guys the older u get the more gay you get?

jackbird

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How many guys out there the older you get the more you watch or have gay sex and want it more than str8 sex? I watch lots of man on man sex weather it be gay, sissy, tranny, cross dressing, or cuckold. I find it more exciting than str8 porn. I all so have a strong desire to get fucked. I have all ready had oral with guys but now want to feel a cock deep in my ass. Don't get me wrong I still get turned on by pussy but my desire for cock is strong.
 
How many guys out there the older you get the more you watch or have gay sex and want it more than str8 sex? I watch lots of man on man sex weather it be gay, sissy, tranny, cross dressing, or cuckold. I find it more exciting than str8 porn. I all so have a strong desire to get fucked. I have all ready had oral with guys but now want to feel a cock deep in my ass. Don't get me wrong I still get turned on by pussy but my desire for cock is strong.

I think is is how much more we love to try new things without the stigma we had about bi or gay things. You may look for more cum now what ever package in comes in. Or maybe we are just hornier now.:devil:
 
As I got into my forties and the internet became widely available, I found myself drawn to pictures and videos of cocks and men putting them to use. Eventually I realized that I had to try one out for real (I was in my 50s at that point). That was many cocks ago.
 
I think is is how much more we love to try new things without the stigma we had about bi or gay things. You may look for more cum now what ever package in comes in. Or maybe we are just hornier now.:devil:

I agree completely with this! At least it's how I think about it.
 
Dunno about being more gay, but I'm more accepting of my sexuality now than I was when I was younger. I used to buy into the whole gay sex being wrong and sinful thing. To my thinking now, it's normal human behavior and not at all sinful. And I'm much more open about it these days. Regardless of labels, I'm sexually attracted to both men and women and have been for my whole life. That's just part of who I am.
 
How many guys out there the older you get the more you watch or have gay sex and want it more than str8 sex? I watch lots of man on man sex weather it be gay, sissy, tranny, cross dressing, or cuckold. I find it more exciting than str8 porn. I all so have a strong desire to get fucked. I have all ready had oral with guys but now want to feel a cock deep in my ass. Don't get me wrong I still get turned on by pussy but my desire for cock is strong.

that is so true in my case also...think about sucking cock so much
 
I think another piece if it, besides just being more open and relaxed about sex, is that most gay porn involves good looking men with nice bodies and older guys are nostalgic about when they looked (or think they looked) that good
 
I think another piece if it, besides just being more open and relaxed about sex, is that most gay porn involves good looking men with nice bodies and older guys are nostalgic about when they looked (or think they looked) that good

I’m not sure about that. My preference tends to be older guys that are average to chubby. It may simply be a case of being turned on by men who have a build similar to our own.
 
Same sex lust

For me, the images of myself sucking cock, jacking men off, being fucked in the ass all started in my mid-fifties.

I think all women and men at least think about or wonder what it would be like to have same gender sex.

I simply knew I wanted to suck cock more that anything I had ever done. It must happen. It was my desire, my choice to experience homosexuality on my knees with a man's cock spurting semen into my willing mouth.

I'm in my 60's now, and desire cock every single day.
 
I wouldn’t say I’d gotten more gay/bi as I’ve gotten older. I’ve always felt the same and had the same attraction to men and women, although I have experimented sexually more than ever as I’ve gotten older. I do know guys however who have never openly come out and said they were gay/bi until their sex lives slowed down or stopped and suddenly choosing to fantasise or experience sex with another man feels more attractive and less like cheating than having sex with another woman.
 
Some things never change...

No, I've been bi ever since I first started having sex with others. That never changed. It's become more acceptable to be bi in recent years, but the need to be accepted has rarely inhibited my actions in life.

The thing that did change for me was the gradual transition from the hair-trigger orgasms of early life to orgasms that depend upon either a strong connection with someone or an exciting seduction.
 
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guys the older u get the more gay you get?

How many guys out there the older you get the more you watch or have gay sex and want it more than str8 sex?

No. I haven't gotten "more gay". I'm as "gay" as I've always been and, with an extensive experience with a gay lover in my youth, I have less "gay sex" than I did when younger. I am working on it though by visiting more gay night spots and locales and putting myself in more situations where I'm meeting more openly gay men (with the wife's approval BTW....she knows I'm insatiable and that she can't "keep up" with me.)

I've also watched gay porn, almost exclusively, for decades so that hasn't changed as I "get older" either. I used to go in fits and starts, wherein I'd watch a lot of gay porn and think to myself, "You need to watch some straight porn. You're getting to the point where watching straight sex doesn't even turn you on."

Well? I am what I am which, rather than bisexual, I've come to accept that "homoflexible" might be a better match.
 
I just realized that I had sex with my best boy friend next door when I was a teenager and then with my brother before I ever had sex with a girl in high school. I would say that I have had all types of sex with many women in my lifetime starting with the girls in high school but I have had just as many guys with their cocks in my mouth. I remember in high school I had guys who want to have blow jobs from me but back then it was not cool to be gay. I kept everything very discreet. Now I wish I had been more acceptable to those that wanted a bj. I am now considered a senior member of society and I am almost exclusively gay. I like sucking, playing with and watching cocks. I would have a cock everyday if I could. I still look at pretty women but I have no desire to have sex with them.
 
No, I've been bi ever since I first started having sex with others. That never changed. It's become more acceptable to be bi in recent years, but the need to be accepted has rarely inhibited my actions in life.

