Trans ladies - have you ever tricked a guy ?

[writermanbrit]

Hi, hope the wording of the question is ok, as not everyone agrees on these things.

I ask the question as I suddenly remembered something from many years ago - I used to live in a place called Swindon, population around 200,000 now but only half that back then.
I was walking behind a row of shops near my house when a gorgeous blonde stepped out of a doorway and smiled at me - she was a bit slutty looking but really sexy.
I was new to the area and asked my friends about her - that's Diane they said she has a hair salon where you saw her......... but she's a man.
I didn't believe them at first, but others backed it up over the next few days, and so I avoided her, as it was not an option back then in that town, unless you were also gay yourself.

Turns out she used to go out clubbing to a large place where coach parties from other towns would come, as it was really big and had a revolving bar - quite a novelty years ago. Local guys would watch and have big fun at the expense of men who would flirt with her, take her onto the dance floor and often be seen passionately kissing her, as they would never have guessed the truth.

The locals used to wait until the end of the night when Diane was safely out of the way or chatting with security, then tell the men the truth..... some of them exploded and had to be physically removed !

Anyway, I am curious if any of you lovely ladies have ever done a similar thing, maybe to feel more of a woman, to see if you are really as passable as your friends told you..... or any other reason ?

I personally don't see any harm in it, especially if things don't go too far, but can understand that some of you would feel it is morally wrong to trick someone, although it is not exactly morally nice to make fun of someone else's sexuality either, and most of you will have had that happen to you at times.

 

[stickygirl]

It's probably best to leave comments and questions like this back in the last century where they belong

 

[writermanbrit]

It's probably best to leave comments and questions like this back in the last century where they belong

I have been reading stories on lit for around fifteen years, even though I have only recently joined the forum, and from what I have read, this seemed to be a place where there was room for all sorts of opinions and ideas within the very broad sphere of human sexuality.
Some comments on many of the stories showed that not everyone agreed with everyone else, but there was always a variety of opinions, indicating to me that there would always be those who agreed and also those who disagreed with anything that was written.

I have obviously offended you, for which I apologise, but I'm afraid that I cannot agree that my opinions belong in the last century, as I have read comments and stories, as well as exchanged messages with many people in this century, who have opinions you would probably find even more distasteful, even though they are made by those who are very much pro-trans (if that is not an offensive term).

Had you added ''In my opinion'' to your words I could easily have accepted them, but to make a statement as if you are a standard bearer for all that is right and proper, is a bit too much...... in my opinion.
I would honestly have thought that those contributing to this section in particular, would be much more tolerant of a wide variety of opinions and ideas, considering what many people have to put up with by way of oppression, aggression and ridicule in their everyday lives.

If a trans lady is in a mainstream nightclub and is asked to dance by a straight male who might well think she was born female, is she going to say 'yes of course, but I am trans', or is she going to dance with the guy and perhaps say nothing unless he wishes to ask for her phone number or something ?
I am sure this happens, and perhaps my main question was badly worded, but I am genuinely curious what attractive trans ladies on this forum would do, as I have had similar conversations with trans ladies on other sites, so I know it actually does happen in this century.

 

[stickygirl]

Reading comments and stories elsewhere does not make it ‘ok’ to post homophobic and transphobic posts in a LGBT thread . Go post in the GB if you want to insult people.

In case you didn’t even realise you were doing it
“She’s a man”
“I didn't believe them at first, but others backed it up over the next few days, and so I avoided her, as it was not an option back then in that town, unless you were also gay yourself.”

And since you acknowledged not everyone would agree with you, don’t jump down the neck of the first person who had the temerity to do so.