im straight i think

[cheetah2]

first one

had mutual friend set me up with a straight guy that liked to give NSA blowjobs, I don't think I lasted 90 seconds and he got up and left. waited a day and contacted to see if we could have another meet up but more casual since the nervousness was done.
he agreed and we meet on xmas day and got together and started with mutual hand jobs and he leaned over and started sucking and I didn't want it be as quick so I stopped him and made him stand up so I could continue with the hand job. as I was stroking I just leaned forward to lick the head of his cock and when I tasted the precum dripping off I just had to put him into my mouth. I sucked him for a few seconds and stood up so he could start sucking me again.
it felt so good and I didn't want to come so fast so I stopped him again, we just sat there rubbing our cocks for a short time.
well after i calmed down I had him stand up so I could rub his cock again and slowly leand forward and pulled him back into my mouth as I flicked the underside of his cock I could feel the precum pulsing out. I didn't want him to cum in my mouth and had told him so.
he told me to stop and stand up, as I did he sucked my cock into his mouth and gave me the most awesome feeling as i came in his mouth.
unfortunately people started showing up and we had to stop.
out of this I learned that I can deep throat a 6 + cock

 

[wickedpanda]

I'm thinking your bi but have a great day and party on!

 

[cheetah2]

bi dont think so

but what am experience

 

[ConfusedSheep]

out of this I learned that I can deep throat a 6 + cock

Totally straight

 

[gentlefeline]

depends. are you turned on by male faces?

 

[cuck72]

first one

had mutual friend set me up with a straight guy that liked to give NSA blowjobs, I don't think I lasted 90 seconds and he got up and left. waited a day and contacted to see if we could have another meet up but more casual since the nervousness was done.
he agreed and we meet on xmas day and got together and started with mutual hand jobs and he leaned over and started sucking and I didn't want it be as quick so I stopped him and made him stand up so I could continue with the hand job. as I was stroking I just leaned forward to lick the head of his cock and when I tasted the precum dripping off I just had to put him into my mouth. I sucked him for a few seconds and stood up so he could start sucking me again.
it felt so good and I didn't want to come so fast so I stopped him again, we just sat there rubbing our cocks for a short time.
well after i calmed down I had him stand up so I could rub his cock again and slowly leand forward and pulled him back into my mouth as I flicked the underside of his cock I could feel the precum pulsing out. I didn't want him to cum in my mouth and had told him so.
he told me to stop and stand up, as I did he sucked my cock into his mouth and gave me the most awesome feeling as i came in his mouth.
unfortunately people started showing up and we had to stop.
out of this I learned that I can deep throat a 6 + cock

I wouldn't say your straight if you liked sucking a guys cock. But Bi yes , if you are turned on by females too? I believe I'm very bi, just because I love eating my wife's pussy and checking out women. BUT! I watch and beat off A LOT! to gay porn , and I have fantasies about sucking guys off I know. I can get just as excited thinking of sucking cock as much as thinking of other men fucking my wife. There for I consider myself bi.

 

[OpenMouth]

depends. are you turned on by male faces?

This is it. I couldn't kiss a man or put my cock in one (unless it was important to him - I mean, I wouldn't get any sexual excitement from it).

I've never considered myself bi but my activities definitely drop me squarely in that category!

 

[starider07]

Does it really matter ?

It seems it depends on who you talk to. You wrote a friend connected you to a "straight guy that likes to give NSA bj" I have read scenario's like this before. Someone saying they are straight but enjoy sucking cock. So he doesn't like anything to do with a man but suck a nice cock. Hhmm. Does that really make him gay, or even Bi ? Sounds like a grey area there to me.
By definition, a gay is a man that prefers to have sexual relations with only men.
Bi, is someone that is okay playing with either sex, but usually open to far more than giving oral.
Some guys fight being called Bi, or some are quick to be called gay.

I don't really care for labels. It is what it is. You like sucking cock ? Then suck cock. You want that as just a little spice on the side, do it. Want more ? Have at it.

Point is when it comes right down to it, what does it matter ? Who cares that much about the label ? You like something, don't let a label determine how you feel about it. Just enjoy life. Do what pleases you and don't worry about the label whatever it is.

But seriously if you have to ask, just look at the definitions. If you fit into one then that be you.
Accept it and move on to some fun. Regardless of what category you fall into, you are still you. Your still the same man you were yesterday and will be tomorrow as well.