The thing that did change for me was the gradual transition from the hair-trigger orgasms of early life to orgasms that depend upon either a strong connection with someone or an exciting seduction.

I have been in love with several men in my gay lifetime, but as I got older I found myself more and more into hooking up with someone I, too, felt that sort of attachment for. I got my wish seven years ago and we have been married since Christmas Eve. I still meet men on here that I am attracted to, but he is the love of my life.

Love the part about an exciting seduction. The two most intense loves of my life srarted with exactlly that.
 
I just realized that I had sex with my best boy friend next door when I was a teenager and then with my brother before I ever had sex with a girl in high school. I would say that I have had all types of sex with many women in my lifetime starting with the girls in high school but I have had just as many guys with their cocks in my mouth. I remember in high school I had guys who want to have blow jobs from me but back then it was not cool to be gay. I kept everything very discreet. Now I wish I had been more acceptable to those that wanted a bj. I am now considered a senior member of society and I am almost exclusively gay. I like sucking, playing with and watching cocks. I would have a cock everyday if I could. I still look at pretty women but I have no desire to have sex with them.

I like to look at attractive women too, but many years ago I came to peace that I enjoyed sex and relationships with men much, much more. And yes, although I have identified as gay for decades, I still like an attractive, classy older lady and have several friends that fit that bill. It's a nice way to enjoy a deep friendship with someone without the complication of sexual attraction.
 
I never thought about this until I got divorced after 27 years. Still love pussy but my desire to play with a nice guys cock turns me on
 
Man Boobs

I do think as men age they can take on some feminine characteristics. It could be from low Testosterone or HGH. Jack Nickleson was over heard shouting to some guys passing by in a boat while he was sitting in trunks on a pier, "Stop looking at my man boobs." That condition can also be caused by certain medications and once discovered the doc will take you off of them. I was surprised when I went to bed with a ex lover awhile back that he grabbed me from behind and enjoyed playing with my boobs. Mine was caused by Spiralactone and my MD immediately took me off of it. I suppose I could go to the Y and turn them into some nice pecs. Dunno.
 
I do think as men age they can take on some feminine characteristics. It could be from low Testosterone or HGH. Jack Nickleson was over heard shouting to some guys passing by in a boat while he was sitting in trunks on a pier, "Stop looking at my man boobs." That condition can also be caused by certain medications and once discovered the doc will take you off of them. I was surprised when I went to bed with a ex lover awhile back that he grabbed me from behind and enjoyed playing with my boobs. Mine was caused by Spiralactone and my MD immediately took me off of it. I suppose I could go to the Y and turn them into some nice pecs. Dunno.

I have low Testosterone am taking 2 shots a month. I have feminine characteristics. I have man boobs, I found I can cry easy now, I have mix feelings about becoming more fem. I been thinking of becoming more feminine. I am on a bunch of medications to.
 
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I have low Testosterone am taking 2 shots a month. I have feminine characteristics. I have man boobs, I found I can cry easy now, I have mix feelings about becoming more fem. I been thinking of becoming more feminine. I am on a bunch of medications to.

I have found that by eating less animal and dairy, my labs have been perfect the last two times. My A1c is 5.8 and was 5.5 the previous lab. Doctor is now trying to find something wrong with me to justify my visits. Try it. What have you got to loose? Amazing.
 
I've come to know that I've always had low testosterone and had submissive tendencies. Also , from past experiences I know that I have never satisfied a woman with my dick , but only with my tongue. My increasingly bi fantasies , I think, come from that it feels like it would be a relief for me to not have to rely on my dick getting hard and not cumming too soon in order to give someone pleasure. I feel like I would be a better lover taking on a more typical female role in sex - pleasuring the other with my mouth and offering my ass to be fucked. I also find that I am more and more drawn to a big hard cock, since I have a small one, I just feel a need to give pleasure and submit to a big hard cock.
 
I wouldn’t say I’d gotten more gay/bi as I’ve gotten older. I’ve always felt the same and had the same attraction to men and women, although I have experimented sexually more than ever as I’ve gotten older. I do know guys however who have never openly come out and said they were gay/bi until their sex lives slowed down or stopped and suddenly choosing to fantasise or experience sex with another man feels more attractive and less like cheating than having sex with another woman.

There are many that post here that have similar experiences. I have met older men that were "latecomers" that wanted to finally try gay sex, and some find it very satisfying once they get past the stigma and guilt. Most are surprised at how easy it is without the drama that often accompanies straight sex. Gay and straight are very different cultures when it comes to getting into sex and many straight men are surprised when they meet a gay man that may just be attracted to them for one-time sex without the hangups.

It can be exciting bringing out a man.
 
Another opinion

I've posted before on this thread and like reading what other guys have said.

It is a thrill to learn later in life that what others think is depraved, or disgusting, is a small part of the desire to suck a man's dick. It made me feel ALIVE. I liked learning my craving to experience homosexual sex was shared by so many other men.

Giving a blowjob is so very intimate. I moan in pleasure each time I blow a man, feeling his sperm warm my mouth and begin filling it. My fantasy is to find a huge cummer and drink mouthfuls of his cum.

Being watched doing it.
 
How many guys out there the older you get the more you watch or have gay sex and want it more than str8 sex? I watch lots of man on man sex weather it be gay, sissy, tranny, cross dressing, or cuckold. I find it more exciting than str8 porn. I all so have a strong desire to get fucked. I have all ready had oral with guys but now want to feel a cock deep in my ass. Don't get me wrong I still get turned on by pussy but my desire for cock is strong.

Yup, seems that way with me
 
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