Older men for young girls

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Any other girls only ever been attracted to old men? I can’t remember ever liking any guys my age even as a kid. It’s all just fantasy in my mind but advice an 18 year old girl it makes me feel strange.. anyone else relate or any men like to chat?
 
Older guys? Here?

I think you're probably inundated with chat requests and private messages after your thread statement.
 
There's nothing wrong with it. Honestly I think alot of girls are but just don't act on it cause people judge u. I'm attracted to older men. Been on lots of dates with them. I think it's the maturity.
 
Any other girls only ever been attracted to old men? I can’t remember ever liking any guys my age even as a kid. It’s all just fantasy in my mind but advice an 18 year old girl it makes me feel strange.. anyone else relate or any men like to chat?

I quite enjoy chatting with older guys.
I find they often share a better class (is that the right word?) of conversation - as long as they don't keep asking me what colour panties I'm wearing, or wanting to send me 'dick pics' :rolleyes:
 
Older men, younger women

I think there are LOTS of older men here who would love to talk about sex with women.
 
I've always met and dated a lot of women that had fetishes for older men. I was open and kinky and often we'd find an older male to join in. I'm talking large age gaps though. Like late mid 20's to mid 30s females and 60+ men.

Now that I'm getting older, I find myself trending toward finding women with that same fetish, for myself instead of kinky swinging fun. For goofs and giggles and just NSA fun, any age. If we are talking about a real relationship, I probably won't go more than 12 years younger than me, maybe 15.
Why not? Simply because of 2 main reasons:
One, the lack of maturity is a PITA. lol
Two, it will prove difficult to keep up with her eventually.
 
I quite enjoy chatting with older guys.
I find they often share a better class (is that the right word?) of conversation - as long as they don't keep asking me what colour panties I'm wearing, or wanting to send me 'dick pics' :rolleyes:

Relatable! Lol

Exactly, they just seem to.. understand so much better or something? Not sure why but I could never speak to a 19 year old the the way I can speak to a 59 year old man lol
 
Any other girls only ever been attracted to old men? I can’t remember ever liking any guys my age even as a kid. It’s all just fantasy in my mind but advice an 18 year old girl it makes me feel strange.. anyone else relate or any men like to chat?


I would interact with younger girls, but if they are younger than say "30", then it is very difficult for them to look up from their phone long enough to have any sort of human interaction. Not even long enough to say, "hello", "thank you", or even "goodbye".

I see this every day that I go to work as I deal with usually 1000+ people per day, and they are all ages but the younger ones are all stuck on their phones.
 
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Also, somewhere on this site, there is already a thread for younger girls / older guys.

I just don't remember where it is, though.
 
it is very difficult for them to look up from their phone long enough to have any sort of human interaction. Not even long enough to say, "hello", "thank you", or even "goodbye".

OH! Don't even get me started on this! LMAO. That frustrates me like nothing else. Even chatting online you can tell the difference.

Over 30 -
Hello, my name is Sharon, and I found what you said to be very interesting. Would you like to discuss in further via email? My background is similar and I've personally found that.....
*and you go on to have an interesting conversation with Sharon

Under 30 -
Yo! I'm KittyKittenKat, 20. I'm on Kik. Find me there.
*Now, let's say you are stupid enough to want to chat with her. The conversation consists of four abbreviated words and 30 emojis - example - "Totes hot :devil::devil:, Makes my :heart: go squish :kiss:"

Then you reply and wait for 20 minutes because she's chatting with 20 other people at once and all you get is another empty single syllable, four word sentence with emoji dressing word salad.
 
OH! Don't even get me started on this! LMAO. That frustrates me like nothing else. Even chatting online you can tell the difference.

Over 30 -
Hello, my name is Sharon, and I found what you said to be very interesting. Would you like to discuss in further via email? My background is similar and I've personally found that.....
*and you go on to have an interesting conversation with Sharon

Under 30 -
Yo! I'm KittyKittenKat, 20. I'm on Kik. Find me there.
*Now, let's say you are stupid enough to want to chat with her. The conversation consists of four abbreviated words and 30 emojis - example - "Totes hot :devil::devil:, Makes my :heart: go squish :kiss:"

Then you reply and wait for 20 minutes because she's chatting with 20 other people at once and all you get is another empty single syllable, four word sentence with emoji dressing word salad.


You've got that whole situation nailed. I've both seen and experienced exactly what you just discribed. It's rare to find a woman under 25-30 who types in complete sentences.
 
You've got that whole situation nailed. I've both seen and experienced exactly what you just discribed. It's rare to find a woman under 25-30 who types in complete sentences.