Do not let societies affliction of labeling people determine what you enjoy

 

[Nezhul]

I think you are bisexual. I kind of think that the definition of completely straight people - is being turned on only by the opposite gender, and being turned off by both giving or receiving any kind of sex from the same gender.

If you are fine with either giving or receiving (or both) any kind of sex from your own gender - you are bisexual.

If you are turned off by the opposite gender - you are gay.

Of course it's always a gradient, not just 3 states that you can be in

 

[Seafoamzone]

Forget about labels, have fun, be true to yourself, and don't hurt anyone. The rest takes care of itself.

 

[Mqoi]

Forget about labels, have fun, be true to yourself, and don't hurt anyone. The rest takes care of itself.

This!

I like oral sex, giving and receiving, male or female. I'm just me.

 

[wickedpanda]

It seems it depends on who you talk to. You wrote a friend connected you to a "straight guy that likes to give NSA bj" I have read scenario's like this before. Someone saying they are straight but enjoy sucking cock. So he doesn't like anything to do with a man but suck a nice cock. Hhmm. Does that really make him gay, or even Bi ? Sounds like a grey area there to me.
By definition, a gay is a man that prefers to have sexual relations with only men.
Bi, is someone that is okay playing with either sex, but usually open to far more than giving oral.
Some guys fight being called Bi, or some are quick to be called gay.

I don't really care for labels. It is what it is. You like sucking cock ? Then suck cock. You want that as just a little spice on the side, do it. Want more ? Have at it.

Point is when it comes right down to it, what does it matter ? Who cares that much about the label ? You like something, don't let a label determine how you feel about it. Just enjoy life. Do what pleases you and don't worry about the label whatever it is.

But seriously if you have to ask, just look at the definitions. If you fit into one then that be you.
Accept it and move on to some fun. Regardless of what category you fall into, you are still you. Your still the same man you were yesterday and will be tomorrow as well.

Do not let societies affliction of labeling people determine what you enjoy

Yes labels and self identifing are important or as Buddha said one must know themselves before you can know others.
He did asked after all.

Want more proof labels are important just look at the people that are multi sexual and multi labeled.

 

[Ghostee]

but what am experience

Do you like sex with females?
Does it matter if your straight,gay or bi?
Did you have fun?

 

[ConfusedSheep]

The context is the determining factor imo. Getting fucked in the ass by a guy is no different than a female fucking you with a strap on, its anal stimulation.

I think its about the romantic aspect, if you want to have a male partner for a long-term relationship, or if you get aroused by the guys appearance (not the cock obv), then you're probably gay/bi.

If its just the cock that arouses you minus the rest of the guy, its definitely just a cock fetish, since masturbating your own would be considered a homosexual act (which means we would all be inherently bisexual). Just my 2 bits about it

 

[Ghostee]

The context is the determining factor imo. Getting fucked in the ass by a guy is no different than a female fucking you with a strap on, its anal stimulation.

I think its about the romantic aspect, if you want to have a male partner for a long-term relationship, or if you get aroused by the guys appearance (not the cock obv), then you're probably gay/bi.

If its just the cock that arouses you minus the rest of the guy, its definitely just a cock fetish, since masturbating your own would be considered a homosexual act (which means we would all be inherently bisexual). Just my 2 bits about it

Nope playing with yourself does make you gay or homo anything playing with some one else's cock does, self love is just an ends to pent up pleasure .

Where do you people get this really bad info?

 

[OpenMouth]

Nope playing with yourself does make you gay or homo anything playing with some one else's cock does, self love is just an ends to pent up pleasure .

Where do you people get this really bad info?

I think CS was joking...

 

[Carnevil9]

It's only gay if you cuddle afterwards.

 

[Series 6]

but what am experience

First off, hot story. Did you have your friend fix you up with this guy with the intent to receive a blow job? How did that conversation come about?

Why did you feel the need to come on this board and tell about an experience that could be labeled as "bi" or "gay" but state that you are "im straight i think"? Is it important to you that you define yourself as straight?

I would say, don't worry if you are bi or straight. Your pleasure is what you enjoy. Own it. You don't have to tell anyone what you like. It's your privacy to keep.

 

[SissySalina]

sissy 2 cents:
If you want a label then you must define what the label is.
What is Gay?
What is Bi?
What is Straight?

Over time the meaning of all these terms has changed, so what does Cheetah2 define these terms as. That is what really matters.

 

[priapusone]

I'm straight...

Crazy ideas about frotting, I have!

 

[ConfusedSheep]

I think CS was joking...

Yeah, I was poking fun.

