thiscouldbtricky
The one That got Away
- Joined
- Sep 21, 2004
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Hi.
This is probably the wrong time to be doing this, because I just got home from work about half hour ago and I’m already stoned. I know that makes me sound. Just the fact that I feel I have to make excuses for it, probably says a lot more about me than I want to admit. But I digress... I know. Bear with me.
I’m going through some dark times. Dark times indeed. It’s nothing life threatening, and I know there are many people out there more unfortunate than I am. But our problems are our own... anyway. In times of need, you call upon your friends for support. But at this time in my life, I don’t feel that I have anyone to talk to, not about the deep things you share with friends. I love my husband and he is my best friend... but it’s not quite the same. I’m usually a lot more succinct with words, so please don’t let the ramblings put you off.
So, I’m looking for a friend. Strictly online, could morph to texting possibly but it will never be more than that. Someone who wants to talk about our day, and whether or not they liked The Devil is a Part-Timer and what kind of cheese we like. But also someone who likes to dig deep and ask questions, and willing to have me do the same. Someone with whom we can have meandering meaningless conversations with, or complex, impassioned ones, that delve into the absyss that is WE.
Sex can be a topic of conversation. I’m not opposed to that, but it’s very important to me to have established a connection. For it to occur naturally, and through organic conversation, and not because you want to know if I want a dick pic. Or something.
That being said, I’m not necessarily looking for a male. Could be female. Or neither. Or both. Or whatever. I will never expect you to take time for me out of your real life, we talk when we can. I don’t want messages after 10 minutes of no answer with passive aggressive “I guess you don’t like me anymore. “ or some such. However, I think that there is a certain level of chemistry (let’s call it that, for lack of a better word right now) that is possible, even online, and I’m hoping to find someone that I personally jive with. Other than that, I have absolutely no restrictions on age, gender, race, preferences or what have you.
If it’s important for anyone to know, I’m a 30 year old, straightish married female.
And now I will take your questions. Lol
This is probably the wrong time to be doing this, because I just got home from work about half hour ago and I’m already stoned. I know that makes me sound. Just the fact that I feel I have to make excuses for it, probably says a lot more about me than I want to admit. But I digress... I know. Bear with me.
I’m going through some dark times. Dark times indeed. It’s nothing life threatening, and I know there are many people out there more unfortunate than I am. But our problems are our own... anyway. In times of need, you call upon your friends for support. But at this time in my life, I don’t feel that I have anyone to talk to, not about the deep things you share with friends. I love my husband and he is my best friend... but it’s not quite the same. I’m usually a lot more succinct with words, so please don’t let the ramblings put you off.
So, I’m looking for a friend. Strictly online, could morph to texting possibly but it will never be more than that. Someone who wants to talk about our day, and whether or not they liked The Devil is a Part-Timer and what kind of cheese we like. But also someone who likes to dig deep and ask questions, and willing to have me do the same. Someone with whom we can have meandering meaningless conversations with, or complex, impassioned ones, that delve into the absyss that is WE.
Sex can be a topic of conversation. I’m not opposed to that, but it’s very important to me to have established a connection. For it to occur naturally, and through organic conversation, and not because you want to know if I want a dick pic. Or something.
That being said, I’m not necessarily looking for a male. Could be female. Or neither. Or both. Or whatever. I will never expect you to take time for me out of your real life, we talk when we can. I don’t want messages after 10 minutes of no answer with passive aggressive “I guess you don’t like me anymore. “ or some such. However, I think that there is a certain level of chemistry (let’s call it that, for lack of a better word right now) that is possible, even online, and I’m hoping to find someone that I personally jive with. Other than that, I have absolutely no restrictions on age, gender, race, preferences or what have you.
If it’s important for anyone to know, I’m a 30 year old, straightish married female.
And now I will take your questions. Lol
