Swinging

[DennisB]

This post is for both husbands and wives who are in the lifestyle.

When answering, please state which one you are, husband or wife.

When you "go on a date", " go to a club", "take another lover", or whatever you refer as having swinger sex, do you want your spouse there? There are many forms of swinging, same room, hot wife, etc. The question i am asking is do you desire the presence of your spouse with or near you because his/her presence adds to the eroticism of the moment? To answer the question for us; we have had many a time where we have invited another couple, or single in bed with us and we are always together. Maybe not side by side but it adds to our eroticism to view our spouse engaged and engaging in sexual activity with another. It is the highlight of the "date". Going it alone just doesnt do anything for us. Not saying that that is a bad thing, just not our thing.

What about you?

 

[Justfantasies]

This post is for both husbands and wives who are in the lifestyle.

When answering, please state which one you are, husband or wife.

When you "go on a date", " go to a club", "take another lover", or whatever you refer as having swinger sex, do you want your spouse there? There are many forms of swinging, same room, hot wife, etc. The question i am asking is do you desire the presence of your spouse with or near you because his/her presence adds to the eroticism of the moment? To answer the question for us; we have had many a time where we have invited another couple, or single in bed with us and we are always together. Maybe not side by side but it adds to our eroticism to view our spouse engaged and engaging in sexual activity with another. It is the highlight of the "date". Going it alone just doesnt do anything for us. Not saying that that is a bad thing, just not our thing.

What about you?

We have an open marriage, so there are plenty of times when either Cindy and I have sex with others, without the spouse around. In fact, business trips and separate vacations are where that happens the most.

However, when we invite another couple over (or get invited over) for sex and both of us are present that is very special. I love seeing my wife responding excitedly to another man. She seems to enjoy watching me with others too

 

[Justfantasies]

This post is for both husbands and wives who are in the lifestyle.

When answering, please state which one you are, husband or wife.

When you "go on a date", " go to a club", "take another lover", or whatever you refer as having swinger sex, do you want your spouse there? There are many forms of swinging, same room, hot wife, etc. The question i am asking is do you desire the presence of your spouse with or near you because his/her presence adds to the eroticism of the moment? To answer the question for us; we have had many a time where we have invited another couple, or single in bed with us and we are always together. Maybe not side by side but it adds to our eroticism to view our spouse engaged and engaging in sexual activity with another. It is the highlight of the "date". Going it alone just doesnt do anything for us. Not saying that that is a bad thing, just not our thing.

What about you?

We have an open marriage, so there are plenty of times when either Cindy and I have sex with others, without the spouse around. In fact, business trips and separate vacations are where that happens the most.

However, when we invite another couple over (or get invited over) for sex and both of us are present that is very special. I love seeing my wife responding excitedly to another man. She seems to enjoy watching me with others too

 

[Hedo_Harry]

We do most of our swinging with other couples (so maybe "swapping" would be a better term). We love watching each other fucking the other spouse together. It makes us fall even deeper in love with each other for some reason.

 

[bibethhotwet]

For the most part we prefer to be in the same room. Both of us have voyeuristic natures and like to watch each other. We have done separate room sex from time to time but in the same house.

 

[screwher]

My wife

Mrs. Screwher are a hotwife couple. We have a semi open relationship where we decided that we both want to her to have sex with other men. Right now all of my wife's extra marital sex has been at the other mans place. Privately in his bedroom. I do want to watch, we're just not there yet. I feel that it's going to happen. Hopefully sooner than later.

I got no complaints though because what we have is amazing. When my wife gets home from his place she tells me all about the sex she just had. Then we have our own "reclamation" sex. Which is always amazing!

 

[Raydora]

This post is for both husbands and wives who are in the lifestyle.

When answering, please state which one you are, husband or wife.

When you "go on a date", " go to a club", "take another lover", or whatever you refer as having swinger sex, do you want your spouse there? There are many forms of swinging, same room, hot wife, etc. The question i am asking is do you desire the presence of your spouse with or near you because his/her presence adds to the eroticism of the moment? To answer the question for us; we have had many a time where we have invited another couple, or single in bed with us and we are always together. Maybe not side by side but it adds to our eroticism to view our spouse engaged and engaging in sexual activity with another. It is the highlight of the "date". Going it alone just doesnt do anything for us. Not saying that that is a bad thing, just not our thing.

What about you?

I love watching my wife with someone else...incredibly erotic for me and she prefers that I am by her side or in the same room.

 

[DickandDebbie]

I love watching my wife with someone else...incredibly erotic for me and she prefers that I am by her side or in the same room.

I love watching my wife get fucked in front of me.Tried different rooms once and the wife or I didn't like it.She loves to tell me how much she loves me while another man is got her bent over the chair I'm sitting in Fucking her hard.

 

[Justfantasies]

I love watching my wife get fucked in front of me.Tried different rooms once and the wife or I didn't like it.She loves to tell me how much she loves me while another man is got her bent over the chair I'm sitting in Fucking her hard.