There are grey areas when trying to describe being gay, especially when tying in fetishes. The dictionary obviously says any sexual desire or behavior, so sucking a guys cock would constitute being homosexual or bi.

If I want to have a capable male cum in my ass, or have me suck his cock, if I have no interest in building anything with the guy, he's just meat to me, I have a complete disconnect in feelings with the person, I'm only there to either get fucked or suck cock. In this example, I would admit to having a cock fetish, but I wouldn't label myself as gay per se, even though the dictionary rightfully could classify me as such.

Just my view about it, I personally only see being gay as having a dating partner being male (albeit not being the actual meaning, I admit to being technically incorrect).

I didn't mean to give any kind of confusing or wrong information, if some people got that impression, I apologize.

 

[yukonnights]

This entire "label phobia" is interesting...and it's been raging for years. Most of the advice is; "Don't worry about labels." But the funny part is that it usually goes like this -> "I'm (insert my label here) but, just be you, 'cause labels suck etc, etc."

Since labels are apparently so bad, perhaps we should ditch these labels too, man, woman, transgender, child, doctor, lawyer, porn star, father, mother.....?

Obviously that sounds pretty stupid. But it makes me wonder why it gets so touchy gooey when we label anything to do with sexuality

Maybe a dictionary would help figure this out;
Asexual: noun; a person who has no sexual feelings or desires.
Bisexuall: noun; a person who is sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender.
Homosexuall: noun; a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex. (Gay: noun; a homosexual, especially a man. & Lesbian: noun; a homosexual woman.)
Heterosexual: noun: a person who is sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

Note: In each of the above it is defining "sexual attraction", not gender identity, not romantic attraction...sexual attraction. Also note that it is only the term bisexual that has the words "not exclusively" in the definition. This really isn't that complicated, is it? If the shoe fits why not just wear it? Why the fear and phobia? Why the caveat; "I'm only attracted to the cock not his face, therefore I'm heterosexual straight as an arrow"???. Not many people get hard looking at a face do they? All language is labels. The "labels" enable us to communicate, and without them it would be chaos...sort of like these recurring discussions about labels

 

[ConfusedSheep]

"I'm only attracted to the cock not his face, therefore I'm heterosexual straight as an arrow"???. Not many people get hard looking at a face do they? All language is labels. The "labels" enable us to communicate, and without them it would be chaos...sort of like these recurring discussions about labels

I sort of thought that fetishes dont infringe on your sexuality.

An honest question is what difference does it make when you have a female with a strap on vs a man with a cock? Having a person stimulating your ass for you shouldn't alter your sexuality imo. Just the same as if you like having large objects in your throat, whether its a piece of rubber or an actual male penis. Sounds like I'm spewing my mental gymnastics, but I'm still discovering parts of myself as I go.

Not trying to argue, this is an interesting subject of discussion.

 

[yukonnights]

I sort of thought that fetishes dont infringe on your sexuality.

An honest question is what difference does it make when you have a female with a strap on vs a man with a cock? Having a person stimulating your ass for you shouldn't alter your sexuality imo. Just the same as if you like having large objects in your throat, whether its a piece of rubber or an actual male penis. Sounds like I'm spewing my mental gymnastics, but I'm still discovering parts of myself as I go.

Not trying to argue, this is an interest subject of discussion.

Indeed it is an interesting discussion. To answer your first question; In my opinion, a male having sex with a female, with or without a strap-on, is heterosexual by definition...sex with the opposite gender. And I absolutely agree that anal stimulation, in and of itself, has zero influence on your sexual identity, per se. But if the person doing the stimulation is a person of the same sex, with either a cock or a dildo, then the overall sexual act is homosexual by definition.

If the male in question sought out the real cock, then he would be either bisexual or homosexual...the only way he could maintain his claim on being "straight" would be if he was being raped.

[remember though, we're not discussing what may be going on inside the man's head. This get's more sticky; If the man is really getting off on imagining that the woman is a man and the dildo a warm cock...it's still a sexual act among two people of the opposite sex - thus, the act is heterosexual even if the fantasy is homo-erotic]

The example of the large throat object isn't really serious since it's not really a common sexual desire to have "large objects" shoved down the throat in one's bag of kinks...the eroticism is born of what the object may be, me thinks

 

[klippert]

Im in an advice mood this morning.... "don't over think it" If you try to CNN pop psychology this...you'll become comatose, and find yourself on some messed up web site that will try to convince you you're a victim of some micro aggression...
just sit back and take a deep breath...and swallow next time...then go eat some pussy