit than in other places, but I still find myself almost apologizing to in-person mates and worrying about their reaction when they see my tummy rolls and dimpled bottom.

The positive feedback that I get here is hard to believe, but so encouraging. It's so much easier to relax and let the sexy flow when you know that it's going to be well-received. Your words help to give me the confidence to dress, speak, and carry myself as a woman of worth, and that's a great feeling. You guys rock!

I’m pleased we have been of some use to you Honey, encouragement enough to make you feel more confident in many ways. That has to be good. As your friend suggested, a boner doesn’t lie, it reacts to something it likes and enjoys looking at and says, ‘I want to play’.

As I’ve said before, I would love to wake up next to you every day.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m pleased we have been of some use to you Honey, encouragement enough to make you feel more confident in many ways. That has to be good. As your friend suggested, a boner doesn’t lie, it reacts to something it likes and enjoys looking at and says, ‘I want to play’.

As I’ve said before, I would love to wake up next to you every day.

Thank you, Todger.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

I've been conditioned to think of myself as unattractive. And that's what I see. Right or wrong, that's still what I see. Intellectually, I know that people who put others down are just trying to feel better about themselves. But my head rarely convinces my heart of anything.

Same here.

 

[ksmith475]

Cheers to u

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I do too. And yes. I lurk. But not out of creepiness. I am in awe of the women who post here, with self-confidence or courage I can only dream of having one day.

I've been conditioned to think of myself as unattractive. And that's what I see. Right or wrong, that's still what I see. Intellectually, I know that people who put others down are just trying to feel better about themselves. But my head rarely convinces my heart of anything.

Same here.

I think we need to learn new ways of communicating about the subject. For me, hearing I'm sexy or hot or whatever is nice, but the more detail I get, the more it sinks in. Obviously this is going to sound less awkward coming from a close friend or mate, but still, we need to try.

What do we need to hear? Well, I think sincerity is the most important factor. Beyond that, I appreciate the variety I get from my friends and partners. Someone once remarked, 'The fuck am I gonna do with a skinny bitch?!' LOL!! It was very tongue-in-cheek, and he has nothing against slender women, but his point was that he values me with THIS body.

I think it would be nice to hear the honest, internal thoughts that men have regarding our bodies, appropriate to the environment, of course. I read a post on the Fet & Sex board by a man who described sex with his plus-size partner as diving into a warm, wet lagoon. I thought that was terrific! I do enjoy more graphic descriptions from those I'm closest to, but I think we can still benefit from input by strangers and acquaintances.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

A question for the gentlemen:

When you look at an attractive woman and she happens to have a big belly, what are some of the thoughts that cross your mind? Sweet and romantic, or down and dirty, let's hear them!

 

[RjThoughts]

A question for the gentlemen:

When you look at an attractive woman and she happens to have a big belly, what are some of the thoughts that cross your mind? Sweet and romantic, or down and dirty, let's hear them!

I wish to cuddle, cup it, rub it as I sit or lay reading with her.
I wish to see it naked, see it jiggle as she rides on top of me.
I wish to know if she would like to feel soft leather glide across it, or would she like to feel the sting.