MMF advice

[hopingforthebest]

I have been talking with my wife of 20 years about having a three way lately. She gets mildly turned on when talking about another woman joining but gets instantly wet and cums so hard when I talk about another man joining, especially when I talk about sucking him, she would love to see me take a facial I know. This all started with her pegging me and making me suck her dildo. I am all for it but she is content to just keep it fantasy. My question is does anyone have any advice on how to make it actually happen. I know she would love it if she just went through with it.

 

[ericrodman101]

Hire an escort. You get a healthy professional who aims to please and no untidy personal relationship stuff ie you never have to see them again.

 

[hopingforthebest]

Thank you. She has said that she would be more comfortable if it "just happens".

 

[Scotty13]

Just ask.

If we meet in a public place like a bar and hit it off we can go from there. Or it can be as simple as a prearranged nsa meet up at a hotel room.

 

[Mqoi]

My ex knew I'm bi before we got married and it wasn't long before she started talking about MMF threesomes. I was getting kind of cock hungry myself and asked if she had anyone in mind and who. She said a friend of ours. We invited him to go with us on a weekend camping trip. After we got there, we all went skinny dipping and things just happened from there.

 

[Riley69]

Open up about fantasy

One way to get her very interested is to ask her to describe her fantasy of watching you with another man. Get her to open up about describing what the man would look like, what mannerisms he has, what she thinks his cock would look like, etc. Then have her describe what she would REALLY enjoy watching you do with him, as far as how far she wants you to go, positions, whether she wants you to swallow his load, things like that. And, of course, find out how much SHE wants to participate.

If you get her talking about it and describing in detail what she wants to see, then she will naturally get very turned-on about it more and more. The chances of it actually happening in real life will certainly be better.

 

[yukonnights]

Thank you. She has said that she would be more comfortable if it "just happens".

This is obviously a very clear expression of the way it would be the best for her. So in essence, she's already said she's interested...and how she would envision it coming to fruition. I think it will be a series of steps;

The hard part for everyone is finding the right one where "it just happens" spontaneously. Obviously it means putting yourselves 'out there' where you might meet him. But even then, it might never happen.

So how to both, keep the flame of interest alive...and move it closer to reality? If you don't already do so, perhaps indulging in some MMF video would keep things alive...and maybe even hone the appetite for the real thing.

In the end, I think you'll have to place an ad seeking the kind of play partner you seek. This puts you in the driver's seat, and it's you two who get to choose who will get a shot at you. Not knowing your wife's personality, it's hard to say much more. But, I do know you have an advantage single men do not...the simple fact that there is a female involved will increase you're chances. How you arrange it so "it just happens" would have to be planned out by you two. (In my mind, that would involve some date nights with all three...like what was mentioned above about the nude swimming. Perhaps she just needs to get comfortable with "him" a little first? Ask her.)

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

I have been talking with my wife of 20 years about having a three way lately. She gets mildly turned on when talking about another woman joining but gets instantly wet and cums so hard when I talk about another man joining, especially when I talk about sucking him, she would love to see me take a facial I know. This all started with her pegging me and making me suck her dildo. I am all for it but she is content to just keep it fantasy. My question is does anyone have any advice on how to make it actually happen. I know she would love it if she just went through with it.

First, select a couple of guys and have sex them, just you. Suck their cocks.

You'll know which one to invite for the three way./

More important you'll know which not to invite.

 

[hopingforthebest]

Thank you all, some great info and ideas. Now to use them.