Babygirl looking for a kind and older Daddy

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Babygirl looking for a kind and older Daddy (Not incestuous)

I’m a 25 year old woman who is working and in grad school. My daily life can be stressful and hectic, so I love being able to give up control in bed. While I do have a submissive nature in bed, I’m also very playful which is why I wouldn't necessarily consider myself a submissive. I will give cheek occasionally (probably quite often), but I do it because I’m usually looking for a punishment. Which leads to my hard limits: I don’t get off on extreme pain, so my versions of punishments would be a spanking, or roughly taking me. Now the degree of those punishments would be entirely up to you. I take a lot of pleasure from giving pleasure, and find just as much enjoyment from hearing my man moan while I’m swallowing his cock inch by inch while his hands thread through my hair as I do when his tongue is on my clit.

Full disclosure: I do have a particular kink, and it comes super natural to me so I’m not sure I would be able to give it up (and I understand it’s not for everyone). I enjoy calling the man I’m in bed with “Daddy.” I want to be very clear: it’s not an incestuous kink. It’s more into the daddydom/babygirl aspect. I love being with older men , as I find they are far more mature and understanding of my needs and wants. I didn’t discover that this was a kink of mine until I met someone on lit chat, and we clicked well together. Soon enough we were talking every night, followed by incredible phone sex, and one day I just said it in the heat of the moment. It came very naturally and seemed to intensify the intimacy.

I’m not really too experienced with bdsm, and while I’m open to trying new things, I won’t respond to extreme pain, humiliation or degradation. With time and trust, I know I would be okay with being called daddy’s little slut, or something similar, but please understand this isn’t something I would ever start with. It’s hard to write out everything I’m into, so I’ll leave it at this: I want to develop a sexual relationship with someone who enjoys taking care of me but also recognizes I’m a strong woman who doesn’t actually need it.

** I don't sexually chat with anyone who is attached (married, relationship) or is over the age of 45. Sorry if that bothers you, but I'm just not comfortable with those two.

I do appreciate honesty, and it's a 2-way street. It's easy for people to forget that when they are behind a computer. I'm pretty short and curvy with long black hair and tan skin. Feel free to ask me any questions!

(Also, I'm sorry for this essay hehe)
 
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I’m a 25 year old woman who is working and in grad school. My daily life can be stressful and hectic, so I love being able to give up control in bed. While I do have a submissive nature in bed, I’m also very playful which is why I wouldn't necessarily consider myself a submissive. I will give cheek occasionally (probably quite often), but I do it because I’m usually looking for a punishment. Which leads to my hard limits: I don’t get off on extreme pain, so my versions of punishments would be a spanking, or roughly taking me. Now the degree of those punishments would be entirely up to you. I take a lot of pleasure from giving pleasure, and find just as much enjoyment from hearing my man moan while I’m swallowing his cock inch by inch while his hands thread through my hair as I do when his tongue is on my clit.

Full disclosure: I do have a particular kink, and it comes super natural to me so I’m not sure I would be able to give it up (and I understand it’s not for everyone). I enjoy calling the man I’m in bed with “Daddy.” I want to be very clear: it’s not an incestuous kink. It’s more into the daddydom/babygirl aspect. I love being with older men , as I find they are far more mature and understanding of my needs and wants. I didn’t discover that this was a kink of mine until I met someone on lit chat, and we clicked well together. Soon enough we were talking every night, followed by incredible phone sex, and one day I just said it in the heat of the moment. It came very naturally and seemed to intensify the intimacy.

I’m not really too experienced with bdsm, and while I’m open to trying new things, I won’t respond to extreme pain, humiliation or degradation. With time and trust, I know I would be okay with being called daddy’s little slut, or something similar, but please understand this isn’t something I would ever start with. It’s hard to write out everything I’m into, so I’ll leave it at this: I want to develop a sexual relationship with someone who enjoys taking care of me but also recognizes I’m a strong woman who doesn’t actually need it.

** I don't sexually chat with anyone who is attached (married, relationship) or is over the age of 45. Sorry if that bothers you, but I'm just not comfortable with those two.

I do appreciate honesty, and it's a 2-way street. It's easy for people to forget that when they are behind a computer. I'm pretty short and curvy with long black hair and tan skin. Feel free to ask me any questions!

(Also, I'm sorry for this essay hehe)
Like your limits and I fail both. Always be true to yourself.
 
** I don't sexually chat with anyone who is attached (married, relationship) or is over the age of 45. Sorry if that bothers you, but I'm just not comfortable with those two.

I do appreciate honesty, and it's a 2-way street. It's easy for people to forget that when they are behind a computer. I'm pretty short and curvy with long black hair and tan skin. Feel free to ask me any questions!

(Also, I'm sorry for this essay hehe)

to be honest, I think humiliation is a weak man's game. I don't like being insulted and I don't get off on insulting others. but that's because I have endured incredible verbal, physical, and probably sexual abuse in my own life and I would never push that shit onto other people. I feel a little evil sometimes but in truth, I am a naturally dominant man who responds to girls who need a little manhandling. I am good with jokey insults when spropos, but I think humiliation suck and I believe in the golden rule. I guess I have a "the customer is always right" kind of attitude about things.

I'm only 40, 5'8 but powerfully built, pretty laid back but capable of extreme intensity, and basically prefer to find a lover who clicks with me. I don't necessarily have long-term goals for a bdsm relationship but I'd like to have fun with a cute subbie chick and if I find the right one (I really have enjoyed the daddy thing in the past) then so be it.

you can msg if you haven't found somebody already.
 
Relatable

Hi, I can relate with a lot of what you have said. And I agree about older men being more caring.

Goodluck with your search.
 
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