I like to watch Cindy fucking on our marital bed or hearing about her doing it there while I am away

 

[finz305]

South florida fwb couple here. We are full swap and have had 3 experiences so far, all been fun. We joined SDC and you can meet a lot of people there. Anyone from lit in south florida? kik us eagle954

 

[luckyseven]

We swing with other couples and enjoy watching each other fuck. I love watching my wife get fucked in front of me.

 

[Clem99]

Husband - I prefer us being together. I love watching my wife fuck and she enjoys watching me. Four of us playing in a group is extremely hot as well.

 

[miska_darling]

Hubby and I (wife) indulged by attending a few events/clubs and exclusively been as a kink night out (to enjoy from time to time) spent together, and going with the mood of the moment. We've had limited experience and so wouldn't call it a lifestyle for us.
I definitely only desire being in the presence of my husband because it's a kink we share together, as a couple and which builds and strengthen our relationship.

 

[davenjenn]

We have had an open marriage for a long time. I enjoy the sex and knowing that my hubby likes me to enjoy myself too.

Swinging in the traditional sense was never really part of our life style until recently. However -- perhaps because I am getting older -- we have started to go with a few couples regularly. It is more cosy than being a hot wife and there are some really hot couples around here.

Jennifer

 

[Jennitalia]

When I was a swinger, I got more satis faction having my other half in the same room. It doesn't matter if it's group sex or sex alone with another man. The idea of being watched and me watching my man get fucked by another woman is very erotic.
Somehow, it had been more of me and my partner being separated in different parts of a house with someone else. Either way, it was a lifestyle we truly enjoyed.
I miss it now. I haven't done it in years. Husband wants no part of it and I can respect that.

 

[JackOffer]

All of my marriages have been open, the first two to women, and now to a man. We love that we get to enjoy great sex with as many people as we want, any time we want.

 

[JRaven]

Hubby Jim and I (wife) enjoy playing with others. Our preference, what gets our perv up the most, is to play with one other couple in the same room. We love watching the other get fucked, sucked, and pleasured.
At house parties, its a bit more loose. He might be talking shop to a guy in the living room while I'm getting banged by two other guys in a bedroom. Occasionally, he'll pop his head in, just to perv a little on his slut wife and to ensure I'm having fun.
Occasionally, we will play separately. We have our own, different fantasies. We try to let the other know before it happens, but understand that it doesn't always work that way. We do always let the other know everything afterwards.
Jenny

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

We have had an open marriage for a long time. I enjoy the sex and knowing that my hubby likes me to enjoy myself too.

Swinging in the traditional sense was never really part of our life style until recently. However -- perhaps because I am getting older -- we have started to go with a few couples regularly. It is more cosy than being a hot wife and there are some really hot couples around here.

Jennifer

Beginning stages here, so I (hub) haven't watched her yet. But that should happen later this summer. We have one couple we've been experimenting with. All fun so far.

 

[jakelc]

Husband We started swinging after dogging for a while, it just seemed like a natural progression. Dogging was fun because it stared with other people watching us fuck and then we slowly let other guys touch my wife and eventually fuck her. That led to us starting to swing with other couples and then at parties and clubs. Since We started together in the same room, we have always preferred being in the same room that’s what our real preference has always been. That’s not to say that we haven’t enjoyed swapping partners with other couples in separate rooms, we just find it a more intense experience when we are together.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Husband, we went together.

 

[TheOtherMeForReal]

Female here in an open relationship. If it’s another couple it’s usually in a swapping scenario and we’re in the same room. But we also play on our own. Probably more often actually.

 

[Viking59]

Female here in an open relationship. If it’s another couple it’s usually in a swapping scenario and we’re in the same room. But we also play on our own. Probably more often actually.

Ya, me and my Mrs. did a few "meetings" in the swingers club that we were part of.... but we found it just as intoxicating exciting to have sex in front of other people..... used to get incredibly hard from the look of the couple across the room watching my wife's dark brown face suck my cock just 3 or 4 feet away

 

[Viking59]

Husband We started swinging after dogging for a while, it just seemed like a natural progression. Dogging was fun because it stared with other people watching us fuck and then we slowly let other guys touch my wife and eventually fuck her. That led to us starting to swing with other couples and then at parties and clubs. Since We started together in the same room, we have always preferred being in the same room that’s what our real preference has always been. That’s not to say that we haven’t enjoyed swapping partners with other couples in separate rooms, we just find it a more intense experience when we are together.

Yup....that is a natural progression that many couples went through that we knew in the 1990s...by 2005, 2008ish.... to a couple's we knew had switched to "soft swinging"

 

[TheOtherMeForReal]

Ya, me and my Mrs. did a few "meetings" in the swingers club that we were part of.... but we found it just as intoxicating exciting to have sex in front of other people..... used to get incredibly hard from the look of the couple across the room watching my wife's dark brown face suck my cock just 3 or 4 feet away

For sure! I’m a bit of an exhibitionist so I do enjoy being watched.

 

[ror5]

For sure! I’m a bit of an exhibitionist so I do enjoy being watched.

I think it is all hot..I've been single and having fun, but would love to have sharing sex..mmm