Oops - I'm a weirdo :eek:
LMAO he he :devil::devil:
No Kik (crap) :cattail:
 
You've got that whole situation nailed. I've both seen and experienced exactly what you just discribed. It's rare to find a woman under 25-30 who types in complete sentences.

NOT, just the women, it's the guys, too.

I've got friends that now are so lazy that they can't even type "ok" anymore, they just use "k". WTF????
 
OH! Don't even get me started on this! LMAO. That frustrates me like nothing else. Even chatting online you can tell the difference.

Over 30 -
Hello, my name is Sharon, and I found what you said to be very interesting. Would you like to discuss in further via email? My background is similar and I've personally found that.....
*and you go on to have an interesting conversation with Sharon

Under 30 -
Yo! I'm KittyKittenKat, 20. I'm on Kik. Find me there.
*Now, let's say you are stupid enough to want to chat with her. The conversation consists of four abbreviated words and 30 emojis - example - "Totes hot :devil::devil:, Makes my :heart: go squish :kiss:"

Then you reply and wait for 20 minutes because she's chatting with 20 other people at once and all you get is another empty single syllable, four word sentence with emoji dressing word salad.



My late 50s year old mother types “din red, dog fed 1 today, home at 7, turn heat off” so I find this comment offensive hahahahaha
 
While older women have much to offer, I tend to prefer younger women as well. My previous lover was 35 years my junior! I miss her tremendously. Her spirit, her energy, her desire to learn, and, in her case, her love of being spanked!

We both valued so much what the other brought to the relationship that we could enjoy one another without the games one tends to end up in with women of one's own age.

http://78.media.tumblr.com/98ef0cb024b4073161a8cba1257f232f/tumblr_nhdcwhuqcH1rbrhnko1_500.gif
 
When I was younger, I was attracted to older men. Why? The ones that were my age were totally clueless in terms of romance and sex. They were fine for friends but I couldn't see them in a romantic light.

Oddly enough as I grew older, age became far less of an issue. That being said, I am still attracted to guys with silver/white hair and a deep voice. OMG when James Coburn was alive, he would get me every time. Just the sound of his voice! Oh my...
 
OH! Don't even get me started on this! LMAO. That frustrates me like nothing else. Even chatting online you can tell the difference.

Over 30 -
Hello, my name is Sharon, and I found what you said to be very interesting. Would you like to discuss in further via email? My background is similar and I've personally found that.....
*and you go on to have an interesting conversation with Sharon

Under 30 -
Yo! I'm KittyKittenKat, 20. I'm on Kik. Find me there.
*Now, let's say you are stupid enough to want to chat with her. The conversation consists of four abbreviated words and 30 emojis - example - "Totes hot :devil::devil:, Makes my :heart: go squish :kiss:"

Then you reply and wait for 20 minutes because she's chatting with 20 other people at once and all you get is another empty single syllable, four word sentence with emoji dressing word salad.

Totally agree , just to add another perspective

yes, Its easy to chat with people over 30 because they have an idea what they want. But they are very specific , at times not willing to consider a different view point. Though Once they cross 45 they are very much flexible on ideas

Younger girls- Its really difficult to connect with younger girls, some of them really believe world revolves around them but once you get connected its wonderful. They are more playful, adventurous and are more willing to explore things. Energy levels are amazing and some of them are really mature for their age.
 
Growing interest

When I was younger I was always interested in older women. But now that I am getting older, I find myself more and more interested in younger women. I find myself checking out younger women all the time.
 
NOT, just the women, it's the guys, too.

I've got friends that now are so lazy that they can't even type "ok" anymore, they just use "k". WTF????

Agreed! That's true. It's not just the girls. It's generational. I'm OK with it. What works for them is fine if they're happy. It just doesn't work for me.
 
It’s like having sex with a bucket of KFC chicken: bones breaking, skin tearing, tendons snapping!
 
When I was younger, I was attracted to older men. Why? The ones that were my age were totally clueless in terms of romance and sex. They were fine for friends but I couldn't see them in a romantic light.

Oddly enough as I grew older, age became far less of an issue. That being said, I am still attracted to guys with silver/white hair and a deep voice. OMG when James Coburn was alive, he would get me every time. Just the sound of his voice! Oh my...

I can relate with you. I was always naturally attracted to older women. Though age was, and never has been, the only factor. I'd still go with an older woman if the chemistry was there. Lack of inhibition to kink is extremely attractive. lol
 
love an older man, appreciates me more

Thank you, from all of us. It's nice to be appreciated. lol Many would laugh and say I'm not 'old' because I haven't hit 50 yet, and that's quite true, but I'm not 30 any more either. I deeply appreciate the younger women and their openness, kinkiness and lack of inhibition. Granted..I'm kinkier than most. Been around. Learn that there's no reason to limit one's self sexually.
 
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