My GF dont allow ?

[lovesexfun]

I want to try anal and she is not allowing out of fear? What to do?

 

[13Fantasies]

I want to try anal and she is not allowing out of fear? What to do?

Get used to it?

 

[Carnevil9]

Sex, like all relationships, involves a lot of give and take. So here's what you do:

You get yourself a nice slim anal toy. You tell your GF you want her to use it on you. When she does, moan and squirm like a banshee, show her how much you are enjoying it, and make sure you cum so hard that she is intrigued. It might take awhile, but eventually, she'll want you to use it on her. And sooner or later, she'll want to feel your real, throbbing cock in her ass.

Good luck!

 

[fma20fma]

hi

Sex, like all relationships, involves a lot of give and take. So here's what you do:

You get yourself a nice slim anal toy. You tell your GF you want her to use it on you. When she does, moan and squirm like a banshee, show her how much you are enjoying it, and make sure you cum so hard that she is intrigued. It might take awhile, but eventually, she'll want you to use it on her. And sooner or later, she'll want to feel your real, throbbing cock in her ass.

Good luck!

Thats how my ex bf hooked me on to bareback anal sex.

 

[Ilovetoeatsperm]

Sex, like all relationships, involves a lot of give and take. So here's what you do:

You get yourself a nice slim anal toy. You tell your GF you want her to use it on you. When she does, moan and squirm like a banshee, show her how much you are enjoying it, and make sure you cum so hard that she is intrigued. It might take awhile, but eventually, she'll want you to use it on her. And sooner or later, she'll want to feel your real, throbbing cock in her ass.

Good luck!

I agree. Offer up your asshole first.

 

[lovesexfun]

I agree. Offer up your asshole first.

giving my ass hole will be not possible...any other suggestion.

 

[JLM73]

giving my ass hole will be not possible...any other suggestion.

Like 13Fantasies said "get used to it"

 

[screwher]

Go down on her. On her back her legs spread with her asshole open as well. As you're licking her just simply touch her anus. The next time apply a little pressure. The next time gently rub her anus with your finger tip. Then every time you're licking her out stimulate that area with a finger. Soon you'll be inserting your finger. By then she'll be loving it. Then you'll be going from your finger to your cock!

 

[Jada59]

Are you sure it is out of fear? Some people are just disgusted by it. I've found that if the person is disgusted, there is no point in trying it with them. They might agree to try it but that disgust will come through and be a total turn off.

Just curious though. If you want to do it to her, then why do you not want it for yourself?

 

[naughtymind]

My 2 cents

Well, you can take this for what it’s worth. Free internet advice, cheap but risky relationship counseling. At any rate, I have used a very simple basic formula several times in the past when dealing with a partner who was uncomfortable or not into some particular sex act:
Regardless of the act in question, simply focus on making her feel
-sexy
-respected
-wanted
-appreciated
-not judged or pressured to be anything other than herself
-not judged for ANY of her oddities

Often I found that her interests and boundaries would broaden greatly over time. Other times not...

 

[suckonsimon]

OK some women go for anal. A great many women do not.
Because of porn, there are men pushing for this from their women.
Not good. Not good at all. We men need to respect and love women for where they WANT to have cock pleasuring them.

 

[Nezhul]

giving my ass hole will be not possible...any other suggestion.

Now, aren't this a hypocritical thing to say? If your asshole is off limits, why couldn't hers be?

Just accept that she doesn't want it.

If you think that it feels any different for women than for men - I have bad news for you. It feels pretty much the same. Both genders can rarely be able to orgasm from this, but for most people - they will never cum from anal stimulation.

 

[Emmcee20]

Gosh, I am one of the lucky few then! Yay!

 

[lovesexfun]

Like 13Fantasies said "get used to it"

that's what I am doing and then only asking for help.

 

[lovesexfun]

Go down on her. On her back her legs spread with her asshole open as well. As you're licking her just simply touch her anus. The next time apply a little pressure. The next time gently rub her anus with your finger tip. Then every time you're licking her out stimulate that area with a finger. Soon you'll be inserting your finger. By then she'll be loving it. Then you'll be going from your finger to your cock!

now that's what I call a good idea...thanks man...i will let you know how will i go.

 

[lovesexfun]

Are you sure it is out of fear? Some people are just disgusted by it. I've found that if the person is disgusted, there is no point in trying it with them. They might agree to try it but that disgust will come through and be a total turn off.

Just curious though. If you want to do it to her, then why do you not want it for yourself?

Until you try how can you say it is disgust, i am sure she is scared and fearful that it will pain so I am going to try JLM73 idea and let see how it goes.

 

[lovesexfun]

Well, you can take this for what it’s worth. Free internet advice, cheap but risky relationship counseling. At any rate, I have used a very simple basic formula several times in the past when dealing with a partner who was uncomfortable or not into some particular sex act:
Regardless of the act in question, simply focus on making her feel
-sexy
-respected
-wanted
-appreciated
-not judged or pressured to be anything other than herself
-not judged for ANY of her oddities

Often I found that her interests and boundaries would broaden greatly over time. Other times not...

Yes, I do keep her interests on top of mine and that's why I have not forced her to do anything...and I will never....things will work in its own manner so I have to be calm and take one step at a time.

 

[lovesexfun]

OK some women go for anal. A great many women do not.
Because of porn, there are men pushing for this from their women.
Not good. Not good at all. We men need to respect and love women for where they WANT to have cock pleasuring them.

I agree i got to know through porn only but its just a try and I am not forcing her...just asking people if they also had the same scenario.

 

[lovesexfun]

Now, aren't this a hypocritical thing to say? If your asshole is off limits, why couldn't hers be?

Just accept that she doesn't want it.

If you think that it feels any different for women than for men - I have bad news for you. It feels pretty much the same. Both genders can rarely be able to orgasm from this, but for most people - they will never cum from anal stimulation.

ok thanks for the information.

 

[lovesexfun]

Gosh, I am one of the lucky few then! Yay!

If you are getting and Let me tell you "YES"

 

[Bigspurt]

I want to try anal and she is not allowing out of fear? What to do?

Yup, Butts are for defication and mouths and pussies are for cocks and cum! Tickle her bottom when you are munching away on her pussy. Use a little precum or lube. See where that goes.

 

[lovesexfun]

Yup, Butts are for defication and mouths and pussies are for cocks and cum! Tickle her bottom when you are munching away on her pussy. Use a little precum or lube. See where that goes.

yes now i am getting the right advice from right people thanks man

 

[HoneyUndone]

Get used to it?

perfect

 

[lovesexfun]

ya right

 

[twister947]

If it was me, I'd keep shopping...changing people is uphill work.