Anger issues and Lit men

[Scarlettmysteri]

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[IamScottFree]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

Good lord, that's horrific. I know a few people like that offline and it's equally as difficult to watch

Hope you're able to find a good guy, fellow Canuck

 

[pj1412]

Scarlett, I would like to promise you that we are not all like that. Though unfortunately they may be the majority on a site like this there are still some gentlemen in existence who will say please and thank you. Oh and hold a door open for you if you wish.

 

[plesmoreagain]

LOL - This is Lit, which means that there is a great diversity among us.
There are scattered among the really nice and pleasant guys some really big assholes.
Best thing to do is say goodbye to the bad ones and keep the good ones

 

[Scarlettmysteri]

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[Scarlettmysteri]

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[IamScottFree]

Thank you

No thanks necessary. It's what we do up here, eh?

 

[thaneofcawdor]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

Wow, sorry to hear about this. I guess the internet is full of folks, hiding behing their screens, feeling they can do what they want.
I treat folks the same, online or in real life. Ok, maybe I don't flirt as openly in RL. But, you get the idea.
I'd like to think I am a good man, shoot me a PM sometime, we'll see...

 

[Pawleys16]

Which is what I thought I was doing...

The world has gone and got itself in a hell-of-a mess. Today is all about ME and the idea that you respect your elders, women and law enforcement has all gone by the wayside. With that you get men that think the world revolves around them. That they are supposed to degrade women and talk to them with no respect at all. You read on here about dominance - what the hell happened to equals in a relationship?

Well - I’ll get off my old man soapbox and just say - I know what it was like and it was better for all. New concept - men opening doors for women and a couple walking through life as equals.

 

[plesmoreagain]

Which is what I thought I was doing...

I don't know what kind of conversation you were having with the guy that he turned on you.
Most of the guys are nice..

 

[plesmoreagain]

Wow, sorry to hear about this. I guess the internet is full of folks, hiding behing their screens, feeling they can do what they want.
I treat folks the same, online or in real life. Ok, maybe I don't flirt as openly in RL. But, you get the idea.
I'd like to think I am a good man, shoot me a PM sometime, we'll see...

Hey - pull those pants up!!!!!

 

[thaneofcawdor]

Hey - pull those pants up!!!!!

my pants are up

 

[plesmoreagain]

my pants are up

okay home boy..............

 

[HornyHal]

Sadly a large number of men on here have been been attending this sausage party for so long that when a fine young lady like happens by they loose their minds at the opportunity and when it doesn’t go exactly how they imagined waiting for said opportunity they loose their shit and explode. Exposing the unfortunate truth, that they are emotionally unstable duchebags that think it’s right to talk to a woman like that

Don’t give up hope, there are gentlemen on Lit, we are few but proud.

 

[scotluvsoral]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

Of course they exist and I suspect their numbers are many, just like there are many terrific and engaging women here...but there are also scary ones. Monsters may be either gender, although I would agree my gender seems to produce more of them than yours! I am very sorry that you have encountered those who have that darkness in them.

 

[Candore]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

Good men do exist, but unfortunately there are a lot of angry people in this world

 

[KeltAssassin]

Hey.

I think looking for good men on lit is like looking for good men in the gutter outside a bar after closing. It’s a sex chat, erotica site. The end game for men in general, if not this site is to get laid or get off. Shocking I know. And via internet people lose their humanity. I’m sorry it sucks but you knew what you were getting when you picked it up. People can be pigs.

 

[writermanbrit]

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?...............
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I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

I'm a male and have used other contact/sex sites, and what you describe is all too common from what ladies have told me on every site I have used.

There are far more men on these sites, so perhaps some of them want to try and get a female all to themselves, and get angry when they cannot find one whom they can own and control.

Having said that, some of the females are almost as bad, with a very anti-male attitude, perhaps due to all the hassle they get from the idiots who contact them.

Anyway, please be assured not all men are so dreadful, and please don't stop looking or chatting or just being yourself.... the minute you change, then the bad guys have won, so don't let them bother you.

 

[vibes]

These monsters that you describe do exist in real life so, of course, they exist on the internet where they take advantage of an initial anonimity and possibility to disguise under an easy mask.

I have a limited experience of Lit women revealing themselves real weirdos after a somewhat prolonged conversation.

If you feel you have been abused beyond the general acceptable limits, I think you should out them for all to know and beware

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

well, while I agree wth the Kelt-dude above to some degree, (essentially that Lit is a cesspool, so if you are gonna jump in, expect to get dirty) it STILL doesn't give anyone the right to treat others with disrespect.

Scarlett,

Be sure to talk openly about what you will or will not tolerate.
Block people if necessary.
Report threatening posts.


With any luck, you'll end up just like me and never have to ever worry about being bothered by anyone..lol

 

[7inchglory]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

A lot of people on the internet hide behind a mask and can type whatever they want. I've talked with many literotica women and they've shown me messages from their inbox on how creepy or how demanding some people can get - on a first message.

Some guys are on here because they don't have 'game' in real life - including my former self because I used to be so afraid to approach women. I was a lucky one because I still managed to meet women, but there was a point prior to that where I had nothing happening in my life. I didn't become a rage-aholic but instead I was ticked off at myself... I'm guessing you might be dealing with sexually frustrated guys...

There needs to be some type of rating system on this website that filters out messages from anyone with crappy ass scores. I find it's the main reason why a lot of women - especially the 20-30 age crowd leaves. There are better options for them to meet people on their smartphones, without all of the bullshit first messages: 'show me your tits', 'I want you be my daughter and I'll tie you up and make my dog do things to you', etc etc.

 

[cliteatingman]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

My opinion. Many people come to lit to releieve sexual frustration in RL. Many men have a sense of sexual entitlement. The combination of entitlement and frustration can produce rage. The anonymity of lit makes it easier to visit rage on the undeserving. Hope that helps.

 

[LadyJS]

Not sure this is the best place to put this, but since the below situations have all happened as a result of the personals...

Has anyone else here experienced extreme anger issues with Lit men?

I’ve had some very good experiences with what appear to be open and honest men on here who then reveal themselves to be so full of hate and anger that it’s like being punched out cold.

I’m reeling from the last one in which I was told how I think and what I want and none of what was presented to me sounded anything like who I am. And when it happened, I no longer recognized the person I was talking to. They became a monster literally overnight.

I’m finding this is the norm rather than the exception here. Leading me to wonder: do good men exist?

I can't say that I've run into a guy on Lit with anger issues (they're generally put off by my own anger issues!), but I've had my more than generous share of assholes, most being those that lie through their teeth just so that they can get something. I've gotten to the point where I don't waste my time with them anymore. I have better things to do than to play their games.

My advice to you: tell them to fuck off, block/ignore their sorry asses and then move on.

 

[KrazieKat69]

Sorry to hear this Scarlett! If you want to chat with someone who isn’t like that I’m looking for people to chat with!! I’m a bit goofy at times if ya can deal with that!?!?

 

[Scarlettmysteri]

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