Advice on being a gay submissive

[rh1188]

Hey guys I'm fairly new in this context, not necessarily in time but in experience. I really want to be a good sub for someone someday so I was wondering if anyone had some advice for me and others like me.

 

[jackstud]

lets cuddle

affectionate is a good start

 

[fma20fma]

hi

can I send your contact to my ex bf?

 

[CaveCat12401]

gay submissive

I dated a gay submissive "trainee" for over a year. He was aiming for the sissy end of the submissive spectrum, so a lot of time was spent "feminizing" ... gestures, mannerisms, speech, emotions. But he was dominant when it came to setting our schedules and establishing strict boundaries for the one or two hours he would "play" at being a sissy, so I'm not sure how committed he was to really living the life of a submissive.

I don't know how far you're aiming, so it's tough to give specific advice. It's tough going it alone (I know, I've tried), so I hope you have a dominant partner you can trust implicitly and who will have the patience to let you evolve into your new role.

Exciting changes coming...

 

[BikiniRiki]

Sometimes after a frustrating week my master wants to take out his frustration on me. Being a good sub at those times means submitting MORE- if he pinches or tweaks my nips I lean into the pain-offering more of myself. If he spanks or twists my ballsac I raise my hands to him - palms towards him."surrender" posed. Never look him in the eye- except when I say "Yes master or I love you "
When he spanks me I thank him for each swat.
Devotion, admiration, submission will naturally follow.

 

[yukonnights]

Hey guys I'm fairly new in this context, not necessarily in time but in experience. I really want to be a good sub for someone someday so I was wondering if anyone had some advice for me and others like me.

I think the main thing to remember is that you already are a 'gay submissive'. That part is wired-in, so to speak. Another important thing is that you have already thought about and fantasized about how you would like to act out your submissive nature. The D/s dynamic has many, many flavors and expressions...there is no one dynamic that fits every person.

Bottom line, I suggest you just do you...be honest, and seek the kind of "dominant" that you think will be a good match. And remember, you will change over time in a natural way. The most important thing is to communicate with your partner for a mutually enjoyable relationship. (unless you desire to be a true slave...but how many really want that ). Best wishes !

 

[2wayroad]

I lead a double life. In my day to day work I am assertive and tend to be dominant. When I’m with a man in a sexual way, I submit to all of his desires and willingly let him use me for his sexual release. There is something exhilarating about the release of control and surrender to a man. Even moreso knowing that he desires you and wants to use you for his pleasure.

 

[gunthernehmen]

I lead a double life. In my day to day work I am assertive and tend to be dominant. When I’m with a man in a sexual way, I submit to all of his desires and willingly let him use me for his sexual release. There is something exhilarating about the release of control and surrender to a man. Even moreso knowing that he desires you and wants to use you for his pleasure.

Are you channeling me?

 

[rh1188]

I don't see why not fma20fma