The unwanted

[Candore]

Who is truly unwanted, the man in his 40's, the pain of the age is loneliness. Everyone is always looking for younger, women, men or older women, but no one wants the older guy. Are only value is what's in the bank account, and not what's in our hearts!

 

[chriscritter]

It may seem that way, but look around. You will find it; it's out there.

 

[OldUncleJack]

As a 62 year old...believe me many ladies prefer the experience of an older guy!

 

[Candore]

I appreciate what you said. It seems like a exercise in futility.

 

[Candore]

I have a birthday coming up, and I wish I could skip it, and not have to feel the way I do now!

 

[wishywashy]

Sexual Pleasures are knocking at your door....

I have a birthday coming up, and I wish I could skip it, and not have to feel the way I do now!

How do you feel right this moment?

 

[AlliaPotestas]

40s is not an ‘older guy’ unless you’re chasing much younger things... there are loads of women on lit in their 30s/40s/50s (and beyond) who’d like a decent guy of a similar age. Keep the faith, but in the meantime do something just for you,

xx

 

[Candore]

Thank you, coming from you an attractive women means allot.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Thank you, coming from you an attractive women means allot.

‘Attractive’ is subjective . But I mean it seriously, I get much younger men message me and it freaks me out, I have no desire to chat to a lad I am actually old enough to have birthed... it’s weird to me, but each to their own...

I am much more comfortable with guys roughly my age or older, x

 

[Candore]

You are right, attractive is subjective! I also feel comfortable with women my age and older, but feel most women prefer younger. I guess I have the mid-life thing going on right now. I need to stop the pity party, but sometimes it's hard. I guess today is one of those days.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

You are right, attractive is subjective! I also feel comfortable with women my age and older, but feel most women prefer younger. I guess I have the mid-life thing going on right now. I need to stop the pity party, but sometimes it's hard. I guess today is one of those days.

Good for you,

Self pity is never an attractive attribute, do something you love where you may or may not meet someone, if you fail to meet the love of your life, you’ll still be doing something you love, xx

 

[Candore]

You are right! Doing art helps a lot. When I'm painting or drawing the hours just fly by. It just would be nice, to feel wanted again. But you can't have everything.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

You are right! Doing art helps a lot. When I'm painting or drawing the hours just fly by. It just would be nice, to feel wanted again. But you can't have everything.

Get yourself along to an art class - I bet women outnumber men in most of those... and if not, you’re doing something you enjoy, xx