Dom looking

[ukdom]

I know you are out there. Submissive and willing. Come and play. Add me to Kik hertfordshiredom or yahoo messenger hertfordshiredom89
Open the message as Sir and then tell me about yourself. don't keep me waiting.

 

[Gentledom45]

I know you are out there. Submissive and willing. Come and play. Add me to Kik hertfordshiredom or yahoo messenger hertfordshiredom89
Open the message as Sir and then tell me about yourself. don't keep me waiting.

So you want them to call you Sir first thing huh. What about making a friendship and gaining trust? A lot more too it then being called Sir before you know anything about them.

 

[ukdom]

Sir is a good start. It's a sign of respect when approaching a Dom.

 

[LadySeren]

So you want them to call you Sir first thing huh. What about making a friendship and gaining trust? A lot more too it then being called Sir before you know anything about them.

I liked both men's replies, actually. I'm from the South, and "Sir" is social etiquette 101 for anyone and everyone to use when addressing another male regardless of age, gender, authority. It's just polite formality. He's looking for a serious, obedient sub. But on the flip side, being told how to address someone is also quite presumptuous. I just took it as he's being direct to weed out those not ready for him. I'm told I'm a switch, so I guess I naturally see both sides to things fairly quickly. Also, since I use "sir" in my daily life from toddlers (No, sir, no more tv.) to my elders and even men my age I don't know well, "sir" is a bit too casual for me, but I know it is quite ego-boosting for men to hear My man is from up North, so he enjoys hearing me call him sir, but not in public and not all the time in private, even. Just my thoughts... Have a great evening/morning, Doms.

 

[barefootgirl69]

That's the brilliant thing about Personal adverts... it belongs to the OP and he can say whatever he wants. There's no need to beat someone up for their quirks, desires, standards.

I'm even going to follow my own words and not post SURPRISE in your ad, GentleDom.

That being said, I also grew up calling men 'Sir' as respect. For some reason, I can differentiate between respect for a position/office and calling Him 'Sir'... and not just because the latter makes me tingle a bit. There are Dom friends I call Sir because I respect them.

I'm definitely not in the camp of "you have to EARN it or my submission". If there's respect, it's because of who you are, not what you do.

Good luck, UKDOM.

 

[lanceGibs]

That's the brilliant thing about Personal adverts... it belongs to the OP and he can say whatever he wants. There's no need to beat someone up for their quirks, desires, standards.

I'm even going to follow my own words and not post SURPRISE in your ad, GentleDom.

That being said, I also grew up calling men 'Sir' as respect. For some reason, I can differentiate between respect for a position/office and calling Him 'Sir'... and not just because the latter makes me tingle a bit. There are Dom friends I call Sir because I respect them.

I'm definitely not in the camp of "you have to EARN it or my submission". If there's respect, it's because of who you are, not what you do.

Good luck, UKDOM.

I appreciate what you say Barefootgirl69. Politeness begets politeness.
But upbringing can not be brought over the counter.

 

[Gentledom45]

You are very right and I was completely wrong and I apologize. I wasn’t looking at it from that point of view. I apologize again and wish you best of luck in your search

 

[lanceGibs]

You are very right and I was completely wrong and I apologize. I wasn’t looking at it from that point of view. I apologize again and wish you best of luck in your search

Well done
Accepting your faults and striving to improve upon them is the measure of a true man .
Thanks for being with me on the boards.

 

[Gentledom45]

Well done
Accepting your faults and striving to improve upon them is the measure of a true man .
Thanks for being with me on the boards.

Your very welcome and wish you best of luck